Harpy6

As the title says...I have a very hard time getting my husband(who is only 27) in the mood for sex. He seems to not want it almost ever. There are days were all I want is to be naked with him and start fooling around but he will slap my hand away or just tell me no. I have tried walking around the house nake, sitting on the couch naked next to him...but it seems like nothing really works. We even together decided to buy some toys to experiment with. (These are the first toys I have ever owned) He just seems uninterested in using them. Advice on things I can do to make him more interested or anything really to help. Thanks

I'm curious why guys like to ask a woman if they have had bigger or why they ask if size matters? Again just curious

S is for spanking!

I'm not speaking from a lot of experience with different cocks...mainly because I never wanted to have lots of partners, but my husband has a wonderful cock. I haven't messured it but of the other 2 guys I have been with my husband has the better cock. He isn't quite as long as the other 2 were but his girth is better. My husband and I were each others first so all of my experience is mainly from him and we are still discovering new things to try and see what we really like...I typically can only get off if I'm in the cowgirl position. I'm not complaining I really enjoy any position we try. I don't think size truly matters as long as it is pleasurable for everyone involved. I do enjoy looking at all types of cock because I find them attractive. Would I want to try larger ones yes, but I wouldn't want to "upgrade" I'm very happy with the size of my husband's cock. Like it was said earlier everyone has difference perfences on size. I do know people that want to be stretched to their limit everytime because that is pleasurable. I just like to fill full.

N is for naughty girl/boy

I is for intense foreplay

K is for kinky

F is for fornicate

For me it's all about moods that I'm in...there are days were all I can think about is giving my husband a blow job. I really do enjoy giving blowjobs. What stinks is I rarely am on the receiving end of oral anything. So i guess my one would be blowjobs...but receiving oral would be nice

I guess I'm kinda weird...because I like the smell on my panties after we have had sex. There is something about the mingling of the two fluids that just smells amazing. If my husband wanted to have a pair of my panties to smell I would give them to him.

I would recommend one the is called Mood. http://www.tootimid.com/7-function-mood-powerful.html My husband and I are also new to this and this is one we really like. By new I mean like 3 weeks. Also always check the free items that are offered because some of them are also great for beginners like us.

I'm with Tyger. I can't wait for fall and cooler days. I live in the Midwest and most of our summer days have been mid 90s. Plus my birthday is in the fall and all the pretty leaves. I always look forward to the pretty flowers and then the pretty leaves. But really any weather that I can be out and about in with my dogs is perfect weather.

Fuck my work place. They have screwed me over for the last 3 months. I'm one of maybe 2 people who are willing to cover shifts but that doesn't mean I want to be on a different shift for 3 god damn months in a row. Just this year I have spent half of it on a different shift then I'm suppose to be on. Every time I'm told I'm going back to my normal shift it's oh we have to push that back because your replacement isn't here. Or I have the we can utilize you as we need. Well fuck off I'm not th e only one who can be utilized but they won't treat any of the guys like this. The guys haven't been told to be on another shift for weeks on end. To have their sleep cycle and sex life completely fuck over. I'm married and use to have sex on a regular basis. Now I'm to tired to have sex when my husband is in the mood, because that is usually during the time I want to be sleeping. No sex makes me a very pissy and frustrated person. Now I switched someone days so that when I go back to my normal shift in didn't have to have an 8 hrs turn around...now I have to have two 8 hrs turn arounds in a row to go back to my shift. All because one of the guys can't work 10 days in a row. Fuck that I have had to do that 2 or 3 times in the last 3 months all because someone else needed time off or someone needed to swap dates for a family thing. I feel like I am being mistreated all because I'm a female. Equality should be what they do...but I'm the only one getting rammed in the ass repeatedly. And all because I'm willing to help cover when it's needed. But seriously enough already. Okay I feel better. Thanks

I agree with Rc4blue. Every relationship is different and built with different stones. Some are built from struggles, while others are built with religion as the corner stones. But no one has the right to cast judgment on anyone else's relationship or how they decide to make it blossom into something new. That being said. Ronc09 I'm happy things are moving in a positive way for you Good luck and please keep us posted.

Thank you. Just asking for advice. Any is appreciated

I posted in the relationship forum about the main issue I have. And thank you its nice to have people to talk to and to not feel alone

Is there some helpful ways to get past knowledge that affects your current relationship? Here is my main problem. When my now husband and I were dating he told me he was bi-sexual and had done somethings with guys. He never dated any guys, but the thought has always been in the back of my mind that he is/has been looking around at guys. This is making exploring certain sexual experiences very unnerving for me. Is there some way to get past these feeling and thoughts or ways to be more comfortable...? I feel like my metal barrier is going to eventually ruin our marriage. Side not we have been married just about 4 yrs. And been dating just under 8 yrs.

You are both very helpful. I'm willing to push my comfort boundaries for him because I love him. There are just some things from our past together that makes certain things uncomfortable for me. But now that we are married I'm trying very hard to not let those things bother me anymore.

Welcome...I'm also really new to this site and so far everyone has been really nice.

I'm looking for people to talk to and better understand what I'm feeling. I'd like to talk with people around my age too...but hard to know who is and isnt. Rc4blue thanks I have brought up before the difference in are desire levels and he just gets angry. So then I drop the topic. I'm just worried about things and trying hard to make things better or more enjoyable for him...by trying things he has wanted to do even when it make me uncomfortable. This forum is great and so far everyone has been really nice and welcoming

I have never experienced anal...so i wouldn't be game for that part of it. But the mouth and pussy part I would be. But everyone has a preference to what they are willing to do or have done. And I think she is trying to decide what she wants to try.

This how I feel about it. But I have never had a 3some

But that is my view from being a woman. I can't say she thinks like me...so who knows for sure

She is probably considering it more then she was. But she probably didn't mention it because she is still unsure how she feels and didn't want you to think one thing instead of the other

All I can say is wow...like wow...WWWOOOWWW!