crazy1

Oh come on, you know you love a good show!! Like we are always told at Xmas, it's better to give than to receive! Putting on a show is so much more fun!

Well, I am not a lady(but I do get mistaken for them on occasion with my long hair) but here goes. For my wife its much more about clit stimulation for most times. Now like Kayla, if she is showing off or is really hot and horny its the full bore of the dual action, bucking and wrigling all over the bed. If I were to break it down statisically for you I would say 55% clit 45% penetration. Hope that helps

Not too long ago(maybe a month) I got one of those vibrating razors from Gilette and tried it out. My face felt great so I decided to go below the belt. I never, EVER shave if I am rushed, and I always shave in the shower. I ran the water got it nice and hot, let my skin adjust, then lather and came the moment of truth. It was some of the cleanest shaving I have ever had. It took the hair right away, and not a single problem. Now I have been shaving my stuff since Jr High and I went to school several times with pain and irritation not to mention the ingrown hairs. I have not had one problem and I have to do maintenance on them even less with this razor. I am sold people. Now, just to let you know, I am by no means an expert but if you are interested in shaving, I recommend some time, hot water, shaving lotion(I use my wifes leg gel) and a good new blade. Keep the water nice and warm, close the door to keep the heat and moisture in(it will relax the skin and stop from pulling the hairs and causing them to bleed) and makes shaving smoother. Take your time and clean the head of the razor often. If you need to trim first, do so on the lowest setting of your trimmers. Go slow and guys, shave the taint, it gets wicked smooth and feels wonderful when your lady licks or sucks on it!

So Dugmar, how are things, it's been a bit and I wanted to see if there has been a change. Did you make a change, has she? Has the sex improved? Let us know.

If you do decide the shower is the place for you, look for something with a suction cup base. There are several dildo's out there with this feature, you can stick it on the shower wall or tub floor, and work your troubles away. If you like it standing use the wall, ect. ect. It just depends on how much you are willing to spend and if you plan to use them with your hubby, when you get to see him that is.

sounds to me like this guy wanted you to be the "easy girl" that all the guys got to. I think he had some sorta idea that it was nice to be part of a line of guys who get to do the "school slut" or what ever his idea was. Dunno, that is definately a new one.

While that is not really what I am up for(hey, I guess someone likes feeling like a failure, but it ain't me), I am sure on some level he needed the fantasy of you getting it from another man and he probably finished the fantasy in his own head of what you would then say to the other man. I suppose some people like to feel inadequate.

until recently I was under 400. Some things have happened in the past couple of weeks and I have risen to a 460 or so. I wouldn't think you are average, we just happen to know some above average Kinksters.

Back in the 90's I would wear my girlfriends scruchies like a cock ring when I would jerk off. I don't know that a partner has ever ask me to do something odd like any of the above mentioned things. Hmmm, more thinking is to be done.

You are DANG strait that is odd. I have never, EVER heard of "trampling" and I know of some odd stuff. That is weird. I am almosst certain I have my oddest experience, but I want to probe my memories further and make sure.

Just curious, what is the oddest thing a current/former lover has ever ask of you? I am gonna ponder this and get back to you guys. Crazy1

I know we live in an age of excess, and gluttony, but I have to ask what is the most you would ever pay for a vibe? I want to limit it right now to just that and see the kinda responses that come in. I know I might pay up to 400 for a one of a kind dildo or vibe if I knew that it would last. I have seen some glass one a kind phallus that run upto 300 and other "unique" items that cost almost 1500 bucks. If you are intrested in seeing some of these luxury items, pm me and I will send you the links. C1 P.S. I am currently eyeing a 89.00 dollar "massager" and don't think I would mind paying that at all. Telecom, pm me. I think you might take interest in this one too.

I agree, I got the Venus butterfly for my wife and it was not all we had hoped. The noise was not a factor, but the strength of the bullet was hardly up to snuff. I have said before that we are big people and that might play in to our experience with this item, however, the remote works through walls, doors, ect. and it's not really that bad, but you only have one level of stimulation and I think it's designed for people who get a big thrill of trying something like this in public. Overall, I think it should be used when you are going out and don't expect to orgasm in public, but build her arousal over a period of time so when you find a quiet convient local, you can shag like the crazed baboons on Discovery. Enjoy!! C1

how often is multiple times more than 4? when I was a teenager, i would jerk off sometimes 4 times a day. it never got in the way of my other activities, but If you become where it interferes, that is too much.

I don't know about that Mikalya. I have some and most of my rings are not made to fit over the testicles. The only rings I have ever seen that are meant to do that have a second loop just for snugging up the boys. I tried to fit all my stuff in one of the cyberskin rings I have and wound up smashing my balls into my wife a couple of times and let me tell ya, that ain't how it's supposed to work. I would do some more looking and get various sizes of rings. Most of the rings I have ever owned all said they were to be placed at the base of the penis, while flaccid(like Mikayla said), and should not be kept on for more than 30 minutes after an erection has occured. Good Luck and I hope you both enjoy the rings!!

ah yes, ice cubes, hot wax, and spanking!!!! how could I have forgotten. Thanks Mikayla! I am gonna go get some ice and a paddle for tonight!!!!

wow, that does suck. I think I would move on to finding ways of letting everyone get what they want. If she wants the big dong, let her have it, and she can please me orally. I can definately see that a person would have issues about the toy being the dominant focus of sex, and it would be intimidating to know that when you are doing your job, she is thinking about something bigger and better. With out surgury, I am unaware of any proven method to increase penis size. I would have to find away for all involved to get what they like. If she is his wife and she loves him then she would(or should anyway) help him find something he likes and they should ensure the mutual gratification for each person involved. WOW telecom, once again, you have given me something to really ponder.

Briefly tell what your fetishes are. Don't get descriptive, just list them if you will. If someone asks, then we will go in to detail, but otherwise, let's try not to frighten everyone away. For me, pearl necklaces, facials, leather/vinyl boots, anal, bondage, corsets, platform shoes, Dom/sub. That puts me at 8 I can think of off the top of my head. If I think of any more I will add them.

I was recently talking to a brother of mine and he told me that he and his wife have only had one vibe. It was purchased years ago and broke over a year ago. He was thinking about replacing it and was not sure if he was ready to yet. I cannot think of going with out a vibe now-a-days, I mean when one type of vibe breaks in my toybox, it gets replaced ASAP. I have owned numerous eggs, slimlines, and so on. I have only had one dual action and it has definately earned a permanent spot in our box of goodies. when it goes, I might get two just to replace it. So all this comes to this, can we have too much of a good thing? Do we ever over spend on sex toys? Are they addicting? If all of your toys(vibes, plugs, restraints, ect) broke, died, snapped, disintergrated in the next 30 minutes, what would you do? Could you have fulfilling sex with out them or are we dependant on them for pleasure. Me, I know I am gonna go buy a cheapie vibe and some lube, maybe even shell out the extra cash for a dual action at the local store(which is about double the cost of ordering on-line). I know that I need them as much as my wife loves them. What would you do?

are we too scary? Have we frightend everyone else from posting here? I too need surround sound for my sex room. I think I would paint it red. maybe two different shades. My bedroom is red and I think it is a very arousing color. It's the color of passion and all that. A camera, monitor, still camera, King size bed with restraints, paddles, maybe a lash(mikayla, you naughty thing you, now I want one.....), fireplace, large cushy rug for rolling around on, and maybe a sex machine. I would love to watch my wife get hammered for half an hour while I sit back and watch. Now I have no earthly idea what 12G is talking about with some of those impliments. 12G can you tell me where to find some of those so I can decide it I like them? We have not done heavy BDSM but I know she wants to, and hey, I will try anything twice(just to make sure I was right the first time). Does anyone else have any ideas on what a sex room would look like in their "dream home"?

Welcome back Admiral. I was a newbie when you were last here. Glad to see you found your way back.

would you give the room a theme? Like Zebra or Leopard? Ya know, some animal print? Or a sensory depravation thing with black walls? A club kinda atomsphere with laser lights, or nature, how would you decorate your sex room?

A hot tub is a very sexy thing, but it doens't have to be dungeon if you don't want it to be. Now Mikayla, when should we begin consturction? If I build it, will you cum?

If I had a sex room I would love to have the liberator shapes "black label" collection, some good restraints, a sex swing, lots of lube, vibes, and nipple toys. What would you want? What would it look like?

CL, you have piqued my curiosity. What kinda things does he say? People I would like to know, what are the terms you use in bed? Is it your dick, cock, dong, meat, or what? Do you call it pussy, twat, cunt, box, ect.? What about the other acts that are performed? What sounds sexy to you?