Leedo

Is it just me, or is anyone else happy they found an avenue to ask questions and get information about things they have been curious or interested in for soo long, but in a marriage and the other person would NOT indulge in conversation or discussing it. I would love to have the ability to bring up a sex question or interested in something without fearing the repercussions of subject matter. I think I am just more open and willing to explore things than my wife. Is this a common environment to be in after 25 years of marriage?

Thank you for your response. You and this web site are awesome. So many years thinking there was something wrong with me for feeling or enjoying the things that I do. Only to find how I can relate to someone else and ask questions without scorn or judgement, it’s like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

If it was thicker it would be right up my wife’s Allie, she likes em big and thick.

My wife’s are small, but I have always loved big pronounced one, that is sexy as hell. But I am a bit nasty and I love it. The only thing your picture is missing is my cum dripping out of it.

First I can’t see picture and second I wish I could do that. I have tried riding a curved up dildo, but it just doesn’t give me the same sensation but when I use my Aneros, it’s on then. Why do you suppose one works as expected and the other doesn’t?

First I can’t see picture and second I wish I could do that. I have tried riding a curved up dildo, but it just doesn’t give me the same sensation but when I use my Aneros, it’s on then. Why do you suppose one works as expected and the other doesn’t?

I don’t see how we could hook up, but it would be interesting.

Maybe I am not doing it right, cause I have tried using a dildo on myself but I can’t hit it, I have tried a suction cup type in shower that had a significant up angle to it and it felt very good but never tried master bating at same time with it. The prostate massager I have is manual meaning I have to move it around with grip ring, but when it hits prostate it’s on. Maybe mine is in weird position. Is the strap on she use curved up and if so how much? I don’t know why I am asking, I would most certainly be open to my wife using one on me, but I know already she wouldn’t. Thank you for reply, it’s nice to be able to discuss these things, I can’t with my wife.

I am Caucasian male married to Caucasian for 25 years. I have always found African American women THE most attractive, there skin tone(dark), the way they carry themselves, etc... but I did fall in love and still am with my wife. We use a penis sleeve that GREATLY enhances my girth and it has an aggressive tip vibrator as well as clit vibrator. And did I say it is black? It is incredible turn on to see my wife take all of it, and does with ease. But that black thing going into my wife is an incredible turn on. So is it normal for me to fantasize about my wife being with a black man while I watch? I know normal is a subjective word, but the thought is erotic as hell.

Thank you for reply.

Disclaimer: I am heterosexual, happily married (most of the time), and during forplay I love to lick my wife’s anus, but she thinks it’s gross so clamps the butt cheeks up. I have told her i would love to have anal sex with her one time, because I have never even tried giving anal. So then I started thinking before I ask her to take mine in her, I would see what it felt to me. So I bought a prostate massager, I lubed up, inserted it and found my prostate and as soon as I did cum shot out, and I started master bating and rubbing my prostate even more and when I reached orgasum I literally could not help but to moan, loudly, which I never do, it’s a good think I was alone. And it’s been that way every time, it is amazing. So asking any women, is that what it’s like for anal sex to a women? I am almost ashamed it feels soooo Damn good.

No, I wish my wife was open enough to share these things. I would love to spend time on here with her. But as it stands, this is my out. She thinks if you put some picture out there or participate in this activity, it ONLY means your trolling or advertising to see what you can hook up with. I told her it’s just fun to see what others think or share your opinion, or if your privates are attractive to others or just some wonderful nasty talk. We had to agree to dis-agree.

As briefly as I can, allow me to describe the journey myself and my wife has taken over several years that has got us here today. Our sex life has been better than some, worse than others I would think. What I mean by that, is frequency, and being adventurous, or lack there of. I did not know I enjoyed being kinky, or what I would be open too. I am just curious if we all get like this as we get older. I introduced my wife to a small vibrator during foreplay, and she was indifferent to begin with, but it REALLY turned me on to see it go in and out of her, she was then and remains shaved down there, so you can see every beautiful fold and line of her. Then gradually she became more OK with it, and I started getting them bigger and bigger, because it was SUCH a turn on, to see how she responded and how beautiful it looked her being able to take all of it. So then I transitioned to wearing a girth enhancing sleeve, due to many benefits. 1. Thicker for her 2. Longer for her 3. I don’t have to worry about having mine before she has as many as she wants 4. It REALLY stretches her out, and after she has all she wants, I take the sleeve off, and I enter her and it feels absolutely amazing. I think she has become a bit of a size queen, I am currently using the LARGEST, black (because its a turn on for me to see it enter her little white hairless mound) sleeve I can find, I have spent hours searching for a bigger one, with no luck. I am very proficient at fabricating or modifying things, which I have done with this sleeve. I was able to put the right amount of upward curve that my wife likes, inserted a VERY strong tip vibrator, as well as clit vibrator, all with modified battery pack, that could jump start a car. Saying all that to ask this, at this point in my life, there isn’t anything I wouldn’t be open to if my wife suggested it, and I have made that known to her. I cant change her mind, and don’t want to, I want her to come to the same conclusion in her time, that she could suggest things, and I would NOT judge her, but I feel she is apprehensive due to preconceived notion of what is right or wrong. I have to say at least in my mind it would be a BIG turn on, to submit some nudes of her on “IPOSTNAKED”, or cuckhold, or chatting with other couples. Is this a normal progressive path?