Tell me howard4570 how am I projecting my expierences onto others? Really I was not aware of that if I had known I would not have posted those things I was just trying to express my opions. I didn't mean to be rude. I also was not imposing Christianity. I don't have to tell my fiancee how to please me he just knows. I agree God gave me this body but to me my body is on loan to me and someday He will claim it back. I am sorry for the "rude" comments. I just want to say one thing I don't masturbate when my fiancee isn't around because I spend all my time on the computer, driving around running errands, and doing my homework for my college instructors. How should I open my mind to these sex things? Look forward to your comments!