Intro........

[Incognito]

Hi all. I've been lurking for a few days. I just wanted to say hi.

I experimented with sex toys several years back with my ex, but I was always left unsatisfied. Too cold, hard and foreign feeling, uncomfortable. I can't help but wonder if I was doing something wrong though. We spent a lot of money on toys, but I got rid of them. I've read through the site and sex ed tabs, what I'd really like to do is WATCH some folks cyber on cam as a voyeur, so I can see what others do. Is that ever an option?

I'm interested in building up to multiple O's.

[Incognito]

Hi all. I've been lurking for a few days. I just wanted to say hi.

I experimented with sex toys several years back with my ex, but I was always left unsatisfied. Too cold, hard and foreign feeling, uncomfortable. I can't help but wonder if I was doing something wrong though. We spent a lot of money on toys, but I got rid of them. I've read through the site and sex ed tabs, what I'd really like to do is WATCH some folks cyber on cam as a voyeur, so I can see what others do. Is that ever an option?

I'm interested in building up to multiple O's.

I created a new yahoo messenger ID: peepinginyourwindow.

[Tyger]

First, welcome to the site! I'm sorry you didn't enjoy your toys. Maybe you were doing something wrong, it's really hard to tell. YOu many have just had the wrong kind of materials for you. Some people like a more realistic feeling like jelly or cyberskin, to the hard plastic ones.

As for cybering, there ARE several sites out there, where people watch each other, put on cyber-shows and whatnot. This isn't one of them. However, what we are, is adults, learning, loving, discussing, educating, and debating about sex, sexual issues, toys, have Toy Reviewers, and of course, the shopping aspect of TooTimid too.

Again, welcome, and I hope you enjoy it here!

[Incognito]

First, welcome to the site! I'm sorry you didn't enjoy your toys. Maybe you were doing something wrong, it's really hard to tell. YOu many have just had the wrong kind of materials for you. Some people like a more realistic feeling like jelly or cyberskin, to the hard plastic ones.

As for cybering, there ARE several sites out there, where people watch each other, put on cyber-shows and whatnot. This isn't one of them. However, what we are, is adults, learning, loving, discussing, educating, and debating about sex, sexual issues, toys, have Toy Reviewers, and of course, the shopping aspect of TooTimid too.

Again, welcome, and I hope you enjoy it here!

Hi Tyger... thanks for the welcome.

I realize this isn't one of those sites and that's why I love it so much! It's a very mature site that addresses adult play in a very direct, dignified way. It is not raunchy at all, I'm reluctant to visit webcam sites b/c I am not sure what I would encounter. Maybe I should shop for an instructional video???? You're right, I think I need a different feeling material... as a matter of fact I'm sure of it.

Thanks so much and kudos to the nicest adult community on the web!

[Mikayla1]

Honestly, the kind of sites you are referencing are not going to be as educational as "raunchy" and a "what will you do for me" type of thing. If you are honestly looking for information about sex toys and pleasure, there is an educational video or three I can recommend that may help you a bit.

One is Juli Ashton's "Toys for Great Sex"

Toys For Great Sex

The other is Nina Hartley's Advanced Guide to Sex Toys:

Get Nina

Or, "Toys for Better Sex"

Check it out

Let me know if these help you - and always remember, personal preference takes the cake with toys!

[nosleepnmesa]

I just wanted to say WELCOME to the FORUM!!! I agree highly with Tyger and Mikayla this is a wonderful place to learn and those videos I think will help alot. Also if you go threw the sex toy reviews I know myself and Mikayla and Tyger have given detailed discribtions on how we used them ect. It might help I know there are alot of others here that have also given detailed discribtions on how they used them and what their partner thought ect...

Welcome again and I sure hope that you find that perfect toy that will do it for you. I have a couple cyberskin ones and I love them when I am alone and looking for the "real" feel I play with my cyberskin ones, heck with a little imagination or a good porn in I can reach that perfect O.

Best wishes!!