Bastian

we have some fun factory toys...they really put me at ease cause I didn't feel like my Sweetie was getting fucked by another man. Now it really doesn't matter cause I just want her to have pleasure but I can see how this would ease people in. Bastian

Yes toys ARE good! I agree. I love to watch my wife squirming with delight because I am pumping her with a toy. Like you, i do not like porn, but a toy...well that is something all its own. I had to get used to the idea of toys, but by coming here, reading and taking advice from many members (mikayla & howard) I learned that toys are an enhancement. I definitely see it as one. I am glad other guys are standing up and saying toys are OK - many of my guy friends think toys are only bought because their so is unhapy - so not true! Bastian

Wow, it has been a long time since I have been on here. I wanted to say happy anniversary to Mikayla too because she is the reason I haven't been on here - she helped fix what was going wrong in my relationship with my wife. I owe her a debt of gratitude - for showing me how a woman can take charge (and it is OK) and how I can relate back to her. I will always be grateful! Best of luck, Bastian

Sorry,,I just wondered what all the fighting was abut in the middle of this post. seamed kind of heated, meant no offense.

What the hell is going on here????

Note - if you have not read this article, I would highly suggest it. Wow Mikayla - Again it has been a while since I have been on the site and of course I had a lot of catching up to do... then trying out some of the tips. Your article on BDSM was phenomenal and let me tell you, things have gotten even hotter in my bed. I never thought of even suggesting bondage to my wife as it was never brought up by her. I forwarded the article to my wife and just prefaced it with "something for tonight." Let me tell you, that night was mind blowing. My wife has what I would describe as extremely intense orgasms when i perfrom oral sex on her. When she orgasms, she will pull away quickly or sometimes put me in a head lock between her legs. You don't realize how strong a womens legs are until your head is squeezed between them during an orgasm. Well last night i rigged up some ropes to the bed frame and gently tied her feet and hands to the rope. She wasn't comfortable with the blind fold but hey, it was our first time and we just did what was comfortable. There was some teasing and i spent a lot of time just giving her whole body attention. Eventually my probing tongue found her clit and she was in heaven. Her movements were limited and she was moaning real good. I could tell she was about to the end and she was fighting the ropes a bit and then it came and guess what, she couldn't pull away and she couldn't lock my head up so I just kept up my work on her. She ended up having back to back orgasms for a few minutes and I am sure the neighbors wondered what the hell was happening in our house. Just that little bit of control made her experience one of the best orgasms from oral sex she has ever had. QUESTION for Mikayla - I'd like to use a sex toy on her while being tied up, how do I get her to open up to that idea?

I am very sorry that you have friends that you can't speak openly and honestly to about women, and that you feel you have to say things to conform when you are amongst your peers. I personally can say what I want to my friends and not put on some kind of show to "fit in." But beyond that, many people have a wonderful smile but that is as far as it goes, and that maybe where you personally fit in. "Bastian spends lots of time telling us how he is a " Tit Man" 4 sentences and the word tit used twice, I think Howard must be a bit defensive about the word Gay being directed toward a comment he made. My one wife of 10 years is a beautiful women in every aspect and yes she has big (nice too) tits. A nice ass, eyes, hair and yeah she has a beautiful smile. But as I said above - lots of people have a nice smile and some aren't very attractive in any other way so there really has to be more to a person than just a nice smile. And on a totally different subject. I am absolutely appalled by your response to WhiskeyWoman. That woman and her children are facing a long road ahead with the birth of an ill BABY - not a fetus. My heart goes out to WW and her family and I hope God gives them the strength do endure. Man, you have got to come out of online world and show some compassion.

100% agree with Mikayla - whoever spouted off further up the chain that a smile is most important must be gay. Yeah a smile is nice and adds to the package but she better have some nice tits or ass to grab my attention. So if a perfect 10 walks up to you and she smiles and it isn't a perfect smile are you turning away?? I think not therefore the smile isn't what is "sealing the deal." By the way . . . Tit man here

Mikayla's hubby is one lucky dude!! I don't get on here much but when I do I spend a lot of time reading what you have to say and follow some of your advice. Most of the time the end results are better than I expected. Never leave TooTimid. . .we need you.

Thanks for the info. Honestly, I haven't played with her ass much either. I guess i kinda consider that area off limits. Maybe I will have to loosen up a bit and listen to her.

Thanks!! it is short for Sebastian but Bastian is my bedroom name. Thanks for the feedback. . .Maybe I will have to give it a shot with the anal stuff. I will let you know how it goes. By the way, Mikayla is a very sexy name as well!!

Ok, Sex with the wife has been awesome of late and now she is wanting to play with my ass. She tried sticking her finger up there but "nailed" me and I wasn't expecting either so it kinda blew it. Now she talks about anal beads and shit like that. My only ass experience is at the dr.s office and i don't think many guys get any enjoyment out of that. Guys - What is your take? you like it? Gals - You enjoy this?

I shave and it feels great to have my wife give me head that way. Everything is more sensitive without the pubic hair covering everything up and she especially enjoys not having to pic hair out of her mouth. Cool thing is, It looks like you gained an inch or so after you shave clean. Best way to do it? Trim it very short with electric trimmer or scissors first. If you don't, the regular razor will just pull it out. Get in the shower with your shave gel and a NEW razor. Lather up and just take your time. The nuts are tricky, just squeeze them a bit to make them firm and shave slowly. It isn't a quick task and if you try to make it a quick task, you won't be having any fun for several days. . . Once you do it the first time, you can tidy up maybe once a week and it only takes a few minutes in the shower. You will begin itching from growth which is the best indicator that it is time to clean up again.