crazy1

Cat Food, All I can say is yes indeed. Or at least I can....when my wife cums and her vaginal walls contract and spazm, I can feel. Man does it feel nice too. It's like she is doing her Kegels only stronger. I suppose that is due to the invoulantary part of the contractions. Point being, I feel it and love it.

Yea, you might be doing something that could cause serious problems now. Get that checked on ASAP. I too am a warry person of medical pratitioners. But you gotta see someone about that.

Here is the issue. Maybe I didn't express this clearly before so I will try to do so now. I think you are right Howard, there are times when a child is better off with out having a parent in the home. My niece, "alice" is a mixed child. That is much more of an acceptable thing in this day and age. I have no care about the color of her skin. She is adoreable. However, I agree with her mother on this one. She does not need her father in her life. Under no circumstance should she attempt to establish paternity. I am not saying this is the case for Whiskey Woman, but it can be the right choice. My former brother in law made several statements including that if he was established as the father and forced to pay child support, he would never, under any circumstance eliminate his right as a parent and allow addoption of his daughter to another person, even if my SIL remarried. That would also give alice a direct connection to her alcoholic, drug addicted, cheating, abusive, child molesting father. So as you can see, he is a less than desireable influence that is better off not in the picture at all. His family have been open and forthcoming with the medical info, and all of that has been checked. They have trying to contact Alice and just assume that she is not a child of their line. So be it. Now, Whiskey, I know you said that it is a two edged sword, I think that could be one of the most accurate terms possible. Becareful and pray hard before you make these decisions...you might meet Mr right at any time and your jerk of an ex can complicate things severely for you. At the same time, Liz could certainly benefit from the Child Support.... You have the toughtest choice to make, not just for you, but for her. Best Wishes and Prayers, Crazy1

Whiskey Woman, I am very happy that all has gone well in the birth and development of your daughter. I have one caution to advise here. I have an older brother who is a single father. He has a daughter about the same age as my own son(5yrs) and his stuggle with the legal system and his daughters mother has been horrible. After delivering their daughter, the mother began using drugs. Using quite frequently and heavily. Things fell apart between my brother and his ex. He kept their daughter for a short time, until work, booze and drugs made him hand her over to his ex's parents for a short time. He cleaned him self up and called my family for the first time in years, asking to come home and get help. I still live in the same town as most of my family and My father and I had talked about the very possibility of this happening and our prayers that he would clean up and come home. Well he had chosen just that, for himself and for his daughter. When we went to get him, his ex was in prison for drugs. She got out about 8 months after he left and took their daughter whom she had not seen in literally months almost a full year. She got out and was quite bitter about having been in prison and decided that she wanted to make someone pay. Well, now that she was paying child support she focused on my brother. They have been to court repeatedly over Child Support, DNA(she claimed he was not the father, but DNA confirms he is), and custody. She has been back to jail on drug charges, she has lost her job that the court said she must keep or lose visitation, and is not living where the court belives her to be. Now I am telling you all of this just to illustrate something. You might not want this moron to be in her life at all. If he is proven by DNA to be the father, he has rights to allow for adoption or to block it if the time ever comes. And from what you have said about him, what good influence can he bring to her life? My sister-in-law is in a similar situation. Her ex-husband is a violent, abusive rapist, and is being prosecuted for sexual assault of a minor. Thankfully, my SIL didn't put him on the birth certificate as the father, so whilst he may not pay child support, he has absolutely no legal claim to My SIL's daughter. I understand that it is hard, but I have seen first hand that there are sometimes that the system doesn't work for us, but against us(Sorry Mikayla), and that it can be better for the child to not have the other parent in his/her life. Really consider what kind of person Elizibeths father is, and if he can be a good influence on her life. Is the child support worth the negative influence he could be on her?

Oh, ok, so it's all about the sudden nature of it? Ok well try this on for size. In the inital story, "greg" tells us that Mikalya has been with his firm for some time. Yes we know that CL put the Idea in that "greg" won't date co-workers an such, but we are not given all the other info as to what CL and Kayla discuss. For all we know, they could have an entire Bi-curious relationship outside of this that has been regulated to flirting, talking and maybe a kiss or two. We are not sure of what Mikayla has said to get her to take part. We are assuming that CL went into this knowing "greg" was the intended target. Mikayla orchestrated all of this. You are taking this too far and need to just say, hey good job and move on, but you are getting pissy about your name mentioned in the same sentance with sucking some dick.

My wife loves this toy too. We use it all the time if we have company over and she just has a Clitoral Emergency as Mikayla put it. I will follow her in to our room and a couple of mintues later, she slightly satisfied and I love getting to watch her use it. I love the light on it, I can usually see everthing even if the lights are dim. A great toy and quite a strong item, it also won't eat batteries like some.....a great value and a great toy.

wow howard, your protestaions almost seem like that secret guy code you were talking about......something about what we say is a cover up for our feelings? all the vehement denials were just covers for what "we men really feel"? It was a story, you didn't write it. It was good, and I agree with Mikayla on the creation of the 3some. he was not in charge so he wouldn't have had any reason to arrange something with CL in advance.

Ok, sexykitty, I love all hair color. I like blondes, Brunettes, redheads, and women with hair so black it almost seems blue....Love them all. My wife and I have a friend who has native american and asian in her and her hair is long, almost to her butt, and it is so dark it almost gets a blueish tint to it. I also have a few women that are red-heads in my office and they are exceptionally hot. I love the real red hair, i even like the freckels too! I tend to like brunettes from mousy brown to auburn and chestnut. I like all types and colors if the hair is taken care of. If a woman never gets her hair styled and conditioned an so on it looks bad. I like all colors and styles, but you have to make it look nice. Keep it up, and take care of it.

Well I had this very conversation with two of my brothers and our wives the other night. We came up with alot more on the side of R&B, and so on, I can't replicate the entire list, but I will give you a few of the highlights. Prince: Scandalous Barry White: yep Tom Jones: You can Leave Your Hat on(great for strip-teases) Evanescence: Eternal(It's one of the older songs they did, it's all insturmental, and a is layed over a thunder-storm) Some U2 was mentioned and K.D. Lang was thrown in too, but I don't remember all of it. well there is my first reply to this. I am sure I will think of more and add them later!

Howard, don't be so rude, I remember you generalizing quite a bit a short time ago. SO practice what you preach sir. I say hey, if a guy doesn't want oral, he is a fool, but to each thier own. My wife is not a big fan of recieving oral, but she loves to give it. I love to give an receive but she just has issues with the hygene involved......so be it...

My wife is a spitter. From my perspective it's ok, at least she finishes me off. Would I like it if she swallows, OH YES! Is it a must? of course not.

I just found this topic and felt the need to post. I am a bonafide breast man. I love them all. I like the look of fakes, they are big and round and pretty. Now, I have never felt of store bought boobs, but that's fine by me. I know of at least one young lady here on campus who is about 5' 10", beautiful, she is what most guys call thick, but I think ladies prefer the term healthy. Point is, she is not a size 2 or something, she has a very curvy lower half, nice legs, hips, thighs and rear. She also has implants. not too big, maybe a 250cc. She wears(from what I can tell, and I am pretty good at guessing) a 34C maybe a 36B. From what I know, she had almost nothing upstairs and wanted to look more natural. Honestly, I would never have guessed they were fake. they move, sway giggle, and bounce, they are not oversized to her frame, infact she still looks a little on the under-proportioned side. So be it. She can wear clothes that fit and now feels more comfortable with her body. I don't think all fakes look fake. Does Pam Anderson look nice, sure, so does a new mustang, and they probably require the same amount of scheduled maintenance. I like a more natural approach to boobs, but for me, bigger is better. If i get the opportunity to feel of pair of falsies, I will most likely pass, I don't know what I would gain from the experience, my wife doesn't need them, and shouldn't ever get them. She will need a lift sooner or later, but she is already planning on that.

the "First" in all truthfulness was a "personal massager" from spencers. bought it just before the honeymoon an we used it a time or two. It was crap so we tossed it. Fast forward two years and since we have a low opinion of sex toys now(i know, it was sad) we had not gotten any to try. My wifes cousin suggested a silver bullet to my wife, her mom(!) and her sister-in-law, while we were camping. Shortly after, I picked one up and we have never looked back..... For my fave though, I wouldn't be able to pick either, there is the Ultra 3000, my pink jelly plug, her waterproof vibe, my cock rings, and the list goes on.....Who can deciede?

Honey, check out Mikaylas sex toy reviews. If you don't find what you need from there, I suppose we *might* be able to help, but so far, that is pretty much the definitive work on what you should buy.

Hey, I am just wondering what everyone thinks to be the best anal toy they have played with. I know 12G is a big fan of his Mr Big and all, but what about some of the others here? I have had my wife penetrate me with two items. One being a pink jelly plug that vibrates and the other a blue contoured vibe. I like the both, but want something that I can keep in all the time. I like the plug, but the base is really round so when I am doing her from behind, it tends to want to come out. Is there a toy that can I can find that will help with this?

Ok, so last night was one of the most intense sessions of love making I have ever had. round one was great, all the toys go some action, got some oral, amazing. I loved every second. Now, sex, depending on how slow or fast, hard or gentle it is, will either put us to sleep or wake us up. last night was a wake up night. so we finshed after an hour and then went to watch some tv and snuggle. about 2 hours later, we went back to bed and I began to slip off into sleep, when I was attacked(i almost mean this litterally) by the woman I love, only to the point of insanity with horniness. we made out hard and passionatly, she hopped on top and rode her way to 3 consecutive orgasms. after the first she began to giggle. then after #2, it was a deep throaty laughter, and after the 3rd, she was almost hysterical, laughing and gasping, she rolled off in a heap. I, having not had my second of the night, rolled over and slipped right in from behind and gave her number 4 and 5 before finishing myself. Point being, I have never had her laugh like that during sex or after pretty much. Sometimes we do get a fit of the giggles or something similar, but never like this. I loved every second of it. LOVED IT. I know it was a night I will always remember. I didn't know what to make when Kayla and some of the other ladies said they had laughing fits, but now, I say party on!

I can also think of one or two that might be of help. You can have him enter you and then if he is semi-flexible, he can sit up strait and hold your hips and thrust. I have done this one for years with my wife and we love it. He can also lean back a bit for some added G-spot stimulation(at least that is what My wife tells me), and another is a slight variation of the previous. If you prop a pillow under your rear, he can squat and hold your hips and have fun. This one always makes me feel a little like a gorilla(which is a funny story for another time) but the moans I hear from this one speak for themselves! If those are too confusing let me know and I will try to think of better ways to explain.....

If you read the first post by Mikalya on this thread you should get a beginning idea of what BDSM is all about. It has to do with sensory input and it's limitations, bondage(being tied up during sex/foreplay/both and one person "giving" control to their sexually partner. Now what happens beyond that can be varied and fun!

Have you read a single reply on this thread......it is almost a foregone conclusion that you need to split from the jerk ASAP. If a man is not willing to put in the time and energy for making his partner feel accepted and loved, as well as sexually gratified, ditch him. PERIOD. If you have talked with him and he won't change, show him your backside as you walk out of his life. There is nothing worth putting your self in that situation. Relationships can be hard enough without having a lackluster sex life. You need to find someone more giving and fair. Jerks like this should be single until they figure out that women do not and should not be mistreated in any way. so, you want to know what to do? LEAVE HIM.

I must live in a world that is far removed from Howard and Telecom. Or I just might not give two damns about what ppl say. I have always been on the fringe of all my relationships with men. I am a person that speaks what he wants and when I want to say it. I have four older brothers, we are all honest and open about our feelings and emotions. I am good friends with lots of men and women, I just don't put up with the machismo BS that apperently is Howards ultimate ideal of the male mind. I acutally brought up "Guy World" and the "male code of speech" to all of my co-workers(mostly male btw) and well all had a good laugh. In all Honesty, we all talk quite openly about what we like, dislike and find sexy in women. I have said to them on many occasions that smiles are nice, but not what is sexy. I have yet to see a Victoria's Secret add with just a smile on it. I also have yet to see any conclusive proof that men talk in code. Maybe with the sheltered egocentric old farts you know, but all the people I know under the age of 40 are quite open about who they are and what they believe. I applaud Telecom for putting off sex because he was not ready. Good for you. That is a wise decision, it might not have been popular with a more insecure crowd, but it was right for you. I have several debates about what makes women beautiful with my male coworkers, and not one of them has ever said anything to doubt my sexuallity. Nor I them. I am the person that tells them not to get into a bunch of one night stands and so on, they all RESPECT me for speaking plainly and honestly. THERE IS NO CODE! QUIT DELUDING YOURSELF AND TRYING TO IMPRESS PEOPLE ON HERE WITH BS! There will always be men who are insecure and unsure of who they really are, that doesn't mean that all men are that way or that all men subscribe to a idea of what is beauty. All people are different and some try to hide who they are, some don't. I am a tit man Howard, I am not gay. I know this positively. I know how good it feels to have a lover play with the back door, but the thought of a man in any sexual conotation is repulsive to me. I just don't see how this is even an issue. AGAIN, THERE IS NO CODE, THIS IS ASSININE, AND WHAT IS SEXY IS A MATTER OF PERSONAL OPINION. HOWARD, BASTIAN, TELECOM, OR MYSELF, NOT ONE OF US SPEAKS FOR ALL MEN. I will say that I think a nice smile is a good piece to an attractive woman. It is not the end all of sexy. Sexiest thing, a curvy, healthy body and attitude. Mikayla is very right, a woman that exudes sexy, is sexy. If a woman finds her smile to be the sexiest thing, it might very well be for her. If a woman loves her curves, that might be it for her. So to each his own and please let it die. This is getting ridiculous.

This sounds like a dead end relation ship to me. Now I know that is harsh and we should all be encouaging and helpful, but c'mon, this moron thinks if he gives oral his tounge will turn colors and fall off? Really? Ok seriously, if you have tried talking to him and he is still not willing to listen, you really need to consider your options. being with someone who is sexually selfish is no fun and it exemplifies the overall of the relationship in most cases. You really need to get down and dirty, tell him that sex is not going to continue this way, and that he needs to do his part or you might just need to go your seperate ways. There is alot to be said for a person who will try to make things work and even step out of their normal comfort area and try something they would normally frown on for the sake of the relationship. In all honesty, it seems as though you are being taken advantge of an you need to get out of this relationship quickly. He is taking all that you give him and giving nothing back, does that sound healthy to anyone? yea, what BB said. And congrats sir on being engaged. Really, I wish for you all the best in your lives together.

I just weighed in on this one elsewhere. I will say again breifly. Boobs, big ones. Hair, nice and silky, eyes, blue, big and bright, hips, gotta have something to grab and hold. Bubble bootys are nice too, but not a must have. First thing is a glance at the face, then to the twins i gaze, if she has a nice pair(i prefer C cup and UP) then I look somemore at her face, body and then back to the girls I go. Now, that has been put on the shelf for some time, but I love my wife's chest, she is a F cup and I just can't get enough of her boobs.

No way Jose. You can say all you like about your feelings, but, as a life long guy, I can say I know what turns my head and what I find to be the SEXIEST THING ABOUT A WOMAN. You might speak for the men you know, but you don't speak for me. Attractive is composed of several things for me. I love nice hair. Big eyes, full mouth, BIG boobs(like C is small on my scale, the smallest I feel that I would like, and yes I dated girls of various sizes and made my decision on if I thought they were sexy or not. Most had a great rear, but not enough to compensate to me), healthy but not severely over-weight, and hips. Now all that runs the gamut of what I find to be a sexy body. Inside, the mind has to be sharp, witty, and optimistic. I am a sarcastic, pesimist and rather smart if I do say so. I just want a woman that will keep me on my toes and balance my need for self anguish. All of these things are my wife. Now, does she have a great smile, you bet, prettiest I have ever seen, but is that because I know her, what that smile has brought me through, told me in more that words. Yes. but if a woman smiles at me, and plenty do( i am good at flirting and making girls laugh), it has no more weight on me than if she is not. Smiles are not what is THE sexiest thing in all of Man World. Maybe in yours, but that is YOURS not everyones. The end.

First of all, its more than a fetus. As a father, I waited all nine months with baited breath to know that my son would be born okay. WW, I am so sorry to hear about this. I just came across this thread this morning. I want to say that you are an example of motherhood. I applaud you for keeping your child and not simply having her aborted and removed like a cancer. I have also learned about trisomy 18 in class and online. I can only imagine what you are suffering. Please know that while the father may have left you, you have some support here for you and if you need someone to listen and vent to, we are here. We will all be here for you. While "meaningful" life is a subjective term,to a religious person, it only means that this special child is obtaining all it needs in an earthly body, that God loves it and will only let her be yours because he needs her back home soon. He is also letting you be custodian over one of his special children. I work with persons that have mental and physical retardation and I know just how wonderful these people are. If your daughter does beat the odds and these tests are wrong, you will feel all the more special about her. I would never encourage you to simply write this child off because you have 3 other daughters. They need to grow from this exeperience too and learn how to deal with illness and possible tragedy. Keep your head up and we are here for you. My heart and prayers are with you and you daughter. Crazy1 P.S. have you decieded on a name for her?

I have to go with Mikayla on this one guys. I love to see my lady smile, but that is in one of two situations in regards to sex. #1) She has just received the most satisfaction I can give her and she is basking in the glow of several orgasms and #2) is when she first sees my member. I love to see her smile when she looks down, that tells me that she is all the more excited about what is to come(you can take that pun or leave it), and that she loves my naked body. I have to tell you that I am in no great shape, but I love that she can smile and tell me that I am hot to her. Other than that, she has wonderful bedroom eyes and a great look of come over here and gimme what I am in desperate need of. You. That to me is a much better aphorodisiac than a smile. Now, if we are flirting, yes a smile goes a long way, but I am not to complex, I notice the curves first, and face second. When it comes to making a sexual choice, I always want a woman with curves. I know all women smile, not all have the body I find sexy. So a smile is not the sexiest part of a woman, I think it entirely depends on the woman. That is how this man thinks about women. Crazy1