scubadiv1951

Having no kids, its get naked all the time ! LOL

At 65 , and recently retired, one would begin to think that, thinking about sex would not be too high on the list to think about. But I have found it to be quite the contrary. My interest in sex has gotten stronger since I quit working. I have more time to think about sex and less stress from not working. Always have had a strong sex drive, so its only gotten stronger.I think of it all the time now. My wife is still working (for another 2 years). I about drive her crazy when we go to bed at night. She wants to sleep once in awhile, I can't figure out why? I and a want to play 7 nights a week !! I wish she shared my same enthusiasm a few more nights a week, LOL

I can relate to what your saying for the most part. Sex sometimes becomes so routine at times, with work and a busy schedule that neither one of us seem to be focusing on each other as couple and enjoying sex for what it's meant to be.A loving sharing relationship. It's like ," ok, I'm kinda in the mood , are you, " ? It's late lets get it over with so we can get some sleep". I find that when that happens it makes me feel like there's more to it then that. Even though my wife and I were having sex about 3-4 times a week, and a great loving relationship. I'm 65 still in very good physical shape. I just recently retired and still have a very intense sex drive. Wife is almost 60. I'm sometimes more then she can handle, sometimes since were not always in the same frame of mind, or in the mood as much as me. So I decided that it was time to change up my approach to make sex, more enjoyable and pleasurable for her and the both of us. I have found that setting the mood is very important. I like to burn scented candles, and play smooth jazz ,and have a bottle of wine handy. We have a 29 gallon fish tank in our bedroom. I usually turn on the hood light to night mood, which gives kind of a black light effect in the room with cool shadows. That helps to get her in the mood. She comes out of the bathroom naked coming to bed and I can watch the silhouette of her body as she walks towards the bed. A real natural mood setter for me. Once she gets in bed, I like to make her feel loved and appreciated. I hold her close and kiss her and tell her how much I love her. I myself enjoy a lot of foreplay and I have found that it really helps intensify the emotions were feeling. I enjoy fingering her clit playing with her vagina and massaging her nipples and licking and sucking them with my tongue. I make sure she cums, before moving on. By this time she is slowly stroking me, and my cock is on fire. I'm not finished by any means. In the past there was none to very little oral sex. She never seemed interested and I never bothered to even approach it. But over the past year I decided it was time to actually go in that direction. at first It was awkward asking her all the time if she wanted it, or could If I could lick her pussy, but now she loves it and can't wait for me to ask. I love oral, and can go for ever, or as long as she wants it, or until she starts to get a little sore from the play. I can't tell you how many times she comes in a 30 min. period but I know it's a pretty big number.I don't have to ask. Her soft moans and soft crying says it all. Once I have satisfied her with my tongue, she accommodates me in the same way. I prefer not to cum orally. I let her get me ready and then its time to get down with the real thing. Instead or the regular missionary position we have both taken a real liking to the doggie style position. She gets on all 4's on the edge of the bed and I enter her wet dripping pussy from behind, and it is unbelievably fabulous. Were both a little wore out by the end result, but we both have a smile on our faces and fall asleep in total bliss. There are still a few things I would like to try with just the two of us, and that will come in time. I have learned no matter how old you are your never to old to try new things and enjoy sex to the fullest! Just by changing a few simple things with your approach and setting the mood !! Neither one of us have enjoyed sex more in a long time, without having to change this too much !!!! PS : Sorry for the Long rambling here in case I put some of you to sleep !

Cool, are you a Cardinal fan ?? I'm a fan of 56 years !!!

Good afternoon and welcome !

Have you tried discussing the situation with him? Does he have any interest in sex, or just can't perform , but interested ? That has to really suck !! Hard to believe he wouldn't be interested if that's the case. But my wife's ex husband according to her had no interest in sex , except for only a short time after they were married.They were more like roommates then husband and wife. After many years of marriage they ended up getting a divorce. She went from extreme to another with him to me. I never seem to get enough. I hope you find a solution.

I will shave or trim once in awhile for something different. I usually shave the sides of my cock and balls as close as I can, and trim and thin out the area along my balls area.I also like thinning out the hairy area above my cock giving it a look of a neatly trimmed mustache. I got the idea from a old girlfriend from many years ago. She use to shave her pussy but would always have some sort of design on or around it. She use to leave a thin strip of neatly trimmed hair along her pussy lips on each side, and a left a thin line up on top. across the top of her pussy area. It was the coolest thing I have ever seen. She was an hair stylist and and artist , so she really got creative with it.For myself, I do like the feeling of a smooth slick cock, when it comes to fucking and sucking.Which reminds me I'm about do to do it again! It kicks up the feeling another notch,if you ask me. My wife has never really said much about it, she leaves that up to me. She herself is clean shaven. Personally I like a little hair around the edges but that's all a matter of preference I guess. Have a great day everyone!

Isn't it great when a random chat that things work out so well! It was meant to be !! As the saying goes "it's not how you stated but how you finish ." !And it looks like we both finished well , congrats. !!

Meeting on line can be good and bad. I know probably ten people people that met someone on line and four of them didn't work out very well. All 4 got married but within a year or so they ended up getting divorced, do to different circumstances. You take a chance like any other relationship, on line or not. On line is more work and will usually end up a bigger disappointment if it doesn't workout well. I feel very blessed that our marriage and relationship worked out so well from the beginning and continues to grow as we age.

My wife and I met 17 years ago in one of the old yahoo groups ,"Ebony women for Ivory guys" WE began chatting online. Became friends, turned into we had to meet in person just find out if it was for real.. After 2 months of phone calls and chatting online she traveled 1600 miles to visit me for 4 days. Had a great time. It was love at first meeting. she came back to visit 7 weeks later on her birthday. During the weeks leading up to her second visit, I decided she was the woman for me. I took the giant step, bought an engagement ring, and proposed to her on her birthday ! She said yes. 15 months later we were married, and just celebrated out 15th. wedding anniversary this past December. True love does happen on the internet. Not just blind sex texting and living out fantasies.

Nice pics. Thanks for sharing !! sexy !

Definitely needs a playmate !! Need a volunteer ??

Always the best of the BEST !!!!

How sweet is that !!!!

Everyday if possible. I say if possible! ! Wife not so needy. Have to compromise and settle for probably 4 as a good number for us. But at 59 and 64 years of age I guess that's still not bad if you check the survey # of couples having sex these days. Were way above the normal range. But I never said anything about being normal when it cums to sex.

So do you ever get enough to keep you satisfied , for any length of time??

OOPS, Did I quote the wrong PIc ?? Sorry if I did !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ok, nice thick cock !

So tell me , it seems like your always in the mood ? :P I like it , LOL

Tt looks like you could use a good licking ! Primed and ready to eat !

The Best torture one could hope for. Looks delicious !!

Depends on the individual of course , but have you ever wondered what your partner is thinking when you are having sex ? And what are you thinking also? Especially if they are rather quiet and don't really say much, but you know they are really turned on and tuned into you !!! JUst curious thought I would get others opinion on this ! :D

Nice !! BUt now I have to go to work, That's torture to say the least !

New in here myslef and I know at my age your never too old to learn new tricks !! Welcome and hope you lean, and find the answers your searching for !