Members Mark7even Posted October 4, 2019 Members Report Share Posted October 4, 2019 Hate to sound coy but Daa its cheating. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Haywood25 Posted October 7, 2019 Members Report Share Posted October 7, 2019 Definitely cheating and tread lightly because your SO could be doing the same thing because they sense it and your feelings may get more hurt 😳😳😳 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amy D Posted October 10, 2019 Members Report Share Posted October 10, 2019 I'm starting to wonder what some of these thread authors have as their definition of a significant other (SO). A one night stand is not a SO. A significant other deserves your sexual fidelity, no matter the gender of your latest sexual infatuation. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted September 28, 2020 Members Report Share Posted September 28, 2020 1 hour ago, Mill said: How about a married man meeting a special woman on line a just talked to each other What would you think if your wife was doing that on the side and you found out 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Fun4her +me! Posted October 5, 2020 Members Report Share Posted October 5, 2020 Texting is one thing, my wife and text a lot of people of we know, men and women! Sexting is cheating which we don't do, that is crossing a thin line! My wife and I love used to sexting each other, especially when I'm out and about and she sent me naughty pics or a sexy message what she would be doing to me if I were home! Thanks for this topic, I might start sexting her again! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bob Long Posted October 23, 2020 Members Report Share Posted October 23, 2020 I'm late to the party here as always but I'll just tell you about something that happened to me oh almost 20 years ago maybe a year or so before I met my wife. I was head over heels in love with this woman I met and we both agreed that we felt we were finally getting back what we gave, by that I meant previously I felt most if not all of my relationships were pretty much one sided, me always being the more giving partner. We were laying in bed when she asked how I felt about us thats when I told her I finally felt that I was getting back what I was giving and our relationship wasn't one sided. She jumped up and kissed me saying oh my God thank you so much I feel exactly the same way but have been afraid to say anything. Ok so its established that we love each other, our relationship was one that would take a lot of time to nurture even though we spent every weekend together and some weekday and night basically when ever time allowed. She was going through a divorce and didn't want thing to get ugly with her soon to be ex but I understood and was ok with not meeting her family and her friends with the one exception of her brother. Well one night I can't honestly remember how the subject of cheating came up, but she made a comment that has stayed with me til this day and changed our relationship. "Its not cheating if your not married" I felt like I had just gotten gut punched by Mike Tyson form that day on I never trusted anything she said and her sincerity was always in question. When I mentioned it to one of my best friends a girl who I had known forever and had no sexual relationship with, told me she's one who can not be trusted and if she isn't cheating on you already I can guarantee you she will. My friend did meet her a while later and told me that night when my gf went to the ladies room, My friend said look I'd never do anything to hurt you, you know that but she's a cheater I'd bet everything I own on it. The relationship ended and yes even though she denied it, she was cheating . So the moral of my long winded story is that even something as casual as a random sex even with a stranger that trust a relationship is built on is gone and gone for ever 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted December 1, 2020 Report Share Posted December 1, 2020 On 10/10/2019 at 6:32 PM, Amy D said: I'm starting to wonder what some of these thread authors have as their definition of a significant other (SO). A one night stand is not a SO. A significant other deserves your sexual fidelity, no matter the gender of your latest sexual infatuation. I have to agree. I think that the terms for relationships have gotten overly specific, people wanting to be in relationships too quickly, or they just want someone to say "it's ok to be with someone else if *****". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members square Posted December 22, 2020 Members Report Share Posted December 22, 2020 Since this thread got bumped up, I went back and re-read my old post, about my wife fooling around with a girl a couple of years into our marriage, and which she didn't tell me about for another 8 or 10 years. At the time it didn't really bother me, and I was about the only one on this thread who didn't feel it was cheating. Turns out that was about the same time she almost walked out, a time when I naively and foolishly thought our marriage was in good shape. I guess it was a cheating after all. I'm a slow learner ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted December 31, 2020 Report Share Posted December 31, 2020 On 9/27/2020 at 8:54 PM, Mill said: How about a married man meeting a special woman on line a just talked to each other Here's the thing, and someone already said it, would YOU like it if your wife was talking to a special man online? Probably not. There is such a thing as emotional cheating. I stand by what I said 12 yrs ago: It most certainly is cheating if you're in a relationship and it's understood that you're exclusive. Whether is straight or "gay" sex, if you wouldn't like your SO doing it with another person, then you shouldn't do it either. Sex is sex is sex. So is having oral sex with someone, giving hand jobs, and even kissing someone else (romantically, not-peck-on-the-cheek/hi-how're-you-soing? kind), is all cheating. It's being intimate with another person no matter what gender. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Open minded bi Posted May 13, 2022 Members Report Share Posted May 13, 2022 Absolutely cheating Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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