Mikayla1

Hey Wendy girl....got lots to catch YOU up on!!!

If you are talking about a vibe, and not a bullet (bullets are mostly external and vibrators are mostly INTERNAL - although you could use it for clitoral stim) - then you could jeopardize your virginity. Listen, it is all in the way you think of this. The hymen is fairly delicate and can be broken (as pointed out above) by other means that do not involve sex. The most common way to break the hymen, is through insertion (fingers, toys, penis) thereby effectively tearing it away. Now, the question is: if a woman breaks her OWN hymen, is she still a virgin? I submit - YES - she is until she has sexual intercourse with a man (or another woman). However, that is just my opinion. So, if your question is can it break your hymen: yes Will you still be a virgin: that is your call

Welcome to TT! I hope you enjoy the message board and find lots of yummy toys to replace the ones you had to "toss out" - which makes me sad Poor toys!

Being eaten out after sex is a FAVORITE activity of mine. I mean, the feeling of being well-fucked, followed by the warm oozing of cum and then you add in your tongue or fingers! OH YEAH! I think if you just told her, "oh baby, you make me so hot, I am just not done with you yet" and then spread her open and go to town....she will love it! It is worth a try!

Personally, I like those "boy" shirts, button ups, fitted waists. You can wear a nice push up bra, unbutton a few and BAM, there are the girls. Maybe she can borrow one of yours and then cinch the middle?

I think the ones that look like foxes are ADORABLE! I soooo want one. I wonder if you could buy the one from the site, and then add whatever tail you wanted?

No. I think that it is a personal choice to have sex with someone. I think that we all make good and bad choices in this department. I know my number is rather high, I have had many "moresomes" and such. I do not regret them nor am I ashamed of them. It does not define me as a person - or a lover. I do think that thousands of thousands would be damn excessive...but who is to say! I prefer quality over quantity at this point in my life, but that is just me!

I love that little video on the "pop" noise up there. I love all the advice already given, but I have some ideas / suggestions as well. First, not every woman can squirt. There are differing degrees of this as well. Sometimes it is just a small gush - others it can be bed soaking - and not always consistent. Some women squirt easily, each time with sex or fingering, some never will. Some may do it only when drunk (inhibitions gone) and some may be able to learn to let go. The most important thing to remember is: KEEP SEX FUN! Never put pressure on yourself or your partner, or it will not happen. I learned this with my ex-boyfriend. I wanted to squirt for him so badly that I could NOT do it. Then, when I finally just let myself go - BAM - there it was. With new partners we are not always as comfortable. With established partners we sometimes are TOO comfortable with our routines to try something new. All the techniques and suggestions given above are dead on. The key points have been hit. Stimulate, Stimulate, STIMULATE! Keep her ripe for the orgasms, get her G-spot swelling. Have fun and things will happen as they should!

Awe! Thanks guys! I am excited to be back. I have settled in, have gotten a LOT of support from my friends (and have talked Tyger's ear off!!!) and I am feeling much more resolved about my future. I am not dating - YET - but wait until I put myself back on the market! Watch out Chi-Town here I CUM! I am going to be around here much more this summer, as I have little to do other than enjoy my boys. I look forward to connecting with more of my old pals here and making new ones! Thanks again for the support. I really do love all of you!!!

Hello Board! It has been a long while since I have been here, and I have missed you all! A lot has been happening in the last year. When last we "spoke" I was on the romantic adventure of a lifetime! I had met the man I thought was my soulmate, my everything. I moved myself and my 2 boys to Canada to live with him in Quebec. We had nearly a year of amazing, blissful happiness! I have never in my life had such fullfillment in the sex department! We had sex daily, flirted all the time, cared for each other in a way that was unmmatched. It was wonderful. It ended. So, why did it end? Our children just simply did not match up. We fought and fought because of the stress. We became angry with each other and frustrated with the fact that things did not work. We said things we should not have said and the hurt built up until it was too much. I decided to move out, and down the street to stay in Canada for a while. That did not work. The hurt was too much, we waiting too long to separate the kids, it was just too burdensome to try and love each other from a distance. The hurt caused more fights and arguments. I had to leave Canada - and him - behind. I will always love this man. He was the epitome of what love is supposed to be, it just did not work and that was a horrible realization. So, I am back in the States, looking to start my life fresh and new. I just wanted to stop by and offer a "helllo" to my old friends and a "new to meet you" to the new members here. I hope to invade some threads and give some advice, as now I have so much more to offer in the world of advice!

OMG did I LOVE this lube!!! I have to admit, I was a bit hesitant to try a flavored lube because often they taste like cough syrup, or leave a nasty aftertaste in your mouth. However, this one is very pleasant tasting both during and after. It works very well, stays slick, is non-staining, non-sticky and washes off easily with water (or saliva!). It is latex safe and doesn't have any sweeteners in it, so it is very safe for vaginal use. For me and my lover, long sex sessions often lead to dryness for me (unfortunately, I am over 40 so my body rebels against me at times) My honey loves to fuck me, then go down on me, then fuck me, and then go back down. This, for him, can sometimes be a problem because if I need some lubrication a standard lube does not taste great. So, we decided to try a flavored lube! This lube was fantastic! Not only did it work well as a lube, the taste was very pleasant. My honey could easily go from fucking me to licking me without any issue. He said it did not mask my normal pussy taste (which he loves) it just added a "kiss" of Strawberry taste. Which, is appropriate due to the name of the lube. Also, for me when I then went down on him I got the added Strawberry taste on his cock - which was very pleasant indeed! It was not sticky and did not leave a residue on me or him. It is clear and non-staining, and most importantly, non-sticky. It works and it was pleasant for both of us. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND! http://www.tootimid.com/JO-H2O-Flavored_p_2733.html

Get a BANG with the Smoking Gun!! What girl isn't a fan of a dual action vibrator? You get both insertion AND clitoral fun! Plus, what girl isn't a fan of a beautiful, pink and nicely decorated toy? The Jesse Jane Smoking Pistol dual action vibrator is not only super cute but it packs a bang too! Made of medical grade TPE, this gorgeous toy packs a lot of punch. It is super powerful and quite quiet (for such a lot of function). The shaft is a delicious 1 1/2 inches wide and an insertable length of 4.75. I can attest, it is a nice size toy. The clitoral attachment is a mini "pistol" and the barrels are separate so they vibrate independently (like the rabbit ears on the Rabbit vibes). The controls are easy to handle - on the base - one button for on / off; one button to increase or decrease the vibrations of the clitoral attachment and one button to operate the vibrations and spin of the shaft. The shaft also has spinning pleasure beads AND a slightly curved tip (for G-spot stimulation). This multi-function vibe does so many things I can not even begin to tell you the possibilities - and it does it all with 4 AAA batteries (not included)! When I tested out this toy, my lover was next to me, kissing me and touching me all over. I dabbed some lube onto the toy (all lubes can be used with this material) and started to insert. I immediately noticed that it is smooth to insert, but the shaft and head have a design with adds texture and stimulation too. The stretch with this toy was VERY pleasant. I began by simply starting the clitoral attachment. I LOVE the way this toy felt on my clit. I then turned on the shaft vibrations - VERY stimulating immediately. I moved the toy in and out of my pussy, trying to find the perfect mixture of insertion and clitoral attention. What I discovered, to my dismay, was that to get the G-Spot stimulation with the clitoral stimulation, I had to bend the toy in an odd position, which did not work for me. However, regular vaginal insertion and the clitoral stimulation was fantastic - and brought me quickly to a nice, hard orgasm. This toy is quite powerful and offers a lot of BANG for the BUCK. It is a beautifully designed toy with options galore. The insertion was very filling and yet not large enough to cause discomfort. The clitoral stimulator has a wide range of options for speed and vibration. The shaft has so many bells and whistles that you will be yelling RIDE EM COWGIRL over and over and over.... I would recommend this toy to any woman who wants to have a powerful, yet quiet orgasmic experience. You can't go wrong with this vibrator. The only downside, for me, was the G-spot stimulating head was a bit too far in for it to work for me. However, this toy is still fantastic, even without a G-spot orgasm for me. Have SMOKING hot ORGASMS with Jesse Jane's Smoking Pistol!! http://www.tootimid.com/smoking-pistol-pirates-vibrator.html

THIS TOY WORKS! First let me say: I am a VERY lucky girl! My lover has tremendous stamina when it comes to all things sex. I love - and I mean L O V E to give him head. I can do it for hours, literally, if I go slowly, and don't try to make him cum. Sometimes, when I do this, I get him to the point where he can go LONGER and I am tired. So, what do you do? When this toy came in my latest TooTimid box, I thought "eh, why does my honey need this, I LOVE to give him head." Then I thought, hey.....it may work for those times when I just need a break (or, when I am not available). However, both of us were skeptical on whether this would work. Let me just say, for both of us, IT WORKS and it works well. This soft, expandable, jelly / rubber masturbator is extra long for your 'larger' male. My man is a lovely 8 inches and full girth, this toy fit him comfortably (and it would adjust to larger or smaller as well). The inside has 3 suction tubes and a slightly bumpy texture. The opening is a little mouth, and expands easily to accomodate any size penis. The opposite end opens for ease of play and for quick and easy clean up. Just turn it inside out, wash with warm, soapy water and dry thoroughly. When we tried out the Super Head Honcho my man was very stimulated. I dabbed some lube onto his cock and slid the masturbator down onto his shaft. He liked the feeling immediately. I slowly moved the toy up and down, watching as his cock grew inside it. He said the suction was great and the bumps made it feel very nice and stimulating. I increased speed and he came quickly - surprisingly so! The end result is: this toy really works. According to my honey this toy does not feel like oral sex or vaginal sex - it is a feeling all its own - but it is a good feeling. He very much enjoyed using this toy - and I enjoyed helping him to use it. While I love giving my lover head - this toy may come in handy (pun intended) from time to time. If you want a masturbator that works well - then this toy is for you. It is even endorsed by Dr. Sue Johanson (Talk Sex With Sue) - and was voted Toy of the Year. Good reason - cause it WORKS! http://www.tootimid.com/super-head-honcho.html

OH MY BUNNY... Get ready for the shortest review I have ever given for a toy: This toy made me cum - HARD - in under 25 seconds flat. I inserted, I turned in on, the orgasm built, I came. Period. ********************************************************************************************* Here are some specifics, not that you need them - just BUY IT! Made of safe TPR Latex free Waterproof 5 inches of insertable length Takes 4 AAA batteries Controls on the base - one side controls the speed and vibration pattern of the bunny clitoral stimulator, the other controls the speed, direction and pattern of the rotating shaft. This thing does about 60 different combos - and I only needed ONE, the firs one on each controller. It is a nice, filling 4.75 inches in circumferenc Also, right now it is ON SALE for 20 bucks off - if that does not get you to buy it, well, I do not know what will. Just get this toy - now. I loved it, I think you will love it.

SS, it wont strain your neck if you use the extender pieces, then it is just puuuuurfect!

Let me begin this review with this statement: I LOVE THIS PRODUCT!!! If you are at all interested in a little light bondage to spice up your sex life, then anything in the Fetish Fantasy collection will do you right! I am most definitely a bond girl----no, I mean a BONDAGE GIRL, and my lover is more than happy to accomodate me. When he saw this Spread Eagle kit his face lit up like a kid on Christmas---naughty Christmas---and I was more than happy to go along with his plan. The beauty of these restraints is their versatility and ease of use. Each ankle cuff is made of a soft material with a nice, easy, velcro strap. The cuff snaps in to the nylon strap. There is a neck cushion that slides along the strap to make adjustment possible. So, you can be put into these restraints, in a nice, spread eagle position, and have there be no strain on your neck. The best part: there is an additional extension strap to make the overall restraint system longer. This was FANTASTIC for us, as we wove it through our headboard so that my legs were not only spread open, but also pulled BACK. It was stimulating and erotic! This item is great for not only oral sex, but for intercourse as well. It is very comfortable, takes the strain off of your knees and legs if you are having to hold yourself spread for long periods of time - and, the bondage factor is extremely fun and erotic. Have your lover restrain you in any way he (or she) chooses and have you open and ready for enjoyment! These restraints are sure to be an item we use again and again. When my lover positioned my legs open and pulled the straps to make them go back toward my head, the position was fantastic and provided a fantastic angle. I came almost as soon as he started to fuck me just by the angle (and excitement) alone! So, whether you are new to bondage, or have been tied and tried before - this item is sure to please you AND your lover!! So what are you waiting for? You know you want to be SPREAD EAGLED right NOW!!! http://www.tootimid.com/fetish-fantasy-spread-eagle-sling.html

Yup....on to a urologist you go (but make sure he also specializes in sexual dysfunction)

I would definitely seek the advice of a doctor. You are 43, which is young by most standards, and if you are having erectile issues, along with the numbness, you may have a circulatory issue. especially if this is a new issue that has just arisen. I agree that it can be psychological. What is your relationship status? Are you having this issue during masturbation or during sex with a partner? If with a partner, how is that relationship? Have you noticed any other issues? Do you smoke? Do you drink? Smoke pot? All of these answers can help me (or a trained professional) point you in the right direction.

Do you want to be SQUIRMING all over your bed? Does your G-Spot need some attention? Want a toy that delivers both INSERTABLE pleasure and CLITORAL pleasure? Well then, the Japanese G-Spot Squirmy is perfect for you! Made by Doc Johnson, a trusted name in toys, this silicone, dual action, 4.75 insertable, reversable, multi-function toy will overload your senses! If you are a woman who wants some options, then this toy is for you. The soft silicone offers a safe and sensual experience. The curved G-spot tip is sure to tantalize you. My favorite feature: the nubbies on the clitoral head - they are super satisfying! This toy takes 3AAA batteries (just unscrew the base and place them in) and you control it by pressing the up or down arrows to control the speed of the clitoral vibrations AND the shaft vibrations. There is even a REVERSE button that allows you to change the direction of the vibrating tip. In my honest opinion, however, you do not need a toy that changes vibration direction in a G-Spot toy, but many women will find this a BIG plus. OUR Pros and Cons (as my honey plays with me for maximization of our pleasure) PROS: It is easy to handle (either alone or with partner), it is powerful as to vibrations, it is soft and silky, the 1-inch diameter is very pleasing and not too large, the clitoral nubbies are fantastic, the options and speeds are very pleasing. CONS: The G-spot head is a bit oddly shaped, and I felt it would be better if it were a bit firmer and larger, but it definitely stimulated my G-spot. The biggest con is that when inserted to the G-spot length, the clitoral attachment does not quite reach the clit, leaving you a bit frustrated. You can bend it enough to achieve both, but it is not as easy as I would have liked. From a couple's standpoint, it is a bit large and doesn't leave much room for anything but the toy. However, we very much enjoyed playing with this toy together. My lover came me many orgasms with it, and loved watching me SQUIRM all over our bed as he played with me. He enjoyed changing the functions and making me wonder what he would do next. I had many orgasms, but I did not have a super power G-spot orgasm, although I did have one. I would recommend this toy to any woman wanting to experiment with some dual action / G-spot play. THe insertion combined with clitoral play is outstanding. The G-spot attention is mild (which is especially good for newbies or those who are very G-spot trained. Overall this toy does not disappoint and would very much be a great investment for any woman or couple for some saucy, squirmy, squirty FUN! http://www.tootimid.com/japanese-g-spot-squirmy.html

I think Anal Os can feel different depending on what else is going on (clitoral pressure, insertion) or whether it is a cock, toys or fingers there. For me, if it is just anal stim,nothing else, it feels much like a G-spot O (and, FYI, you can get G-spot stim from anal sex, even though it is on the top wall). It feels very intense, much more intense than a clitoral O, and if I am adding clitoral stim, it will be a BLOW ME OUT OF THE BED, good O. However, it is not always like that. If my lover has a finger in my ass for example, the O may not be quite as strong as a longer or thicker toy. I think the main thing is YOU HAD A GREAT ORGASM - and that it was fun, right?

I am so glad that you are here, experimenting with your pleasure!! I mirror the sentiments of the other smart ladies here - you may need a smaller toy. However, this is what I think: You are a virgin, and this means that your hymen has not completely torn. yes, you can use fingers (because as you may or may not know that a woman's hymen is not always "complete" - meaning, often you can insert a finger or a tampon and still be "a virgin") So, because you have not inserted larger items, your discomfort is most likely because you still have a bit of hymen there. Have you been to the gynecologist and has he or she been able to examine you? If not, you should go, even without having sex it is important to have checkups, and if you have gone, has it been comfortable for you. The other possibility is that you may be just tensing up and your vaginal muscles are tightening when you feel the resistance of the item. You may want to try to go a lot slower, not pushing too hard, and making sure that your arousal level is high, this will help. One final note on the material of toys: glass is VERY hygenic and one of my favorites. However, glass is not flexible, and often will make it harder for a first time user to adjust to the unforgiving nature of the material. You may want to try rubber or silicone (silicone being more expensive but more hygenic). I would suggest getting something smaller, in silicone. Just make sure you ALWAYS use hot, soapy water before and after play. Good luck!

Oh Momma Do You VIBE ME RIGHT!! Move over Hitatchi Magic Wand, here come the VIBE RIGHT! I have had quite a few *massager* vibes in my life, and all have delivered me the goods, but this one takes the orgasm! Why is this one better you ask? Well, let us begin with the fact that it is CORDLESS! Simply charge and use with the included power plug, then recharge when you are done (about 40 minutes of pleasing when used on high). No cord getting in your way or tethering you to the wall - very convenient! Also, it is multi speed - 7 to be exact - and they range from pleasant buzzing to HOLD ON TO THE BED! Plus, the Vibe Rite is QUIET! One huge issue I have had with other massager vibes is that they are LOUD. Not very private when the whole house can hear you playing. Add to this that it has a soft, supple, silicone head with a pliable neck to move and adjust to the pressure that is right for you and that you can buy ATTACHMENTS (such as the G-Spot, Triple Crown or Double Agent) to change up your pleasure. It is a one stop pleasure shop! My lover and I played with this toy together, and I have to admit I was E X C I T E D to try. My past massagers have brought me to orgasm quickly and strongly, and I assumed this would be no different, and I was RIGHT. After a bit of charging, we were ready to play. I left my pleasure in the capable hands of my lover and laid back, legs spread and ready to go. He turned it on low, then a big higher as he rubbed the end over my aching mound. It is soft and smooth, and once again QUIET! I was building up fast, but he is a patient man who likes to tease me, so no release right away. I squirmed and moaned as the Vibe Rite VIBED ME RRRIIIGHHTT!. After a few powerful Os, he added the G-Spot attachment and inserted All I can say is F U C K .....it felt fantastic! It is perfectly curved and a perfect size and length. I have to admit though, when I saw the attachment on the toy - all purple and angled - I thought it looks like Gonzo from the Muppets! This did not deter me, however, and I was ready to sink into the pleasure zone. My lover adjusted the end and rocked it back and forth to give me some needed clitoral stimulation AND G-spot attention. The silicone head is soft, yet firm, so you get that firm touch that is much needed with G-Spot stimulation. It did not take long and I was arching and clenching on this toy, enjoying a very nice dual orgasm! Plus, I was greedy and wanted more, which I got. We both very much enjoyed using this item together, however, my lover did admit that because of the size, there was no place for him to *assist* me. He could not use his tongue or fingers while using the toy, and he loves to help, so for him this was a negative. However, he loves to pleasure me, and this toy DID pleasure me. It is definitely easy to use solo as well, as the angle and the positioning of the wand is ergonomic and long enough to reach any spot you wish to *massage.* I would definitely recommend this item (and atttachments) to ANYONE wanting to be VIBED RIGHT!! http://www.tootimid.com/vibe-rite-cordless-7-speed-massager.html

This review was A D O R A B L E!!!

Cock-a-Doodle Cock Rope OK, let's cut to the chase: I was not impressed with this item. The concept is good - an adjustable, changeable cock ROPE, as opposed to a non-adjustable cock RING - that is 12 inches long, so definitely would fit any cock comfortably. However, the problem is, if you need a cock ring for the purposes of maintaining the blood flow into your penis: this is not going to provide that. It is simply not tight enough. So, take that out of the equation and think about this item simply for a little something extra for flirty fun. Made of super stretchy soft plastic, this cock rope is easy to use. Simply decide how you want to use it (around your shaft, around your balls AND shaft, bullet at the top, bottom or sides, etc.) and place it on, slipping the ends into a faux knot to keep it in place. When my lover and I put this on, we opted for it to go around his cock and balls. It didn't really want to stay put. The little vibrator did not offer him any substantial vibrations as to make him go "oooh' and it did absolutely nothing for me. Quite frankly, I have had better intercourse stimulators. In order for the vibrations to be felt by me, he would have to bury himself in deep and hold still. This simply does not work for me, as I am a direct vibration kind of gal. However, for a new couple that does not need something stronger, this may work for you. When ended up just taking it off and going about our business, as it did not want to stay put and the vibrations were not enough for me. If I were to recommend this product, I would say it is good for beginners who do not want something too strong. It is also good for a man who may want a bit of vibration and a ring that is not too tight. If you are a cock ring advanced player - or if you are a woman who wants strong vibrations - this is not for you. In short, the cock rope hung a bit short for us. http://www.tootimid.com/vibrating-cock-rope.html