Members shoupja Posted March 27, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 27, 2009 If you were apart from your S/O for one year, with the exception of 2 weeks half way through, and were planning on remaining faithful, what masturbation toy would you want to have with you? It must be easily stuffed into a really full backpack, it must transport relatively safely without much worry for it breaking/cracking, and be easy to clean. I don't think he actually has access to a private water source, but I will ask the next time I talk to him. I think the showers could possibly be private. My husband is deployed and loves the idea of me sending a toy to him but I want to be sure I get him something that he will be happy with. I've looked at all the ones here and some from some other places and I just can't decide what to get for him. I'm guessing I will need some lube to go with the toy I buy?If you have a favorite for whatever reason, please share and links would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for your help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted March 27, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 27, 2009 the other thing to think about is you don't want to get him in trouble. I know when my brother was over in Iraq he told me they were very strict about no porn or toys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DADT Posted March 27, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 27, 2009 If you were apart from your S/O for one year, with the exception of 2 weeks half way through, and were planning on remaining faithful, what masturbation toy would you want to have with you? It must be easily stuffed into a really full backpack, it must transport relatively safely without much worry for it breaking/cracking, and be easy to clean. I don't think he actually has access to a private water source, but I will ask the next time I talk to him. I think the showers could possibly be private. My husband is deployed and loves the idea of me sending a toy to him but I want to be sure I get him something that he will be happy with. I've looked at all the ones here and some from some other places and I just can't decide what to get for him. I'm guessing I will need some lube to go with the toy I buy?If you have a favorite for whatever reason, please share and links would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for your help.You have toys right? Do you set aside "Alone Time" every day? Yes? Good. So you want to give him something so scorching hot that he cums thinking of you every time. Something like that? You ready?Get a digital voice recorder with as much memory as you can find. Like 8 KB. Then each day for a week, when you have "Alone Time" time, describe to him what you are doing, feeling, thinking. Pull out all the stops. Tell him how you give the dildo a pretend BJ. How does that feel in your mouth. How you wish it really was his cock so you could drink his seed. Tell him how you stroke your boobs. Tell him how much that turns you on. Ask him if he can imagine how hard your nipples are. And of course, tell him exactly how it feels when you insert your favorite toy, and rub your clit....or whatever you do to get your naughty bits excited.When you have sex do you do something that drives him beserk? For instance, does he love to fuck you doggy style? What do you do and say when he does that? Do you want him to pull your hair? Grab your ass? Spanking? Back rub? Do you play with your clit while he pumps you. Do you yearn to feel his cock throb against your pussy lips while he shoots. Tells him everything. Tell him all that in nitty gritty detail. Leave nothing out. Also, make sure he can hear a really solid "happy ending" each time. I mean screaming his name, lots of gasping for breath, lots of "Fuuuuuucccccckkkkkk I'm ccccuuuuuummmmiiiiiing. Oh Honey, you make my pussy feel sooooooooo good. I'm soooo fucking wet!"You will turn him on so much his "little soldier" won't stand a chance. Just a thought. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members shoupja Posted March 27, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted March 27, 2009 the other thing to think about is you don't want to get him in trouble. I know when my brother was over in Iraq he told me they were very strict about no porn or toys.Neither me nor my husband is new to this game of deploying. Between the 2 of us, we have 34 years of experience with deployments and the military and when you've deployed as much as we have, you'll do what you have to in order to get by. None of them cares about the no porn/toys rule. They just don't physically have porn in their possession-that will get them fried. I asked him if he wanted me to send him toys even though they have rules and he said yes. This tells me that either he doesn't care about getting into trouble or the possibility of getting caught is part of the fun. DADT this is an excellent idea, and of course I have "alone time" daily. I wouldn't be able to make it through this damn deployment without it. Of course some of my "alone time" hasn't always been alone. Let me tell you my husband really does appreciate the web-cam I bought for myself. I really love the idea of talking to him via recording. Then he can play it back whenever he has his own "alone time". I LOVE this idea. Thank you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DADT Posted March 28, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 28, 2009 Neither me nor my husband is new to this game of deploying. Between the 2 of us, we have 34 years of experience with deployments and the military and when you've deployed as much as we have, you'll do what you have to in order to get by. None of them cares about the no porn/toys rule. They just don't physically have porn in their possession-that will get them fried. I asked him if he wanted me to send him toys even though they have rules and he said yes. This tells me that either he doesn't care about getting into trouble or the possibility of getting caught is part of the fun. DADT this is an excellent idea, and of course I have "alone time" daily. I wouldn't be able to make it through this damn deployment without it. Of course some of my "alone time" hasn't always been alone. Let me tell you my husband really does appreciate the web-cam I bought for myself. I really love the idea of talking to him via recording. Then he can play it back whenever he has his own "alone time". I LOVE this idea. Thank you.It was a suggestion for both of you. My guess is you will get as much of a buzz from creating this homemade erotic experience as he will from receiving it. Glad to help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members raniedaize Posted March 28, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 28, 2009 I think the voice recorder is a very happy and sweet idea. Alone time might be nice, but how much better when it can be shared! As for actual toys? Sorry, babe; I have no advice to give. I do wish y'all lots of merriment, though! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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