Newbie Awake at 45 Posted January 25, 2007 Newbie Report Share Posted January 25, 2007 I am 45, and divorced for just over a year. I have just had my 1st sexual experience with a man (only the 3rd in my life), and experienced both Clitoral and Vaginal orgasms simultaneously. This shocked him (had never had a woman do that before), and made me think there was something odd going on with me. I have also experienced clitoral orgasms with him while he was just touching my nipples. Is this normal? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted January 25, 2007 Report Share Posted January 25, 2007 First, count yourself very lucky!! Enjoy it!!! No, you're not odd, weird, or having some strange thing happen. It does occur, though not commonly. You say you're in your 40's, which is when a woman hits her sexual peak. So, that, and whatever your man is doing to you, you're having a wonderful experience!! I'm sure the both of you can make it even more enjoyable by playing, communicating and just having fun with it!!!Enjoy, have fun, and I am SSOOOO jealous!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Awake at 45 Posted January 25, 2007 Author Newbie Report Share Posted January 25, 2007 I have another question. How long does a woman's sexual peak last? If I am 45, and it's supposed to peak in my 40's, do I only have 5 years where I am going to be like this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Awake at 45 Posted January 29, 2007 Author Newbie Report Share Posted January 29, 2007 Another question: I have now had 5 sexual encounters with this man, and although I am averaging approx. 10 orgasms per session, he has not gone down on me yet, having only been w/ 2 other men, and both of them husbands who just did, how do I approach that? I have gone down on him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members WifeMomSlave Posted January 29, 2007 Members Report Share Posted January 29, 2007 I would just aks him about it. Talk to him when you are away from the bedroom, and not doing anything sexual. I would be honest and tell him what you want. You said you have only been togeather 4 times, so he wont know what you like and want unless you tell him. Also ask him what he likes and wants. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Awake at 45 Posted February 1, 2007 Author Newbie Report Share Posted February 1, 2007 Didn't want to get caught up in the middle of a debate, I guess I will just wait a little bit and see what happens...New to asking these questions and for the record, I am quite healthy, just ran the Miami race and finished 2nd in my class, do 6 miles a day walking, 3 running, and limited alchohol, no drugs, lots of volunteer work....so, I am not sure if any of that affects "that smell", but it's never been a problem with the 2 exes. Before you ask...yes, I shower after each event. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MysticLady Posted February 1, 2007 Members Report Share Posted February 1, 2007 Didn't want to get caught up in the middle of a debate, I guess I will just wait a little bit and see what happens...New to asking these questions and for the record, I am quite healthy, just ran the Miami race and finished 2nd in my class, do 6 miles a day walking, 3 running, and limited alchohol, no drugs, lots of volunteer work....so, I am not sure if any of that affects "that smell", but it's never been a problem with the 2 exes. Before you ask...yes, I shower after each event.You live in Miami??Liesl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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