Leedo

I have found as I have got older, it seems a VERY large percentage (90+%)of men, are interested in sex with men. I have never done it, but not ruling it out if the situation presented itself. The attractive aspect is not so much emotion, just physical. A man knows what feels good to his dick and anal has GOT to as good, if not better than pussy. So a nut without the emotional baggage.

I need a FWB something terrible, but few and far between!

Thank you for your reply, yes she does have orgasms. But for MANY years due to me introducing it to her. I have a silicone sleeve that goes over my dick, it doesn’t increase the girth or length, and it’s open at the end, but it has a vibrating egg, that lays right up on her clit. And she doesn’t like to be without it. I am not trying to show you my member so don’t get offended, but the picture is what I am talking about. But I would love to lick her clit I think she would like it. Before I seen this post I ask her if the next time we got naked if she would let me go down on her. She said you know I have never been into that. So I don’t think I will be able to. But thanks for the input.

I want to know the general consensus, about going down on a women. Is it better to flick the clit with your tongue, or suck it, or lick the whole thing? I want to try to get my wife to cum that way. She has always said she is not into that, but I just want to see if I can. Are there a lot of women that do not like having oral on them?

Remove the moral element from this topic of FWB, Lets say you love your spouse, and are NOT interested in changing your situation for whatever reason. And you and your spouse enjoyed sex together at some point in your relationship. Then one of you becomes less interested in sex to the point it becomes a habit, to live in the same house, sleep in the same bed, see each other getting into and out of the shower, etc... If the other one communicated that they are unhappy with there sex life, should the other one think "tough shit", its mine, and I don't feel like it! Enter a FWB, somehow the two find each other and get MUCH needed relief. They go back to there respective homes, and do not hound the other one for sex, and are happy, and the house is secure. This is the situation I am in, I have been married a long time to the same women, but she could give 2 shits about sex. A FWB, purely for sexual relief for is what I need. I think this is why hetero males get with bi men, and become bi themselves, because a guy understands this. I have NOT done this, but to be honest I have thought about it, I just want to feel warmth and enjoy the touch of another person, and am wiling to provide that for someone in like situation.

I do not know how you got a clear shot without the back of someone head in the photo. That ass was made for nibbling and licking.

It has for me, when I was young, I had a preconceived notion of what sex should be, and with whom. Now that I am older I have discovered sex is for fun, whatever that may entail as long as both parties are ok with it. I have found myself to be kinky and a WHOLE lot more open than my wife. it’s sad, she just isn’t into it.

I think it’s easier for a guy than a girl. MOST women, has to have things just right, mood has to be just right, not tired, not in there emotions, etc… A guy on the other hand, wants to have fun, not necessarily a quickly, playing, then have sex and look in the girls face and go, WOW, that was fun. And as long as both had a good time, go on down the road. Then later on, maybe send a text, and ask are you in the mood for fun? But have boundaries established before hand. I wish I could find someone like that, I have been married a long time and wife, just ain’t into it. I would love to give a friend mine in photo.

That is because she cared I think.

Yes, it’s like she just don’t want to anymore, and she is 8 years younger than me.

Thank you, for the condolences of my wife’s sex drive. If I could find a FWB, preferably in the same situation as myself, tho I WOULD , wish no hateful stuff on anyone. It would just be easier to identify with a like minded person. I am sorry for those in this situation. You know they say HE must be going through a mid life crisis! But I am not, I am just used to how it feels and just because she doesn’t want to anymore, does not help the way I feel.

Sorry!

I just have to say, IS there ANYTHING better than pussy? How warm, moist, slick it is, is mind numbing. It is a damn shame my wife don’t want to use hers.

I have heard some women get more brave as they get older, there inhibitions relent. my wife is JUST the opposite, I know it’s the same old story, but it is aggravating. I used to give her sensual massage and would still, if she let me. I use to use a strap with vibrator tip, that she said she loved. I would put a sleeve on me with a vibrating bunny ears as she sat on top, and she love it. But now all she will do is give me a quickie, which I use to appreciate, but now, I go on forever before coming because she just gets on her back, legs up in the air, and doesn’t try or is not interested in getting a nut. Of course I immediately think, she is cheating or getting hers by other means. I have tried to talk with her about it, but she won’t. Sometimes I think she is trying to get me to get it somewhere else. I am at wits end.

It has been a while since I have posted anything, but it occurred to me this morning, this not only a resource for expressing my desires, but likewise it would be a GREAT platform to pose question, and get diverse response. Question is, I have and always have had a greater sex drive than my wife, I try to take care of it myself out of necessity. But what is your opinion, regarding quickies from her to get me through until we have meaningful sex, and what I mean by that, is when she can have an orgasm as well. I am not saying a quickie every day, just maybe once a week. So time for full disclosure, I know it is selfish of me, but if she doesn't want an orgasm, and I do, and if I am just getting a quickie I can have an orgasm quickly. I enjoy, masturbating, but nothing replaces the warmth, wetness of a pussy. Even when and if my wife gives me a quickie, she get VERY wet, VERY quickly. Another question, is it wrong for me to get aggravated when my wife does not want meaningful sex or give me a quickie? I am not looking for sympathy, just a genuine opinion. It is just a good thing, I have not had the opportunity to have friend with benefits.

Thank you soo much for your reply, I have no one to talk to, and ask question about this new found pleasure.

I have to ask this question, due to me discovering my prostate and how it loves to be massaged. When a hetero male finds it extremely pleasurable to stimulate his prostate and cum at the same time, what does that mean? I have never had sex with a man, so the stupid question is, when having sex with a man, is his dick rubbing partners prostate?

I have to ask this question, due to me discovering my prostate and how it loves to be massaged. When a hetero male finds it extremely pleasurable to stimulate his prostate and cum at the same time, what does that mean? I have never had sex with a man, so the stupid question is, when having sex with a man, is his dick rubbing partners prostate?

I have to tell this story of what happened last night with me and wife. My wife started a new career field, that quite frankly is very rewarding but exhausting for her. So our sex life has changed a little, in that we have quickies more often due to her wanting to get some sleep. We both have at least one O, then to sleep. But I have for quite some time been making my own penis sleeve by combining 2 existing ones and adding vibration to them to suit my wife, she likes the clit vibrating like a jack hammer as well as the very tip of penis vibrating deep inside her. I love it because I can make it as big as I want and after she gets hers, I get to take it off and have my way with this stretched out, wet, sloppy pussy. I can’t help it, it is such an incredible turn on. But last night, I put my latest creation on, and it is extremely large in diameter and long, and black (we are Caucasian, just a turn on to me, to see, black dick going into white pussy, maybe Just easy to see or unfulfilled fantasy I don’t know ). Y’all, she set down on top of this black missle and did not hesitate, she took it all and started grinding her hips and came soo quick. It is an incredible turn on to see her set down on such a large dick and see the pleasure come over her face, and her nipples get erect as it’s going in, I know she enjoys it, and it is soo erotic for her to let me be a part of it, you just can’t imagine. Then I get the sloppy mess afterwards, I know this may seem odd to some, but it works for us, I really don’t know where that places us on odd scale. All I know is I have not seen a dick, that my wife could not take, and I have made some very large ones.

I have read a lot of reviews on supposedly battery operated clit suckers, so I thought it would be fun to try on my wife. They are advertised as having a sucking action, but they seem to have just concentrated vibration directly over and around the clit. It does not seem to be genuine sucking action, so then I bought another one, that advertised to do the same thing, only to find, it also is a vibrator. While, they get wonderful reviews, they do not suck on the clit. So does anyone know if there are any genuine clit suckers? I can place them on my nipple or tongue and they do not have any suction. Me and my wife, are very accustomed to using toys, that vibrate her clit, I just wanted to give her the ultimate orgasm as she LOVES really strong vibration on her clit. We have been using toys with vibration so long, I do not think she could get off with out vibration, which is just fine with me, as it makes her pussy wet and sloppy, and sadly I have to say, the more sloppy it is, the better I love it. I know I am nasty. Any help would be greatly appreciated, in the direction of battery powered clit sucking and vibration device.

I am married heterosexual male, but I have found prostate massage during masturbation, to be incredible. My question is, could a man fucking me provide the same excitation? Or is it the feeling of penis in ass that provides pleasure?

Since I have no response on this, allow me to clarify. The act of getting fucked by another man has multiple possibilities and depending on desire of recipient of said dick and what they are desiring is the question. If a hard dick is what is desired, then maybe, prostate rubbing is not a problem. However, if the act of taking a dick, with the intended purpose of rubbing prostate is purpose it May be slightly different. I don’t consider myself gay, but I love prostate excitation. And is that the purpose of one man taking a dick in his ass?

I completely understand, but it would be soooo awesome to see a bbc, disappear in wife’s pussy.

I have discovered, I love to cum, while massaging my prostate, it’s like, takes nut to next level. But what I don’t know is, if taking a mans dick, instead of prostate massager, would his dick rub my prostate in the same way? I have never had a mans dick in me ass, but massaging prostate while jacking off is amazing.

Why the fuck would you be horny? My wife would love that dark torpedo, she loves BIG dick and ALOT of cum.