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I tried a cheap one which broke right away (wires ripped from the butt plug. Haven’t looked to see if it is repairable). I think it had potential as the sensations were different than a vibrator. I mentioned on another post that I don’t get a lot of pleasure from inserting anything in my rectum. Doesn’t feel great but it doesn’t bother me either. Now this cheap plug I bought was a bit small in length and had a rather small base so i was afraid it was going to be “sucked” in and putting tension on the wires caused it to separate. For the short (no pun) time i used it , the feeling was pretty good. I liked the medium strength with the “thumping “ pulses. Higher power felt like a burning/stabbing sensation. Just the tip touching my anus was pretty good. I would like to try this one you posted but, damn, this shit is expensive and if it doesn’t deliver, you cant return it. And more expensive doesn’t always translate to a better product. I wish i had money to invest and i would start a custom toy factory instead of one size fits all toys

With so many options for ED, why doesn’t your husband do something about his problem?

Maybe i am not giving it a chance but , though I enjoy the feeling of penetration and a vibe around the anus, I can’t seem to be able to make the feel more pleasurable. I have tried different sized dildos (length and girths) and shapes (prostate massagers), vibes, dildos and plugs. Only one I found that had potential but unfortunately broke too soon was a butt plug attached to a tens unit (e-stimulation). I have a recurring fantasy when i am alone and horny and have gone without sex for a while. I keep wondering what it would feel to have a real, warm, throbbing cock in there. Not interested in kissing a dude or attracted to a gay man. Just want to know how it feels. My concern is that it will not live up to my fantasy. Since the feeling is not as intense as a blow job ( it’s more like a hand job but only the first stage, nowhere near a climax), i wonder if it is even worth pursuing. Any one has any ideas on what i should try next ?

I too have a personality disorder and have been to many doctors, therapists, witch doctors and whoever will listen to me. It is despicable what people do to children and go unpunished. In my case, i do not have multiple personalities per se, but i am “moody “ according to some. Almost like a bipolar personality. The reason, i feel, is because the “mean me”, the cynic, negative me comes out to protect the rejected, hurt child- the nice guy my closest friends and family know. I take medicine to help me with depression but refuse to take more or other drugs because i want to have a semi normal life not live in a zombie, numb state. I am extremely fortunate that both me and my wife are professional health care workers and understand each other’s emotional trauma imposed by selfish, evil adults who were supposed to take care of us and hurt us instead. Some knowingly and some by forcing their narrow-minded beliefs. work on trusting others, one at a time, so that the persecutional paranoia is suppressed. Learn that no one is perfect and also most people are not “out to get you” either. Take your medication, even if you feel good and don’t think you need it anymore or you think it is not working. To enjoy sex you must be drunk? Why? What happens when you have sex sober? Do you feel sex is “dirty” or is it physically painful or do you have a self image problem? Talk to a good psychiatrist who can diagnose your condition and medicate you if needed then have him refer you to a good therapist who can teach you the way to enjoy life-specially your sex life. Good luck. Life is short and is as good as you make it. Don’t be in a hurry to find someone. Remember that having no partner is much, much better than having a bad partner. Work on loving yourself first then the sky is the limit

I too agree. Most girls’ first “time” is so-so at best, horrible at worst. You should wait until you are ready, until you find someone special that will take his time and show you that, you having a magical experience, is his priority . But if you are in a hurry and “just want your first time over with” send me a message. I be willing and happy to show you a “magical “ time!🤣

I am not a female so I cannot be 100% accurate. I will say, from what medical research has found that the female orgasm is a creature of a capricious nature and what always works for one may not work for you. First, ask your gynecologist if there is any variation in your female anatomy that may prevent or block you from feeling pleasure and tell her why you are asking that. A thick hood or extra small clitoris which may not have seen as important to the doctor on a routine examination but may be of value now. Second, research medications and supplements (and recreational drugs, if any) you take. Some , specially the common meds prescribed for depression (SSRI) can cause some people to be anorgasmic. Third, stress and lack of sleep (apnea) can prevent you from being “in the mood” (some, like me, masturbate when stressed. Go figure) and Fourth, a repressed memory , either physical or emotional can have great impact on your attitude towards sexual pleasure. For example, something someone you respected said when you were young -like your mom or priest, that created a strong negative view on having an orgasm. The good old church messed up my wife and i am sure she is not alone, by declaring that sex is for procreation only. Any pleasure from it, even in matrimony, is sinful. Of all I mentioned, this last one is the hardest to overcome. Don’t give up. Every one can have an orgasm. Just need to find the right “tool” that will work for you. Did you know that even a quadriplegic can be “rewired” to have an orgasm? It’s true. They can be “trained” to have an orgasm by having someone rub an area that he can feel, the ear for example. Our body has many, many nerve endings. Most are conditioned to sense pain, cold, heat to protect us from danger as children. As adults, we no longer need that much protective information so it is time for us to use those sensors for pleasure, don’t you agree?

I am on the other side of your problem. My wife doesn’t like me, as she says “down there” . She feels it’s “dirty” . First I thought she was referring to smells or whatever so I tried after she came out of the shower but she reiterated her feelings. So i now know it’s a either a moral or religious point of view, indoctrinated when she was young. I don’t think I would give without receiving. It’s something that you need to discuss. Tell him how important it to you. I don’t believe or condone using sex as a weapon or bargaining in a relationship but an occasional “toothache “ or “sore throat” may make him think what it feels to go without something the other one enjoys.

Nice cock dude

I too would like to know. I know nothing about either of those apps and the pro and cons of either. If you can shed some iight, i will appreciate it

Nice cock, bro. This type is what makes me curious about trying the bi route. 😈

I know this topic is very old but for the sake of new members, i had to add some info. There is a formulary mix (generic) that can be injected at the base of the shaft. It does not hurt and the amount is very small (literally the size of a teardrop) and the needle is so thin, i have trouble seeing it (size 28g i think) no pain, just a strange pressure when it hits the cavernosa. I am on my second injection, so i am still trying to figure out the correct dose for me (tritetion). Started with Trimix formulation at .10 ml (cc) but I almost ended in the Emergency room. Erect for 2.5 hours and semi erect for another hour even after putting an icepack on my dick. Per Doctor’s order, i cut down to .8 ml with similar results but semi erect for only 30 minutes. Will try .5 next. There are formulations of Bimix (two active ingredients) Trimix and Quadmix (4 ingredients) I calculated my cost per injection at $4 but now at $2 since i am cutting down to half original dose. It works in 5 minutes after injection with 2-3 minutes of massaging the penis to spread the injection towards the glans. Dick stays erect even after climax. Keep pumping until she is raw and in pain or you have a heart attack. It is a lot better than viagra and cialis. Some forums even say that after a year of injections some men gain in girth and length. See a urologist and ask for the trimix injections before any surgery. Once they take out the cavernosa to make room for the implant, there is no going back. Too many possible complications.

I, for some reason, also love listening in. Back when cordless phones were the standard and before digital took over, i would listen to the entire neighborhood. I knew who was a humiliated husband, who was having an affair and who wanted to fuck my wife. Now i love hidden cam videos of real couples, especially if neither know they are being recorded. Most videos posted now are fake. Some are very well made to look like voyeur videos but are not real. Same goes for cuckold, which i love to watch (fantasy of mine). The real ones are almost always 1 to 2 years old.

Oooooh, I don’t know of i can type with one hand ! Willing to give it a try though