i do tend to use horney goats weed. it usually takes about a week of build up to work. but once it starts it's like i'm insatiable. my nipples stay hard and i stay wet and all i can think about is a good hard fucking. another thing that works for me is codine. every winter i get a really bad cough for long periods of time so my dr. perscribes cough syrup with codine. i have found that it makes me want to cuddle up to hubbys back and just rub all over him especially his cock. course he doesn't mind when he can just roll over and come all over my tits. geesh too bad it's spring and i'm all out of syrup....