Dingbat

Thank you for that Howard. I am going to check out the videos APAS. I really enjoy this sight and reading all of the posts. I have learned more in the last 3 days about sex then I ever did in 8 yrs of marraige and 1 full semester of sex ed with Sister Rosemary. Maybe that was my problem all along, Sex Ed with a nun! lol.

I cant imagine having a 3some, nor is it something i would ever want to do or watch but reading about all your expirences has been enlightening.

My husband just flat sux in bed, he can never go more then a few minutes and if by some chance he can it is because he is hammered and his erection goes away before either of us climax. I do not help matters because I get pissy with him and act like a bitch about it but dangit! I am sick of bad sex. I have read the above posts in hopes to find some relevant info to help me help him. I think the only thing I can do is be more patient with him or slip him some xanax with his meal? I am pretty uptight and conservitive and as I sit and reread this I am beginning to realize the problem is more mine then his, frankly i dont think i would want to have sex with me either, Any tips for loosing the conservitive bedroom play?