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I have had a dream about making out with a girl before and when I was little I had crushes on girls and boys. I have never considered myself to be bi since I have never touched a girl. Is that weird?

I don't think it is crazy. I have said here before, that I am a boob-girl. I love mine, love to play with them and even occasionally suck them. (Down boys! ;) )

The other parts of a woman are not that interesting to me, although I recently had my first girl-on-girl dream the other night (I was giving her oral) and I woke up very aroused. I admit to being curious but even that is a recent development, so who knows? Like the others said, do what you like. As long as it doesn't hurt anyone else, its all good!

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Kandi000    1

I don't know what your original post was, but I can guess from people's responses. Honestly, being attracted to the female form isn't uncommon for women. I mean think about it, it is beautiful. Between men and women, women have the more asthetically pleasing form. But does that make you bi? I don't think so. I personally think breasts and curves are hot, but I wouldn't find myself in a relationship with a woman simply because of that. If you could see yourself with a girl, outside of the bedroom, then that probably would help clarify your sexial confusion. Look, experimenting, sadly- is part of our nature...but it is up to you and your beliefs as to whether you follow it or not. I confess, I am interested in a ffm threesome, but I am also a Christian, so I had to ask myself how far of a line in experiment I was willing to cross (even if it is common now a days). Still, despite the fact that I wanted to try that out, I consider myself straight because aside from it being a sexual desire, it wasn't something I was willing to pursuit. Your sexual desires shouldn't define you.

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krruth    3

Lesbian porn turns me on and even gets me off but the actual act id not for me it's just the watching it I like because I've never wanted to be with a woman myself.

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RC4BLUE    874

If you begin to look at the research on human sexuality you will notice a more open level of attraction with women than with men. Women in general have increased levels of sexual attraction or find sexual image and interest on a broader spectrum than men. So it is not unusual to see women attracted to same sex imagery. This has no real bearing on sexual orientation. It is just about pleasure, interest and arousal. 

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Tyger    719

RC4, you make some great points. I think it also may have to do with that women usually are attracted to beautiful things and people. Women love flowers, and other "pretty" things, and this can also include the female body.

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RC4BLUE    874

Absolutely, women like pretty things, and women are beautiful. 

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Tyger    719

I truly believe that, to help solve your curiosity and confusion, that you keep an open mind to sexual possibilities, even if it's not the social "norm".

I'll tell you that, of the people I've told about my GF in my closest circle of friends and family, they've all been very accepting. I don't label myself, but as long as I'm happy, they don't really care if the person I'm with is male or female. I did shock a few, especially my mother, but, most of my closest friends knew I was always curious, so they're happy I was able to finally explore this side.

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