tracey

OK-I am not one to scream or make a lot of noise, but I do whimper and when it gets really good, I beg..don't stop.ohh god,,don't stop,son't stop...etc, but only once over the years have I ever had a fit of laughter. Why that time, I really don't know, and it embarrassed me, made the guy mad because he thought I was laughing at him, and the harder I tried to stop laughing, the more I laughed until I was trying to hold my breathe to get the laughter to stop. Needless to say, he didn't understand and refused to speak to me afterward. I know I was being mean later, but I really didn't understand at the time either why I had laughed so hard, but it became a joke between me and some of my gf's. We would see him at the club and then just break out into fits of laughter. The sex was good and I got off and enjoyed it, it was just the fit of giggles afterward...he didn't appreciate it

At least i am not the only one with reservations, I too have difficulty with bj's. I do not like the taste of cum and I have tried several times. As far as size goes, so far I haven't had a gag reflex to that, and with some guys I have been with, I just could not do it. I could not give my hubby one whether he was freshout of the shower, in the shower, just couldn't. Made my stomach just turn. The guy I am friends with now with benefits and no strings, I can give him a bj, no prob, but I still can't get past the nut in my mouth. The last time we did anything, he put his fingers in my mouth with nut on it, and I just shivered, he isn't pushing it, but I know it will take time, patience, and practice. Plus he doesn't smoke or eat alot of salt so I think that helps a lot.

Well, I know my limits as far as dicks go as well, doesn't mean I don't push em every so often, no more than a 7 inch can I handle and that is barely. As far as babies go, my boys were 8lbs7.3 oz, 9lbs2oz, and the last one 10 lbs and 223/4 long. But I have been with guys that I just could not handle and it hurt so much afterward, I had to leave work once with "stomach cramps", lol, was NOT going to tell my supervisor I had gotten a hold of a dick I couldn't handle But as far as the "survey" goes, it is supposed to be a joke about men and their wonderful different sizes and our reactions to them.

My boss asked me one day if I had ever let anyone watch me masterbate. No, I really hadn't other than playing with my clit during sex, but to just have someone sit and watch, no. So he asked if I would do it and let him watch. Ohh, I did, and it was such a turn on, even though I was a bit uncomfortable at first having someone up close and watching every move, and when I came.......he asked if he could taste, and he sucked every bit. My kitty hummed all day

According to recent survey taken by women on what women say about men's dicks.......9in=pain, 7in=heaven, 6in=pleasure, 5in=ummm....ok, 4in=push harder, 3in=Is it in??, 2in=fuckit, use your fingers Please remember guys that this was only a joke, and it all depends on your woman and what she likes

Well, I am already working on step 1 off the situation. I have a restraining order and after it is in effect for 4 months, legal aid will grant me a divorce uncontested. And I got evrything and he cannot contest. as for the rest, in due time.

I have always enjoyed the foreplay and rimming that comes with anal sex, but the actual penetration has always been so painful. And I bleed afterward. Alot. I did go and have it checked, and had to have a colonoscopy, and no, I did not tell the doctor that having anal sex started the bleeding, but I did find out that I have internal polyps (similar to a hemmroid). I would definitely advise anyone who has pain when trying that, to stop, and if there is bleeding, and you know when it is bleeding from inside or just from being stretched, to get it checked. One of the issues I had with my husband was that he loves to have anal sex regardless of it hurt me or not. And if he had to use force to get it, then he did. Anal sex should never hurt, and should never, never be forced. It is defenitely something one has to be relaxed but excited for, and very well lubricated.

Yes, there has been acts forced on me orally, in which, my trust level is shattered to a point of not trusting anyone. I don't like not having control and the even slightest mention of restraints make me feel panicky. I know that is where some of my hang ups come from and it isn't fair to who ever I happen to be with, but I don't know how to get past a lot of it. As for the other subject I asked about, my last husband was a heavy smoker ( I am not), and he ate more salt on his food, than there was actually food there it seemed. Just made for a bad taste combo to begin with. On the 3 some issue, the black/white issue is that the guy is black and the girl is white. His race does not bother me at all, I have never been one to let someone's color or nationality determine my feelings. Alot of my issues are coming from my lack of trust in people. I have been hurt, and have been a very bad marriage, abusive-emotionally, physically, sexually. My husband is currently in jail, looking at multiple life sentences for rape, sodomy, and child molestation to 2 minors. Do I think he did it? Don't know for sure but some of the things that the 14 said he did and said are some of the same things he has done to me and said. He also told her she was special because she allowed him to do what I wouldn't. And she named those things off correctly. There was no way she could have known about some of it. I love sex, and I do enjoy it, but I miss it very much. My curiosity is high in many areas, but I just have a hard time being able to let my guard down and putting my trust in someone. I am very self concious and tend to embarrass very easily.

I agree with Mikayla, you seem to be a bit too interested in younger girls and I am new here and have already picked up on that. It is very wrong and devastating to a family. I know, my husband, who I am in the middle of divorcing, and I have restraining orders on him, is in jail for 5 counts of rape, sodomy, child molestation, aggravated child molestation, and stalking. To 2 minors, it is WRONG, and very harmful to everyone it affects. I hope you are only dealing with girls over 18, I wouldn't wish the shame and embarrassment on no other family if you were to get caught otherwise.

To reply to the question....when I was younger, I don't even know how I found out it felt so good, but it does and still does to this day. While in the bathtub, and the water is on full blast, I love to hold my legs up and let the water beat my private area. Make sure the water temp is comfy before trying it though, otherwise it can be a major jolt. It doesn't take very long to have me quivering and the release feels ohh so good. Lol, I have never told anyone about that, not even either of my husbands.

I don't have a prob with a gag reflex as far as size goes, it is just with the body fluids. Yeah, I did try the shower thing a few times, but I am just not a spitter or swallower. I am a puker and my tummy just heaves if I taste any of it. Maybe it is because I don't eat salt, table salt, I don't even like the taste of salt at all and don't use it. But cum has a salty taste, and I just don't know how to get past this issue. I have been married 2 times and it was a major issue both times.

Okay, here's the deal. I have been invited to a 3 some with some friends. Problem is, the curiosity is there, and part of me really wants to try it. But then, reality hits and I am too chicken. I am too scared! I have been close before to doing it years ago, my best friend had his girl over but I didn't like her to begin with, but when she pulled off her shirt, I got up and left the room. I still get ribbed to this day about it. But I have dreams and fantasys of actually doing it, and I really would like to, but I have a problem with bj's and anything near my mouth. She can go down and do all she wants, but I am afraid I will not be able to return the favor. I don't have a problem with the guy, and he thinks it is a black/white issue, but it isn't. How do I overcome this fear? Close my eyes and do it anyway? I am very curious to try it, just too damned chicken, and it makes me mad!

How do I say this right? I like giving blow jobs to very few and very select few people that I have been with. And even though I like to do it, I don't allow anyone to cum into my mouth. That to me, is just gross. I have been with several guys, and my husband was one that I could not give a bj too. I just could not go down on him and it became a problem in our marriage. I understand his want for it, but my stomach would just turn at the thought, and I did try, I almost puked on him. He was so mad at me. But I have been with others that I could go down on, so long as they don't cum into my mouth. How do I get past this fear or dislike? I really hate the taste of cum. And yes, I tried the candy deal, the Cool whip, chocolate, etc. but none of that covers the actually cum. It is embarrassing and I have this one friend that I can do things with no strings attached, and I can give him a bj, to a point, and he said I really need to find a way to deal with my inablities and fears and overcome them so that I could fully enjoy sex.

I have also used neosporin after shaving, and I use baby oil sometimes too. Only problem I have with baby oil is that it tends to burn if I let it get on the inside of my vagina. I have to be really careful but it smells so sweet, especially the cocoa butter baby oil, and is so soft afterward. I am leary about using the Black Magic as I used to date a black guy and he said it would burn white peoples skin because it was not formulated for us, and I that is an area that I really don't want to burn.