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With the weather getting so much nicer, does anybody want to get this game going again? Somebody feel free to post up a new task. Should be fun. Can be a way to try things out of the "norm".

I am shocked that no body has spoken up with a new suggestion.

After about 10 years, I had gotten in touch with my old crush. We were both going in the direction of our own divorces and engaged to marry each other.

I would love to start doing some soft swinging. I am open to sharing. Lol

Well, the weather is getting better. Maybe we should get this going again? Who all wants to join??

lol Portland, OR. Don't be shy. If you see us, join in...

Ok, I'll get it going. Take your SO out for a drive and find a place to pull off and park. Start with some oral and then bend her over the hood and you can take it from there. I will be doing this tonight...

We can even redo some of the things that were done before on this thread.

Is anyone interested in getting this game going again? I have a new GF and I think it would be fun.

So what was the name of this movie? My wife might like that one.

Quote*** Hi guys, New posting to the forum but have been reading for awhile and decided to give this a try. My question is how do you manage mis-matched sexual drives between couples? My wife and I have been married for almost three years (a second marriage for both) and our sexual drives seem to be going in opposite directions. Mine is high and I enjoy the physical contact with her and it provides a much needed emotional connection to her. I feel needed, desired,valued by her etc. Whereas she now says she just doesnt have any sexual thoughts (she had no idea it had been ten days since our last session). When we do make love it is fun and satisifying and enjoy each other very much. How do I manage this? Is there any meds I could take to kill my drive? We are a very loving and well communicating couple but this is really becoming a problem for me. We have discussed it and there are no underlying issues or problems. She can only report that it just doesnt occur to her. She's not meaning to be hurtful, but it is to me. Unfortunately, I tie a lot of importance to that contact with her. Thank you for help. I look forward to your responses.*** ******************************************************************************** ******************************************************* I am in a very simular boat. I have the same feelings of needed emotional connetion, feeling desired, and valued. I also have wanted to find something to kill my sex drive. I fugured that if I can't use it, it is useless to have it. It might be better not having a sex drive then to feel rejected and frusterated all the time. My wife and I often go 3 weeks with no sex and a few times 3 months without. My wife has never had the desire for kids of her own, and I have a 7 year old daughter that we get everyother weekend. She is not on any medication exept The Pill. We both work. We have been married for less then a year and have been together for over 5 years. Another thing about this situation, I have always been with potite women with high sex drives. My wife is over weight and has gotten heavier sence we been together, which has been difficult for me trying to keep sexual attraction and I think that I have done well with. I think for one thing, if she lost weight she may get more sexual desires, possibly. She says that she wants to go to the gym but is affraid that it is hard for her to stay committed to it. A couple years ago she went to the gym for like a month or two and she felt great and had more energy. I felt so good for her that she was finally trying it really attracted me to her. Then I am affraid that if she did loose a bunch of weight and look like she did in high school, I'd be really turned on and still never get it. Then that would be worse I think. When she does initiate, very often she is extremely subtle with the touching at if just to say "hi" and not like "I want to make love to you". And when she does this she often says something like " I'm interested but you'll have to help me." She is not really sexually interested till often half way thru. I make sure that she does orgasm. I have tried being spontanious like all the sudden giving her oral when I got to leave till she orgasms and then walk out the door. I don't really get the same in return. I have pretty much given up initiating. She says that when she does bring up sex, is not because of sexual desire but because she thinks she should. She doesn't reallize that if we start having sex when she is not into it yet, It makes me feel like dirt. I have bought toys, books, and games. She says that she feels like she is trying because she shaved, which I love that she did, but then that turns me on more and she still does not have the desire. I want to fix the big problem. I thought about a sex theropist, but she is VERY hesitant, because she gets embarrest about sexual conversation. She won't go on this site to get info because of that. I need help trying to figure out what to do. I get very frusterated and hurt. I feel that I am alone in finding the solution. Thank you for you help.

I have never been able to last very long at all in the Doggy Style posistion (Me giving) I don't know what it is, I just blow my load too quickly. Is there anything that I can do?? Carl