Good for you all for knowing what keeps you both happy and satisfied. My husband and I are coming off a separation, partially due to me needing sex and him not caring about it, and he realizes I need more. He is āletting meā be with others but wants to either hear it or watch it sometimes and that I'm honest about my actions. Iām fine with that. I enjoy sex with him when heās in the mood but Iām in the mood all the time and he knows I have needs. Itās a new arrangement but working out so far.