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M and I have been doing a lot more mutual masturbation lately. It's a nice "appetizer", or it makes a fun main course!

My "friend" sent me some pictures today!! Nice sexy ones in some very nice bra and panty sets and some in some nice sexy dresses. Mmmmmmm! I sent her back some of me in a red (her favorite lingerie color) corset and panties and some in a matching green bra and panty set with thigh highs. No full nakies from either of us, but I'm hoping we get back up to speed soon. She wants me to plan a visit so we can go lingerie shopping together next month. M is good with it, and I love the thought of her and I trying lingerie on together. Just like the weather, things are starting to warm up again! Might be closer to fulfilling my fantasy with her... D

Mine too BB&B! D

If only I could talk her into it bigcock! M

Finally heard from my "friend" again. She's been busy, family issues and pressures, work, the usual interruptions. That's why she says I haven't heard from her and she still wants to plan to get together. Wondering how I want to proceed from here. I'd love to see more pictures of her (this is a somewhat long distance "relationship") as well as send her more of me (love getting naked and doing pictures for her and M loves taking them!). I'd really like to get things simmering again and bring them to a boil. So, do I send her some pics again? Racy ones, tame ones, or full on naked where we left off? Or, do I sit back and wait? All so confusing. I really want to try my first woman, and I'd really like it to be her. She really makes me wet when we're sending pictures to each other and talking about getting together... D

The more I talk about it, the more I think about it and the more I think about it the more I talk about it D

Mmm, me too NElady. I seem to think about that a lot lately. D

You're making me jealous Tyger! I loved using it on my husband, but I'd really love using it with another woman!!! D

That is really nice to hear that you met a women and were able to explore your curiosity. I have been in contact with someone for the last few months texting back and forth, sending pictures and each set of pictures got better then the ones before until we were sending full nudes to each other, I loved it. We decided we were going to get together and spend some time together, starting making plans and then all of a sudden everything went still. Not really sure what happened but I was looking forward to getting together and seeing about my curiosity and I felt comfortable with her because we know each other. Not sure what went wrong, I don't think that it would be cold feet on her end because I don't think I would have been her first. Not sure if I should pursue or leave it alone. It went from hot to nothing. It is really nice to hear that this does work out for other curious people. Just not sure what to do next. Happy for you. D

I'm thinking that we'll chill it down before the next time RC. Never really thought about using temperature to stimulate, but it sounds good. M

My husband finally agreed to let me use my glass dildo on him! He LOVED it and so did I!! Now M and I can both agree it's one of our favorites. Next to my bullet, of course! I'm thinking we need to talk, ccprim!! D

RC4BLUE hit the nail on the head. Go SLOW, go SLOW, GO SLOW!! Also, lots and lots of lube. A finger is a good way to start and you can move up to small toys, then into larger ones as you get comfortable. Try to stick to toys designed for anal. No, actually, ONLY use toys designed for anal. Otherwise you risk losing one "up there". Fingers and toys will give you the opportunity to experiment by yourself and get a feel for things, so to speak. The other point that RC4BLUE made that can't be stressed enough is that YOU'RE in control. You say when you're ready for him to slide into you, how he does it, and the pace after he's in you. You also need to make sure he knows that stop means stop. That's important. Pain is definitely not what you should be feeling if you're doing things right. So, take your time, read up on it, experiment, play, and have fun. D and I always save this for when we have plenty of time. The more you play before hand, the more relaxed you are and the easier and more enjoyable it will be. M

Hi Kurie! You'll be glad you joined, really no reason to be nervous. It's a gentle and welcoming group. Jump in with both feet. M

Welcome and hello W2TB! I'm sure you'll enjoy it here!! M

If you really want to treat yourself when your all alone thinking of a three some go get yourself a High Intensity Snow Bunny. It will rock your world and keep you thinking of being with us. That's what I have been doing when I have been thinking about this. D

Absolutely toys will be involved!! D

Or better yet, I'll lick you while you lick ccprim while she licks me... Ultimate daisy chain! D

Absolutely NElady! But we'll have to take turns being in the middle. Okay with you? D

Thinking about you fingering yourself at work makes me hot ccprim!! Might have to try it myself... Probably make me hotter if you were fingering ME at work! D

Mmmmmmmmmmmmm ccprim, the thought of the three of us ripping each other's clothes off to lap each other!! Don't know about you and NElady, but I'm thinking we'd have to find a way to daisy chain so we could all lap each other at the same time!!! If only we were closer, we wouldn't have to be worrying about how to make this happen. D

You girls just keep making me wet! Count me in for that all girl threesome ccprim and NElady, fantasy or otherwise!! The thought of it has me soaking wet... D

I have a glass dildo and love it ccprim. You will too. Trying to talk my husband into letting me use it on him. I think he likes the idea. Now you've got me wet thinking about it! D

I think I probably would have cum if that had happened to me ccprim. I got wet just reading about it! Now I'm thinking I could do it with a stranger in a situation like that. I'd love to have something like that happen. I know how hot it gets me when I send naked pictures of myself to the girl I'm trying to get into bed with. Something like this would be over the top amazing! D

That sounds really hot ccprim! I'd love something like that too, but not sure about doing it with a stranger. Although, if one came on to me, I might throw caution to the wind. This is all so very complicated. Really, really want to do this and don't know how or where to start. D

We've never done the video thing, but have done pictures. Funny, sometimes it's quite arousing and other times it's a pain. One consistent is that I enjoy the pictures afterwards!