Note - if you have not read this article, I would highly suggest it. Wow Mikayla - Again it has been a while since I have been on the site and of course I had a lot of catching up to do... then trying out some of the tips. Your article on BDSM was phenomenal and let me tell you, things have gotten even hotter in my bed. I never thought of even suggesting bondage to my wife as it was never brought up by her. I forwarded the article to my wife and just prefaced it with "something for tonight." Let me tell you, that night was mind blowing. My wife has what I would describe as extremely intense orgasms when i perfrom oral sex on her. When she orgasms, she will pull away quickly or sometimes put me in a head lock between her legs. You don't realize how strong a womens legs are until your head is squeezed between them during an orgasm. Well last night i rigged up some ropes to the bed frame and gently tied her feet and hands to the rope. She wasn't comfortable with the blind fold but hey, it was our first time and we just did what was comfortable. There was some teasing and i spent a lot of time just giving her whole body attention. Eventually my probing tongue found her clit and she was in heaven. Her movements were limited and she was moaning real good. I could tell she was about to the end and she was fighting the ropes a bit and then it came and guess what, she couldn't pull away and she couldn't lock my head up so I just kept up my work on her. She ended up having back to back orgasms for a few minutes and I am sure the neighbors wondered what the hell was happening in our house. Just that little bit of control made her experience one of the best orgasms from oral sex she has ever had. QUESTION for Mikayla - I'd like to use a sex toy on her while being tied up, how do I get her to open up to that idea?