Newbie riversstream Posted December 16, 2005 Newbie Report Share Posted December 16, 2005 My husband and I are not having a sexual relationship at this time. We are working on it but sex has not been in the picture for awhile, I am very very excited and need some attention - from anyone!!!Woman in need Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Dash Posted December 26, 2005 Newbie Report Share Posted December 26, 2005 My husband and I are not having a sexual relationship at this time. We are working on it but sex has not been in the picture for awhile, I am very very excited and need some attention - from anyone!!!Woman in need I am looking for a woman who would love to have cybersex with me.Looking for a woman for cybersex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members rjbillings Posted January 18, 2006 Members Report Share Posted January 18, 2006 It sounds like your husband and me have fallen into the same "catagory" Which is "in-active" I can only dream about having intercouse with my wife. Because everytime that I attempt to insert my penis into her pussy, it (my penis) goes from semi-hard to "soft" in a matter of a few seconds. I have just given up on having a normal sexual relationship with her. I know what my problem is, it is "diabetes" and it has left me feeling like "less of a man" because I can no longer get my wife "off" through the usual means. She gets pissed everytime I mention a "sex toy" to her. I want to be able to give her a much needed "orgasm" and since I can't, I figured that she needed an additional "artificial lover" i.e. dildo/vibrator.Am I pissed that my love-life has gone down the tubes? You're damn right, I am. But pleasing my wife is more important that my "needs" I want to be able to give her the very "best" orgasm that money can buy.I don't know why she is so set against a sex toy. I just want the best for her. If she doesn't accept my wishes for a sex toy, should I approach her about "fucking" someone with a "hard" penis?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members rjbillings Posted January 19, 2006 Members Report Share Posted January 19, 2006 howard: I have discussed sexual enhancing drugs with my spouse and she is not "interested" in me taking something, as she puts it "un-natural" She thinks that my erections will return on their own. I on the other hand know that they are but a distant memory. You work all your life to achieve happiness and security. And then "diabetes" comes knocking on your door and everything you used to enjoy, just goes away. I want to be able to satisfy her sexual wants and needs with the use of a dildo or vibrator, but she doesn't want that either. I guess I'll just have to find her a "stand-in" lover to "fuck" her whenever she's in the mood. Those are hard to find. How does "one" advertise for a man that can still get it up and fuck for hours? horny2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members curvacious_lust Posted January 19, 2006 Members Report Share Posted January 19, 2006 This answer is so irrational, I don't know where to begin. Your wife wants a natural erection from you, but you can't get it due to the diabetes. You won't ask your doctor for a prescription for viagra or something else, because you have to tell your wife everything you do? So, the alternative is to find a substitute lover for your wife? Does she get anything to say about that? Why don't you talk to the doctor. He may have a change in medicine that give you that natural erection again, but if he prescribes something to enhance your performance, keep it a secret between you and your doctor. Tell your wife he changed your medication, so you can have sex again. Then go have fun.Hey...its no "secret" if you tell her "the doctor changed your medicinal protocol". OK, so the protocol included a ED drug, does she need to know that much?? Oh, the terms I learn as a medical transcriptionist...lol. BUT, I also know from my job that your erections will never get "back to normal" either. Your wife is deluded in her thoughts. Personally, I don't see anything "unnatural" about ED medications. I told my spouse at the time, he'd better think about Viagra or else. (he was on depression meds which also affect sex drive)BTW, may I ask horny2 if you have blood pressure issues?? This too, is a health issue to take into consideration when considering an ED aid. I know there are a couple that you should not take if you have high blood pressure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members rjbillings Posted January 20, 2006 Members Report Share Posted January 20, 2006 My wife is an old fashioned sort of gal. She thinks that it is up to the man to take the lead in the act of intercoure. She is 56 years old and needs the use of a lubricant everytime that we "screw" She no longer is able to get herself "damp" She looks to me to make the first advances towards intercourse. I have been keeping a daily journal and keeping track of how many times we "fuck" and starting back in Oct 2005 we fucked on Oct23, then 20 Nov, 4 Dec, 20 Dec, 28 Dec. December looks like an active month for us. Whoopee we did it three times that month. And we haven't done it once in 2006. I want very much for her to get an "orgasm" I'm just not sure how to go about it. You would think that after having been married to her for 32 years I would know what she wants, here's a real shocker, "I don't have a clue as to what she wants" I do know that whenever she takes a shower prior to bedtime she is telling me in a silent message, I want you to eat my pussy tonight. And I do very much enjoy "feasting on the yeast" I just wish that while I was down there between her legs, lapping on her pussy, I could take a well shaped dildo and insert it and fuck her with it as I lick her clit. I think that she is fearful that I will want to use a dildo on her pussy all the time instead of trying my penis on her. Nothing could be farther from the truth. I just want to watch her facial expressions as I insert a dildo into her waiting pussy. I want to know if she will smile or frown with this action. I want her to choose the size and length dildo, but she won't. And I don't know why. I'm not the jealous type. If she wants an 12 incher then I'll buy her a 12 incher. I only want what she wants. Better sexual relations. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members curvacious_lust Posted January 20, 2006 Members Report Share Posted January 20, 2006 My wife is an old fashioned sort of gal. She thinks that it is up to the man to take the lead in the act of intercoure. She is 56 years old and needs the use of a lubricant everytime that we "screw" She no longer is able to get herself "damp" She looks to me to make the first advances towards intercourse. I have been keeping a daily journal and keeping track of how many times we "fuck" and starting back in Oct 2005 we fucked on Oct23, then 20 Nov, 4 Dec, 20 Dec, 28 Dec. December looks like an active month for us. Whoopee we did it three times that month. And we haven't done it once in 2006. I want very much for her to get an "orgasm" I'm just not sure how to go about it. You would think that after having been married to her for 32 years I would know what she wants, here's a real shocker, "I don't have a clue as to what she wants" I do know that whenever she takes a shower prior to bedtime she is telling me in a silent message, I want you to eat my pussy tonight. And I do very much enjoy "feasting on the yeast" I just wish that while I was down there between her legs, lapping on her pussy, I could take a well shaped dildo and insert it and fuck her with it as I lick her clit. I think that she is fearful that I will want to use a dildo on her pussy all the time instead of trying my penis on her. Nothing could be farther from the truth. I just want to watch her facial expressions as I insert a dildo into her waiting pussy. I want to know if she will smile or frown with this action. I want her to choose the size and length dildo, but she won't. And I don't know why. I'm not the jealous type. If she wants an 12 incher then I'll buy her a 12 incher. I only want what she wants. Better sexual relations.At 56 years of age, I'm assuming she has gone through menopause and one of the problems with that, is her body won't lube its self. That's one reason lube was invented. She is "old fashioned" and a lot of her sexual feedback is that "you just don't talk about that kind of thing". Sad, but true. Try talking to her about your sexual relationship but NOT while you're in bed. Try it when you're out sitting on a couch or something, away from the bedroom. Have you tried fingering her while you pleasure her orally??? I love being fingered while my partner is down on me. I would buy a smaller size dildo to begin with. There are some great ones here to pick from...and take advantage of the free Female Response Cream they're offering right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie tonyd Posted February 9, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted February 9, 2006 My husband and I are not having a sexual relationship at this time. We are working on it but sex has not been in the picture for awhile, I am very very excited and need some attention - from anyone!!!Woman in need who don't love sex ? if you want I believe it would be very exxciting to get with you in a cyber fuck frienship, who knows you might be able to teach me a thing or two Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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