Members ginanjerry Posted August 2, 2007 Members Report Share Posted August 2, 2007 when we try anal I have a hard time getting inside...Either it slips by and dosent go in or I start to bend and then it slips by or my head kinda flattens out and wont go in...It's like almost but never quiet make it in...We use plenty of lube and have tried all different kinds..i always use plenty of foreplay and make sure she is excited before trying...I am going slow and taking my time abd trying every position in the book...Another question is while we are warming up for anal...Alot of times she will cum while we are still in the starting phase and then she is alot less likley to be into it after that..I will be going down on her and when i start to slide my finger inside her anally she will cum and then kinda lose interest...anybody else have these problems and if so how do you work around them?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ginanjerry Posted August 2, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted August 2, 2007 Good info thanksBut part of my problem is that during the getting ready phase when I start to use one finger she will cum...And she loves it!! So much that she will have a very intense orgasm..After that she is not very open to it!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members j.hmmm Posted August 3, 2007 Members Report Share Posted August 3, 2007 when we try anal I have a hard time getting inside...Either it slips by and dosent go in or I start to bend and then it slips by or my head kinda flattens out and wont go in...It's like almost but never quiet make it in...We use plenty of lube and have tried all different kinds..i always use plenty of foreplay and make sure she is excited before trying...I am going slow and taking my time abd trying every position in the book...Another question is while we are warming up for anal...Alot of times she will cum while we are still in the starting phase and then she is alot less likley to be into it after that..I will be going down on her and when i start to slide my finger inside her anally she will cum and then kinda lose interest...anybody else have these problems and if so how do you work around them??I wish I had a problem like that to solve,JH4U2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinky Twinkie Posted August 3, 2007 Members Report Share Posted August 3, 2007 when we try anal I have a hard time getting inside...Either it slips by and dosent go in or I start to bend and then it slips by or my head kinda flattens out and wont go in...It's like almost but never quiet make it in...We use plenty of lube and have tried all different kinds..i always use plenty of foreplay and make sure she is excited before trying...I am going slow and taking my time abd trying every position in the book...Another question is while we are warming up for anal...Alot of times she will cum while we are still in the starting phase and then she is alot less likley to be into it after that..I will be going down on her and when i start to slide my finger inside her anally she will cum and then kinda lose interest...anybody else have these problems and if so how do you work around them??I have experinced this, I found I can enter but I have to kind of go in sort of leaning to the side. Foe example: She doggy style, butt north and knees southMe my head sort of north west and my right leh straight out at a southeast direction then I can slowly get in. I have to think about how this came about but I glad you brought this subject upGlenn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Marshall Posted January 26, 2008 Newbie Report Share Posted January 26, 2008 I also had the insertion problem, until recently.We tried doggie and her on her back with very little results.However, with her on top, made all the difference.She just reached around and kept easing it in while firmly holding the base. In no time, I was in and she was riding away! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members froggystyle1977 Posted January 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 26, 2008 Hubby and I had some of the same issues the best position in my opinion is spooning (both of you on your side) I do not recommend that you keep inserting a finger while doing oral some ladies (myself included) are just too sensitive, spooning is perfect for vaginal too and while your doing that you can reach to play with her anus/clit ect once she is excited slipping into Anal is more comfortable, also she can reach back and control how fast/slow ect... couple of things 1)she must be totally relaxed 2)lots of lube3)let her control it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted January 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 26, 2008 My gf gave me one of those killer bj's one night and worked a finger up my ass. When I came it felt like I was going to blow the top of her head off. But after I came the finger had to go. I would bet that the contractions in the sphincter muscles are the culprit for this! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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