corao65

Both my wife and I are 65 years old. We have been married for 44 years, are best of friends, and we are sexually active (once a week). My wife is especially conservative (timid) when it comes to bedtime activities and I am much more willing to experiment. I have talked with her in the past about using a vibrator when having sex, but I think she considers it to be dirty and kinky. She has had medical problems in the past which caused her to go into early menopause and since then her sex drive has been mediocre at best. I'm not getting any younger too, so it takes more time for me to become aroused as well. I would like to introduce a vibrator into our love making, but I'm not sure how to introduce it to my wife. When I have talked to her about it before, she almost immediately changes the subject. Can anyone give me suggestions on what to do?

Both my wife and I are 65 years old. We have been married for 44 years, are best of friends, and we are sexually active (once a week). My wife is especially conservative (timid) when it comes to bedtime activities and I am much more willing to experiment. I have talked with her in the past about using a vibrator when having sex, but I think she considers it to be dirty and kinky. She has had medical problems in the past which caused her to go into early menopause and since then her sex drive has been mediocre at best. I'm not getting any younger too, so it takes more time for me to become aroused as well. I would like to introduce a vibrator into our love making, but I'm not sure how to introduce it to my wife. When I have talked to her about it before, she almost immediately changes the subject. Can anyone give me suggestions on what to do?