TabooJ

@Jennifer01Hi. If you would I’d like to hear a woman’s perspective on why this is so intense. I occasionally partake at my wife’s request and it drives her crazy as well. To the level she will hold my head down there to where it’s tough to breathe. I’ve asked her multiple times after why and I usually get a dismissive I don’t know which is odd because we are very open. She has a partner I watch her with and feel comfortable enough to where they had unprotected sex for the first time this past weekend. The moment got to me a bit when she asked me to eat her out before I had sex with her and I froze (he came multiple times) and stuck with just sex. Again the only answer I got was she wanted me to do it. What gives?

So far so good @Starvingbut we will see. I thank you for your input. I enjoy watching and she enjoys the sex and me watching. I don’t really have an interest in joining in as I’d prefer to watch. Just imagine there are pitfalls besides the obvious to look and listen out for or even how far is too far. We both want to keep a semblance of our life while being fulfilled physically at the same time.

Wow. If not in Wisconsin I’d question if my wife made a profile on here.

Not sure if considered tantric but my wife and I have a go to we do. It definitely removes everything else from your mind. I give credit to my wife as she took the reigns due to us being distracted by busy life. She blindfolded me and used a pair of soft cuffs on my hands behind my back as she put what’s best described as massage music very lightly on her cell all as I stood. She caressed me all over for close to a half hour and only randomly would come close or swipe where it usually matters most. She mixed in randomly putting her worn panties within close distance of my nose. She got more targeted toward my cock, balls, and asshole as time went on but still did not solely focus on those areas. This went on for well over an hour. I was so relaxed yet stimulated that at times I almost fell asleep on my feet. I was so relaxed yet so aroused that she finished me by gently and slowly swiping her tongue from my balls to the bottom of my tip. A few minutes of that and I had the most intense orgasm I’ve ever had, all with very little touch. I do the same to her and at times we will do it to each other at the same time. It bonded us incredibly as she’s very free and willing to be naked anywhere and in the exact opposite. My self consciousness due to my size just goes away and is truly amazing.

Hi everyone. Married guy here at a bit of a crossroads with some decisions. I feel very out of my element so bare with me. I had a rather uncomfortable discussion with my wife some time back. Before our engagement we had a break up of about 3 months. During that period I did what most young guys do which is turn to another woman for what on my end was just pleasurable sex. At the time my wife found out about it through mutual friends. Due to the social media era she found out who she was and that was that. Years later and happily married she ended up having business contact with her. She didn’t hold it against me but she was clearly irritated nonetheless. Out of that she “came clean” and admitted she was carrying on with someone while we were broken apart. Not a big deal other than she had sworn up until that point she was with no one else. Not a hypocrite and not a big deal. I don’t think the details are necessary but one wine filled evening she volunteered and I asked about him and then. The details were a little shocking but I admit I got off to it. This particular interest of hers actually spawned role playing and very passionate sex amongst other habits like occasionally enjoying porn. The role playing and habit built and built and eventually we talked about me watching her. Again details not important it was watching her with another guy. We balked initially but eventually set it up. Although awkward at first it ended up being a great experience. When we have sex my wife needs to toys to assist and maybe has an orgasm or two. That first time around and the few times after I’ve watched my wife seemingly have one continuous orgasm with the guy and go crazy. My wife is hesitant to admit it but all indicators show she wants it more frequently. She’s admitted shes nervous about it changing to a typical thing and afraid of what I’ll think or if my opinion of her will change over time. Im nervous as well but above all prefer watching her and him because sex with her after is great due to the build up. Id like input of the experiences anyone has had with this, both good and bad. Also if there’s any big issues to think of or get out ahead of other than the obvious. My wife has also discussed wanting to experience others outside of this guy.