Kuddles

Hot-Pants-Kate, You must believe that you are more than just a lay. Any man who would step out on his wife and child is not going to respect you the way he should. He is simply using you to escape his problems. I am glad to hear that you have broken things off with this married guy and hopefully you will be strong and not go back. It sounds like this "relationship" was turning bad. It appears his agression heightened after you got agreed to get the contraceptive. This man has some control issues and maybe used you to let them out. I bet when he is at home he with his wife and family he is completely the opposite and lives out his wild sexual fantasies with you. Is that what you want? Do you want to be just a lay? When you discover what a real man can do for you, your head will be spinning! You can and will find a man who will respect you, take care of you, look out for your best interest, consider your feelings first and rock your world! Then this looser that you have been dealing with will be just a memory. But the only way that is going to happen is when you start loving and respecting your self first and believe that you deserve much more than someone who stood at the altar and took a vow of marriage with another woman. I hope one day you find happiness and don't look back because he is not worth it!!!

I understand where you are coming from, I only reach a climax when my clit is stroked. With that in mind I strongly suggest you get a bullet vibrator (preferably one with adjustable speed) and some lube. Place the bullet onto your clit and start at a slow speed. Let it vibrate for a while, then increase the speed until you just can't take it any more. Try moving the vibrator around to different spots as some areas are a little more sensitive than others. Pressing your legs together firmly and creating pressure helps too. I cum so quickly when I do this. Believe me, you will never be lonely again when you get a vibrator. I started with one bullet now, I have several including a few dildos. Sometimes when I am really horny, I use two toys. I insert a dildo or bullet into my pussy and place a bullet right on my clit. Instant ecstasy!

My first experience with a toys was a bullet. It is a great way to explore masturbation. I went to an adult toy party and my friends gasped because I never used a vibrator. I bought it and didn't use it for months! When I finally did, it didn't take long before I discovered my clit and I have been cummmmmming ever since. I have since graduated to riding my dildo while placing the bullet on my clit. Try the bullet, it's small but very powerful. I suggest using the slow speed and gradually increase it until you cum.

B HMMM cologne... never thought of that... I like that idea! Thanks!

Thank you! I don't know why I have this reservation, sometimes I go for it and its good and other times...I don't. I'll give your suggestion a try.

I totally understand where you are coming from! It sounds like you may be taking too much in your mouth. Try this: Lick the tip, lick up and down the shaft and his balls making circles like a lollipop or ice cream cone. When you feel comfortable take a little bit in your mouth and move up and down slowly. As you put a little bit in your mouth use your hand to cup the rest of his penis and gently stroke him up and down. This will make him feel as though you have all of him in your mouth and keep you from taking in too much at once. Go back and forth licking and sucking just a little bit until you start to feel more comfortable. Best of luck, let us know if that helps!

SOME women can handle a big cock. My husband is very big too... it just depends on who your partner is. Take it slow if you are hooking up with a new lover to make sure she can handle you!

AMAZING! I was having the same converastion with some of my friends and was shocked to find that they felt the same way I did. I want to give my husband pleasure but have some reservations about giving a him oral... so if you do have a class I say sign me up!

I love my husband but am not that fond of giving him a BJ. He loves it when I do it, but all I can think is when will it be over. I want to try to overcome my reservations. Sometimes I do it without thinking about it and other times he practically begs me and I feel like I am letting him down. If he is sweaty, I am completly turned off...the shower is better because I have the water as a distraction. Please give me some advice on how I can overcome my oral sex reservations!!!

I have thought about another lover, though I would not want to be with him now. He was so good I will never forget him...(I get a little moist just thinking about it now)