Erosattheback

Finding a third is not always easy. If the two of you are open to an MFM it is sometimes easier to find a third. The FMF can be more at her discretion. Good luck with finding the right people to share such a great experience with.

You need to find yourself a dominant woman, one who likes kink and can take charge. Anyone who. Thinks your gay just because you like to be pegged is ignorant and homophobic. They bought into some idiotic script. Find yourself a good woman and get yourself fucked the way you want. Remember to give her what she wants.

Seems that there are a number of post recently that have the same basic theme and type (in bold) that are polluting is site. As I read is see similar structure in each post. They are all supposed for different people. But, I am suspicious that they are all generated from the same person or program. I’m not sure about everyone else but this group, but I am getting to the point of being disturbed by the number of posts all relating back to one specific theme -dating tours - not sure what the goal is. It has me thinking I need to bring my attention to a different place. WTF is this all about?

Hey, welcome. Lots here to explore.

Hey you’re welcome. The small beads are a great suggestion. There are other bead sets that are all the same size that might work even better as a beginner than ones that increase in size as you go up the chain.

Start with getting yourself totally turned on. Before using anything insertable start with external stimulation. Try a vibrator to excite you. There are thousands of nerve ending in your anal area and vibration on the outside can be very pleasurable. Start with something small for insertion, think side of your little finger. You have work your way up as things are comfortable. If pain, STOP! Use lots of lube. Remember there is a difference between pain and discomfort. Don’t force anything.

Ouch! Start slow and easy and small. Use lots of lube, I mean lots. Given that you have been cut and stitched you may not be able to take anything large quickly. Start with small diameter and see how it goes. If it goes good, slowly work up in sizes.

He may be wanting you to be the dominant one. Give it a try. You got nothing to loose.

Absolutely! The other day my play partner had me playing the dominant role. I strapped her arms behind her, gaged her and had her on her knees legs spread wide. For the next hour I edged her with my fingers, mouth and toys until she was shaking and begging to cum hard. Once I let her cum, we spent the next hour with her taking me and me taking her orally.

Great picture!!! He’s not interested in any play? I feel for you. ED doesn’t stop people from using fingers, lips, tongues, and toys. Maybe approach him with other things to do other than penetration.

There don’t seem to be a lot of rules, except respect for one another.

If you want to try it, do it. I’ve been involved in MFM, FMF both. They were great fun. I had a woman that was into pegging that would play with me. She was a bit of a FemDom so things got kinky. I took on a position a few years back: if I fantasize about it, I do it.

If I had a woman that wanted to play, or wanted to bring in another for play, I’d be all in. Talk to your SO again. Tell him how hot it is for you. Talk it up. Tell him how fucking sexy it would be to be a part of it.

Hot story! I hope it is based on actual happening.

Relax, things like that happen. The more pressure you put on getting off the less likely you will get off. Focus on the play and pleasure. Be open to new experiences. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay! Allow your mind to relax and enjoy. Usually orgasm will return.

After a night out the three of us came back to the suit. We all knew what was going to take place. As soon as the door closed the clothes started coming off. My lady friend stepped in to the next room for something. At her return she saw exactly what she had been wanting. My friend was on his knees in front of me, my cock down his throat. She made some comment about how hot is was and came up behind me, kissing me and playing with my nipples. The rest of the night we spent getting each other off several times. She held my head as I sucked him off. I held her down as he fucked her, then she pushed me down as minted me. He fell asleep and we kept going until she couldn’t cum any more. Each time she and I did this with a third it is so damn hot.

Wow! Very lovely.

That can be a problem, finding someone to trust enough. I suggest keep talking to people you are interested in. Make sure they are clean, get testing results if that makes you feel better. Start off with going out together before jumping into bed. Everyone I have connected with took between 3 months and two years before we were active.

Adding a third is exciting, but be aware everyone must be on the same page. If not the excitement becomes and explosion. There is a bit of talk that needs to happen if you are in a committed couple relationship. I have a three sets of people I play with. There is no jealousy or problems, but we have strong boundries. I've also been in relationships where she was now way in hell going to join a party. Just make damn sure everyone wants to play and everyone has good esteem, of the whole thing can go to hell fast.

I like the smooth. Not only is it a great look, it is great for sex, especially oral.

Luscious! Stunning! Amazing! Who ever your partner may be, that person is very lucky to be with you.

Coming to your own understanding of personal sexuality is wonderful. She may need some time to get there. I know from first hand experience that there are some women that will never accept a man as bisexual, or want to be in an intimate relationship with him. Since you are married, you will need to talk about her feelings,M your feelings and how to manage sexually. She will need time to process all of this. Don't push her to accept. Let her come to it. My last short term relationship, she would not accept my sexuality. It ended the relationship. The was no way things were going to work with her. She always believe that it was competition.

Tell him the orgasms are mind blowing. That should get him interested.

There are a lot of men that would be willing to join in. Find someplace where it is easy to talk about sexual stuff or go to an event centered on sex (erotic art show, erotic ball, erotic festival, swinger event). If you approach the guy there is a high degree that you will get what you want. Talk, flirt, be sudective. I've been involved in a few MFM scenes. It really can be that easy. Just remember to be safe and clean.

Welcome, love to be adventurous... love that statement!