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ok time to own up. So how many of you when the subject of penis size is raised sit on the fence by saying size does not matter??

It was not meant in a nasty way so no worries there. But you said .... I have to suffice with the memories. I think sometimes once we commit to that one person we have to sacrifice some things - like having threesomes. I had them before marriage Its a shame that he doesn't have the desire to continue with things like this. In a lot of blokes eyes he is missing out but his choice.

With you knowing you will feel jealous and by saying that you would never be able to get the image of him with another out your mind you truly have answered one of your own questions. NO its not for you. My concern is just how badly does he want this? The reason im saying this is not to way up the chances of him cheating but as a male within a relationship that is not that evenly balanced sexually, I know only too well how much something you desperately want can eat away at you. He may not cheat but will he remain happy? If its just a quick I wouldn't mind ... you will be ok but if its on his to do before I die list you may have future problems

Having ordered the lovers candle which I can't wait to get into my hands (up to 10 days delivery for uk) because there is nothing that my wife likes better then a good old fashioned massage. I was wondering will too Timid be stocking the low temp wax candles? Im surprised that neither of these are available here in the uk or not ones that I can find anyway. Can anyone recommend a safe a secure site that sells these as would love to try them. If there is anyone else here from the uk I think the postage rate that Too Timid use is really good value and to be honest it surprised me just how cheap it was.

Again I want to say a Massive thank you to you all for your reply's. This board really is great for some straight and to the point advice. As heartless as it made me sound there is no fear of me doing this fantasy without either my wife being there to share it or her being happy for me to go watching alone. Mikayla having read some of your others posts as well, your husband must be a very lucky man!! It is a shame that he doesn't realise just what he is missing?

This sounds GREAT!! I have never heard of this before. Just been having a look around all the uk shops but can't find a similar product anywhere so might have to pay the international shipping rate (Gulp)

have you noticed that the couple making love does not have names and faces, and even their bodies are kind of blurry in your fantasy? There is a reason for that. . . . No in my fantasy they have faces and more often then not it's people that I know. I have watched couple of porn films and educational one like the lovers guide. These I watched with my wife but surly it can't be anything like being there and seeing it for real?

By having a small mint in her mouth or one of the mint strips that melt onto your tongue can be great for you both as she will no longer get the taste that she dislikes and you will get an all new feeling!! hope this helps

Here are a few questions about a strong sexual fantasy I have. Has anyone had the experience of watching either a friend or a unknown couple have full sex whilst they knew that you was there in the room watching? Does anyone else share this fantasy and would love to watch another couple do everything in the book to each other whilst you were never more then a few feet away watching? Or have you been on the other side having been watched by a friend or stranger whilst giving them a performance? Have you fantasised with your partner about being watched? Sorry its all questions but like I have said this has been a top fantasy of mine for a long time and the urge to fulfil it by watching is getting stronger and stronger. Is this a healthy Fantasy or do you think it’s a little close to the sick mark? Just one more Question if a person (Me) did fulfil this fantasy is just being in a room watching another couple without touching or joining in classed as cheating as I’m certain my wife wouldn’t enjoy this but maybe one day I will pluck up enough courage to ask her.

What is his age group as this can make some difference? Everyone is different male or female but I can cum 2/3 times in one session but it's normally only 1/2 Depending on my wife. When we were first together I could very easily make it 10/12 times a week but was in my 20's then.

Having never heard of Nair. (Not sure it its available here in the uk) Iv just looked there web site up. They give a warning saying do not use on Genital areas so the question is does anyone know a hair removal cream that is safe for that type of use??

www.fleshlight.com/main/index.php? Give this a try. It really does do what it says on the box !! Had one a year now and its fantastic !!

Yes, I have tried a hair removal cream. I can't fully remember the brand but think it might have been veet? My advise is DON'T!! I know that not everyone will get the same reaction that I did but within 5 mins I started to get a few blisters. Within an hour of using it I was blistered, burnt and sore and spend about 3 days of work because of the pain!! What made it worse was that sex was a Nooooooooo go for about 3 weeks.

Mikayla I fully agree we all pay for it in the end !! As tempting as it has been, I wouldn't pay for sex. Having a wife that puts sex very low on her list of priorities it has been more than a temptation to turn else where. But No I wouldn't pay for it. If I ever did cheat which is VERY doubtful surely the chase would be part of the excitement??

Yes, I do. I think it makes any sensations feel a lot stronger. My wife prefers it too, I have heard of some blokes going 100% bold but for me the shaft and under area is enough and the rest gets a trim. Mind you it does become a problem a little later when it starts to get prickly.