Release Your Inner Vixen

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Get It Hot (or Cold!)

Switching up the sensory experience during sex is as easy as hot and cold. Using the two temperatures wakes up nerve endings, boosts arousal, and might even trigger some feel-good endorphins in the brain. Surprising the body with new sensations during sex can be a novel experience.

To turn up the heat, start with your breath. Breathe right onto his skin. The warm moisture of your breath will feel excellent on his more sensitive parts — his ear, neck, inner wrist, lower back, or anywhere around the genitals. Don't touch him just yet, but bring your lips oh-so-close to his skin, and use only your breath to stimulate him.

When you do start to touch him, with your mouth or your fingers, a ready bowl of ice cubes and a cup of hot water can have endless direct-contact possibilities. Try putting the ice cube in your mouth, and then kiss him. Switch then to a sip of hot water and go right back to the same spot. The contrast will feel amazing! You can do the same with your hands — hold the ice in one and warm up the other.

Other temperature tempters to try: frozen grapes, hot chocolate, warm washcloths, and ice cream. Let your senses guide you, and keep trying new things. Hot or cold, you're sure to make his temperature rise!