Newbie Anime_Crazed Posted February 21, 2007 Newbie Report Share Posted February 21, 2007 I can orgasm masturbating no problem, but I can't during sex somehow. Even when touching myself and long periods of oral sex I can't. I'll feel intense pleasure, but I can never finish. What's up? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted February 22, 2007 Report Share Posted February 22, 2007 Welcome!! Many women have this problem. IME, it's largely due to us women not communicating with our partners what we do and don't like. Sometimes its fear of hurting his feelings/ego, other times, it may just be because we don't know HOW to communicate our desires. Verbal and non-verbal cues (like if he's doing something REALLY good with his tongue, grabbing a handful of hair, and pushing him down harder) are important. A good lover for YOU is not born, he is made. Each woman is different in what they like and dislike sexually. Also, relaxation is important as well. If you're stressing or constantly thinking "I can't orgasm this way.....I can't orgasm this way...." is too much like work. It takes time and patience to teach your mind to just shut up! Also, read the article Howard suggested. It's very very helpful!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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