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Thanks RC4BLUE! Now if only I can get her to be adventurous enough to post a picture or two on here...

Probably sounds vanilla to most of you, but I love to masturbate to pictures of my wife. We have accumulated quite a few over the years, and I enjoy reliving the photo sessions, having a fantasy about what we can do next, and the unending fantasy of her fantasy coming true--her making love with another woman!.

Hi ccprim, you'll enjoy it here. We're pretty new ourselves and enjoy it a lot.

Fighting the same battle here NElady. My wife really wants to give it a try, but getting started is really tough. A friend of ours was interested and, in fact, made the initial advances. She comes on strong then backs away. That gets kind of old. My wife likes the idea of the comfort of someone she knows as opposed to the uncertainty of an internet stranger. The best I could offer her was what I did in my single days, flirt with women in the grocery store. Hey, don't laugh, it worked! I might suggest you don't totally close the door on trying with someone you know. You'll just need to be sure that they're interested, and that it wouldn't screw up the friendship. Like any other relationship, you need to take your time.

Good advice RC4BLUE. I always say there are 3 types of people. Those whose job is just what they do: doesn't matter to them what it is as long as the paycheck shows up. Not a good thing. Those whose job is who they are: always tied to their work right along with their self esteem. Also not a good thing. Those whose job is WHAT they are: this is the one you want to be. You take pride in a job well done, want to improve at what you do, give an honest day's work for an honest day's wage, and then know when to turn it off and be the father, mother, husband, wife, friend that really makes your life worth living.

It's good that you ask the question but, really, only your partner can give you the best answer. Don't be afraid to ask him! Get what you feel is a good rhythm going and then ask if he likes it that way. Don't be disappointed if he wants it faster or slower, tighter or looser. And, it may change during the course of the hand-job or be different tomorrow than it was today. Ask if he'd like to experiment with different lubes. K-Y, baby oil, hell even butter or cooking oil (whoops, guess I let that little kink out of the bag). The main thing is to ask what he likes and help him to be comfortable telling you. I'm sure he'll be happy to tell you and will almost certainly want to return the favor!

Thanks! Glad to be here!

By the way, I do occasionally use a masturbator, and they are enjoyable. But the work afterwards to clean and dry thoroughly can be a pain.

Seriously, is there a bad place to masturbate? I've done it inside, outside, in my truck, bedroom, bathroom, tractor shed, in the woods, at work, restaurant bathrooms, in the lake, on the boat, with various girlfriends watching, pretty much, you name it, I've done it. When the urge strikes, why wait?

Welcome Slutshots!

Thanks for the welcome folks!

Guess we did this kind of bass ackwards. Probably should have posted here to introduce us first instead of posting elsewhere. We're a married couple in our 50's, and really starting to explore our sexuality. Having great fun doing it. Hope being on here will add to the fun!!

Thanks for the response Wendy! It has taken a while for her to come to this point. She loves looking at women and, like you, she LOVES breasts. Only, at this point, it's just looking at them. I've assured her she will enjoy playing with them just as much!! It will probably take some doing to get her to get on one of the swinger sights, but going slow might get the job done. Like I said, I'm mostly interested in her getting to explore this. She really enjoyed the aspect of exchanging ever racier pictures with our friend. Finally becoming comfortable enough that they were regularly exchanging almost exclusively full nudes and she loved sending and receiving them. I'm sure that's what she will be the most comfortable starting with going forward. Probably will want to concentrate our search for a bi woman rather than a couple unless it was a couple that was looking for an experience for the women and not a full swing situation. That will be a challenge, I'm sure, since I want to be present, but not looking to participate with the other woman, only my wife. Unless, of course, they ask me to join! Like I said, this is for her and something I really want her to be able to explore.

Wife has finally decided that she's bi-curious. I've known it for a while, but that's another story. Now comes the hard part. What to do about it and how proceed. So far, it's gone good. Have a friend who was initially receptive to the idea and, in fact, encouraged it. Seems she now has cold feet and is pulling back. No problem, value the friendship more than the opportunity to fulfill the experience. But, that leaves us with where do we go from here? We live in a rural area, so the clubs and such are really not an option. The total on-line thing is a little scary if you ask me. What we're looking for is an experience for her. I'd like to be present, and would participate at least in a voyeur role, but only to the maximum of actual penetration with my wife. If she's comfortable with anything else, we could work establish that as we go. But the real point is how do we find a partner? Living out in the sticks, as we do, really limits the available pool of candidates. Looks like with our friend backing out, we've eliminated any potential for someone we already know. Don't want to let this whither and die on the vine. It's something my wife really seems to want and I'd like to make sure she gets to try it.