pookurs80

I can't orgasm unless I masturbate. And If I masturbate during sex I end up having a very disappointing orgasm. So all I can say is when i do orgasm; which is always by myself, my whole body stops moving, and I stop breathing for a second, once I breath again I just make a soft moan, and then it's over...Pathetic, i know.

I share in a very similar problem. My BF and I have been together for 2.5 years, and in that time his lust for sex has gone down hill. My problem is that he acts as thow having sex is a chore, and when we are "together" it feels as though he is just rushing through the motions just to get it over with. There is no foreplay, and no touching or kissing during sex. Of course I blamed myself. I tried making myself more beautiful, and making his fantasies come true, that didn't work on him, but I know as a women if my man were to go the extra mile to make my fantasies come true, that would be an instant turn on.

How many times do you hear guys say that they can easily please any women? I know I have heard it a lot. But the problem is I have yet to find one that actually can. I am in my late 20's, and I am beginning to think that there is something wrong with me; I am unable to "finish" when making love. I have twice, and both times "toys" were used, and it was a very disappointing "finish". Girls, please tell me, am I the only one suffering from this problem? It has effected my relationships, and my desire. If anyone has any helpful hints I am all ears.