Update: my husbanf has started seeing a therapist(of his own free will) and this past week the therapist pretty much told him that I was the man in the relationship because I'm the pursuer of sex. In an earlier session they discussed sex life and he said he was happy with how it was and explained that it is roughly once a week. He was asked if I was ok happy with that as well. And my husband stated that I would probably be happier with it more often. So I know he is listening to me some...now all I need is for him to take action and make an effort for more than once a week. I crave him intimatly and express it to him daily he just still loves his ganes