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Men Giving Oral: How Long Is Too Long?


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We all know that guys love receiving oral, but do they love giving it just as much? And if you do, is there a time limit where after a certain point you just want to be done? Women take longer to O and love receiving as much as men, but after a little while most of us start to worry "are we taking too long? is he getting bored or sick of this?" and once we get that thought in our head we have pretty much doomed our chance. There's probably not a woman alive who hasn't cut it short long before they were ready because they started worrying about what you were thinking (which is a such a bummer!) How long is it fair to lay there and enjoy before worrying about YOU? How long before you have had enough?

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We all know that guys love receiving oral, but do they love giving it just as much? And if you do, is there a time limit where after a certain point you just want to be done? Women take longer to O and love receiving as much as men, but after a little while most of us start to worry "are we taking too long? is he getting bored or sick of this?" and once we get that thought in our head we have pretty much doomed our chance. There's probably not a woman alive who hasn't cut it short long before they were ready because they started worrying about what you were thinking (which is a such a bummer!) How long is it fair to lay there and enjoy before worrying about YOU? How long before you have had enough?

First off allow me to say, you seem very inquisitive tonight. Ive read your first post this evening, I'll answer this first, and I do have input for the other...However, I havent had my share of "Margaritas"...:P

Naturally, Im a Man, I do enjoy receiving BJs, though it has been somewhat scarce lately...I also enjoy giving oral gratification to my Woman. There is no greater turn on, for me at least, to feel and hear her sexually excited, whether its from me Orally, or by me from other means.

As for time limits, No that has never been a factor for me. I dont set the stop watch at five minutes or ten, and when the bell goes off, Im done. No that hasnt happened. I am more or less in the moment, I know I have felt Her convulse with several orgasms while my face is buried between her thighs. Are they feigned, I dont believe so, I know I can taste Her Sweetness.

Now turn the tables, How long will you as a Woman, lay or kneel between Your Mans legs, and perform before you say "enough is enough. I ask also, because I know there are times when I can cum within minutes of a BJ, other times it may take a while, I just want to savor what is happening. So when is it, when is 'enough is enough"...

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I absolutely adore his cock and balls! I can and do spend hours (whenever we can) savoring him any way and any place....no time limit ever pops into my head because I get so aroused by having him, and his arousal feeds the passion more....

But that's because of the heat and mutual passion we share. Yes he does have the most beautiful cock I have ever seen, to reach down and grip him, feel him, see him makes me almost frenzied in my desire to devour him every way I can, but it's the give and take between the two of us that makes me want him/it 24/7.....I spent alot of years with a man who was so sexually stunted, dysfunctional and selfish, it was always me giving and NEVER receiving anything....well it got to where it was just another chore....interest and desire can't be maintained on a one way street.

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I absolutely adore his cock and balls! I can and do spend hours (whenever we can) savoring him any way and any place....no time limit ever pops into my head because I get so aroused by having him, and his arousal feeds the passion more....

But that's because of the heat and mutual passion we share. Yes he does have the most beautiful cock I have ever seen, to reach down and grip him, feel him, see him makes me almost frenzied in my desire to devour him every way I can, but it's the give and take between the two of us that makes me want him/it 24/7.....I spent alot of years with a man who was so sexually stunted, dysfunctional and selfish, it was always me giving and NEVER receiving anything....well it got to where it was just another chore....interest and desire can't be maintained on a one way street.

I believe your passion is true, as my Woman has said the same of my cock, balls, arm pits, etc.... Is it Love or is it pure sexual satisfaction between Us, or somewhat a combination of both. I only know this, if her and I were not completely compatible, both sexually and emotionally, I wouldnt be able to handle the LDR we currently have. But, hopefully it isnt for much longer.

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For as long as he needs.... and he never tires.

As for cutting him short, I kid you not, I never have. If it wasn't going to happen one way we try another.

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I do enjoy receiving oral--but UNFORTUNATELY I do not receive it very often. When he does do it--it's really nice and and it's an added surprise because I didn't expect it. Now, I think the fact that he doesn't do it very often is my fault. When we were first together I felt very uncomfortable with it. We have been together a long time now and there's nothing that I am uncomfortable with any more. I think being able to comfortably receive oral from a man says that you trust him completely and are willing to let yourself go in that way. It's such a personal thing to experience and I think that some women worry about it. (I used to, myself)

I do enjoy performing oral on him--but he truly does not enjoy the experience the same way most men do. It's not enough friction for him. What he loves more than anything is for me to gently stroke his cock and balls. This is a relaxing experience for him more than a sexual one. He does enjoy thrusting his cock in my mouth right before he's going to cum. Over the last year and half or so, he's done this more and more.

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I enjoy giving my wife oral, but it would take a very long time to get her to O that way, and it would not be as good of an O as by other means. So it mostly just stays in the foreplay realm.

And while there is not set time limit, it does get uncomfortable after a while. My neck is a funny way, and the bottom of my tongue rubbing on the tops of my bottom front teeeth starts to, not exactly hurt, but it gets uncomfortable. And it all gets a little more awkward when I add my fingers to the mix.

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That's interesting. The other day when I was teasing him with my mouth, I asked him in what order body parts are best for his cock/orgasm. He said mouth, pussy, hand (his then mine), boobs and then ass. I was surprised that mouth was first considering we don't do oral too much. That and 2 of my body parts were ranked higher than his own hand :unsure:

Sounds like more emphasis on Oral Gratification should be played upon...Also, Its good to hear you are discussing sexual likes with each other, a positive from both perspectives.B)

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I know this is an old topic, but...

I absolutely love (I mean LOVE) giving oral. I could do it everyday if I had a willing partner. I almost like performing oral sex on a woman more than intercourse. There is nothing better than having a woman holding my mouth to her, telling me what she wants and writhing in extasy. There have been times in the past where I have started with oral stimulation went to intercourse then back to oral because I wanted to taste her so badly.

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Yea I agree , I love to suck very hard on a clit while I tickle the clit with the tip of my tongue!!! That drives them crazy!!!!

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I love giving my wife oral. I think I enjoy giving it to her as much as she enjoys me giving it to her. I can go for ever licking, sucking, kissing and biting her down there.It some times takes her 25 -30 min. to cum. but That's fine with me. She taste so clean and delicious I never tire of it. The only problem with that is that when she finally cums, she can be so wet and pussy has swollen so big inside that it's sometimes a little to slippery to feel what I'm doing. My cock is at least average or better in size but it's can still feel a bit loose. It makes it a little hard to keep an erection for very long or I end up cumming very fast myself, w/o bring her to a full blown penis orgasm. She's not overly disappointed about that but it does bother me that I came too soon, and I wish I had gotten more out of it myself . Is that normal for that to happen at times ??

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I wont stop until my girl starts screaming begging me to stop and fuck her hard and fuck her now :D :D :D :D :D

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