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Though not exactly the same, nipple rings (wrap around, noose type, not pierced) can create a VERY stimulating feeling... My girl has VERY large nipples, and likes the kind that have to be put on by mouth... you have to sort of suck the nipple through... keeps them very erect, and that feeling under her dress while we are out to dinner drives her mad... keeps her very horny 'til we get home... There are some that have adjustable hoops or wires, and some you buy by size... don't get them too tight... Some jewellers will even make them for you... Lots on the web... Google them and you'll find more than you'll need...

I'm going to give a contrarians view here, so excuse me in advance... Virginity (and the loss thereof) has this big hype, build-up to it, like some giant turning point in a man's or (more importantly it seems) woman's life... Because of this, sex can have this huge stigma attached, piled high with shame and guilt in the heart and mind of the Virgin... Societally, we put restrictions on our selves... some good (traffic laws, codes of polite behavior, etc...), but some just seem to be put in place to control, and they end up fucking up people's self-esteem and self image... You're not a "good" boy/girl for being virginal, or a whore/slut for acting upon normal, rational, sometimes animal urges... though so many influences (parents, religious figures, etc...) tell us otherwise... keeps the shrinks in businees, though... If you are 24, masturbating regularly, interested in moving forward and reading and posting on online forums... honey, you're more than ready... My advice would be to find a guy you're NOT interested in romantically (no "love" pressure), someone you like and trust... and just have some fun... Be careful, be safe, use condoms and birth control, and don't get pregnant... But get it over with, and hope that it is enjoyable... then you can proceed with the important stuff in life, having jumped this "hurdle" You'll probably be bad (how bad could sleeping with a virgin be?) at somethings, maybe have some natural, god-given talents... Don't be worried about doing the wrong thing... for most younger guys, you're just being there, naked and ambitious is more than enough... reading the insightful posts here (other than those by allit) and perhaps picking up a book or two on sexual "tips" will be helpful... Of course, I remember the first time I got on a surfboard... NONE of the many books I had read about the subject, during the winter before, prepped me for the actual experience... None gave me balance or showed me how to stay put on this piece of plactic sqirming on tumultuous waters... No post/manual/tip column could prepare you for the amazing feelings this amazing act can offer... or the disappointment of a lame lover.. or the loss of a failed romance... You just have to experience these... as most of the posters here have... You'll notice alot of the women on the forum talking about the great sex they are having NOW... Now that they have found the one who pleases them sexually ( and probably emotionally and spiritually too)... But, you'll also read of their EXes, why they were EX-ed, How good/bad past experiences were... well, they all got here on roughly the same path... LIFE... Sex is part of that, some would say a vital part... but it is just part. So, don't put the weight of the world, and all the gravity of your romantic future on that one, falsely pivotal encounter... it may very well suck... or be fun... it's up to you... Unless you have some religious constrictions, you probably won't end up with your first lover for eternity... I hope I haven't offended anyone with my post... but it is how I feel on the subject. GOOD LUCK inexperienced!!!!!!

I checked that Origins shave cream, and it's called Blade Runner... and it is GREAT! It should be used with an eye toward keeping it out of the inner labia, as my honey has told me it makes her tingle in the not-so-pleasant way... Put it on warm, softened hairs (post-shower/bath) and let it sit a few moments... you'll feel a cool, numbing tingle... fantastic sensation... On the point of razors, I find the 5-blade razors aren't too nimble in the tight spots (there are a few of those down there, you know?), so I opt for the Mach 3/Venus type... with fresh, new blades!!!!!! For a cool new, intimate encounter, try shaving your partner... Fresh out of a long, hot bath... Lay a towel out on the bed, have a warm washcloth handy... leave the bathtub full, to hop back into after you're done... Go slowly... take care to go with the hairs, not against... follow up with L'Occitane's post-shave balm, or similar product... Amazingly HOT experience!!!! (assuming there are no nicks)

I haven't tried the Halls, but I have tried both NICE cough drops and Altoids... Both are great. The nice thing about NICE is that they are sugar free! Take that hungry little yeasties! My experience with Altoids was unintentional... I had been sucking on an Altoid for the minty-fresh-breath thing, and the moment became THE MOMENT, so as I began to lick her, she made a comment on a tingly feeling... a very COOL tingly feeling. So, I grabbed the tin, had another during my servicing her, and it was quite pleasurable... not earth-shattering or anything, just cool... The NICE incident was more planned... She was coming over one night, and I was getting out some sex toys to clean, and prep for some play, and in the drawer I keep them, I had also put some cough drops... I saw them, remembered how strong their effect was on my recent head-cold, and thought they might create an interesting sensation... They were a very strong, menthol type... I asked her if she was game... she was, and those tingles were much more intense, she told me. I can't say that her Orgasm came quicker or was any more intense, but she sure did cum... I think that, like just about everything else, variety is the spice of life... and keeping things interesting, new and curious makes for a pleasurable sexual experience... So I'm not grabbing mints everytime I might be going down on her, but once in a while keeps it fun and fresh...

Origins makes a shave cream that is extraordinary. It has a slight "numbing" effect, and leaves the shaved area tingly, in a clean, fresh way... It also raises the hairs very well, so that they will get taken off quickly. You don't want to have to keep going over the same area again and again... that leads to a definite razor-burn... and that's not fun in the undies!!!!

In my previous post, I described the problem... poorly cast/molded hearts that created rough spots... the vibe worked perfectly well, but the flawed texture was an irritant to my lovely... perhaps not so much of a problem, had it not been such a tight fit, but it was... even with lots of lubrication... so hopefully, the replacement will please... Other than that small issue, this seemed to make my SO very happy!

Just a note on the folks at Too Timid... I was wondering about the replacement of a defective "Heart-on", and where that order might be... so I emailed them, and was told that the replacement was processed, and in transit... awesome... but, mostly because the reply email was sent in less than a minute... THAT'S customer service!!! Thanks Meaghan!!!

Hey scottp... Jelly covered vibrators warm up to body temp, but not much beyond (unless friction becomes an issue) are soft and generally comfortable to use. So a couple of vibes, available through TooTimid, might fit the bill... Try the Hot Pinks (item #SE0330-04-2) or Jill Kelly's Jelly Vibe (item #TO5712-6). Both are great, and trying them, experimenting with them is the only REAL way to know. Neither is too large or intimidating, so a "beginner" won't be frightened away from toy play... One thing that will make it all much more fun, though, is to USE LUBE!!!! I suggest Astroglide (item #ZASTRO44). It is absolutely the best lube, is water-based for easy clean up and compatibility with most toys, and a little goes a long way... It tastes a little funny (if that comes up) but all lubes do, even the flavored ones... kinda like any artificial product... like grape soda that doesn't taste like grapes... but that's the nature of the lube beast... I would recommend getting a few toys (no, i don't work for TooTimid), trying them, and having some fun... Keep it fun, shop the site together, and enjoy the intimacy of the process... from viewing all the products, to the anticipation of opening the box when it arrives... Make your wife feel comfortable reading some of the posts (Mikayla is brilliant and her views are really helpful... she's an experienced user) and choosing what she is interested in... It's all good...

Just a little update on one of the toys I recommended... The Cyberskin Fantasy Cock... I just got a second one of these, and now have one for my place, and one for hers... She's so taken with this (actually we both love it) because it is very realictic, and in a 69 position, with her atop, this dong is flexible enough to allow me access to her clit with it inserted, while allowing great control, holding the "balls"... This is a very realistic feeling toy, and she absolutely GUSHES when she's getting internal stimulation from this soft, smooth toy, while I suck on and lick her clit... And the favor of pleasure is appreciatively returned to me, as she gets very "into" giving me head at the same time... She says that it feels just like me when it is inside her... This is a great toy, not too large as to give a less confidant lover a fright, but large enough to do the job for which it was intended... The color is fun, and you HAVE to feel this material... If you soak this in hot water to warm it, you'd swear it was real... Has anyone else tried this, or the Cyberskin Passion Cock, also made from the same material, but in Pink? I'd love to hear what others think of these toys, especially women...

Both I and my SO practice various grooming techniques... I have been shaving (almost completely) for years... At first there was some discomfort (rash, itch, etc...) but that was just an adjustment period... now it's part of my regular grooming routine. Why do I shave? Because it is SOOOOOOO appreciated! It has been YEARS since I have had a woman stop oral to remove a hair from the back of her throat... Serious mood killer, huh? And because I am shaved, I have been told many times how clean/neat I am...Hair holds a lot of scent, sometimes that can be good, sometimes not... Just think about how your hair (on your head) holds the smell of a smoky club for hours... So, I groom, and stay sqeaky clean... Great for her, thus, great for me... I am a big proponent of anything that encourages extended periods of oral stimulation.... As far as the "her"s in my life, I always encourage neat grooming... It is (my opinion only) MUCH more enjoyable to engage in oral sex when the way is clear... Visually very sexy, easy to see what's going on "down there", and plainly cleaner... So my current SO shaves and waxes... It's not all gone, but it's very trimmed... When she goes completely bare, I totally dig, but regrowth from a comletely bare state is irritating, as she's told me... So, just as it is for me, her grooming habits will keep me performing longer, and that's a bonus for her... Is it a task? Another thing to do in a world where ther doesn't seem time enough to do what we already need to? Sure, but what great benefits to be had... Just my thoughts... Anyone else?

Dear Hotnhrny... Guys are not subtle, and generally we are ALL interested in women (if that is our given proclivity, and not homosexual)... When we are not interested (ie. you're not our type, remind us of an evil ex, etc...) we'll let you know, by being aloof or disinterested. We are a simple lot... not NEARLY as complex as women. If we are checking you out, or strike up a conversation, or being overly helpful, chances are we want to sleep with you... Now the tricky part comes in figuring out which of us you want to spend (or waste) time with... Good luck out there... I hope you find someone to love, who will cherish you, make you happy and fulfill your desires/needs... don't forget that you deserve that... all this sex stuff is anchored in honesty, caring and communication... find someone who you can share these with, and you'll do OK...

So, upon reading some rather good reviews on this item, I ordered one for play with my SO... She digs toys, and as stated, this is a pretty, if somewhat sizeable, joy-giver... I am always up for a new way to drive her out of her mind with pleasure, and this, from the looks and the reviews, seemed like a candidate... Upon inspection, I noticed there were some imperfections in the casting of the jelly material. We decided to enjoy some play-time with the new addition to the toy box. The flaws proved to be uncomfortable in use... If this weren't stretching her limits, and not such a tight fit, this might not have been an issue, but it was... Nice vibes, cool texture... except for the flaws... those hearts had her very stimulated... NOT for the beginner, or those who might consider themselves "tight"... It's big! We ended up finishing with other faves...So buyer take note, and inspect your toy upon arrival... The folks at Too Timid are great though, as emails were returned immediately, and a replacement will be coming soon... They have great customer service... this is obviously a manufacturing issue, and not their fault... and they are standing behind the product... Thanks TT!!!!

Hey Colleen... My girl likes a few dongs, so I'll pass along what I have (lustfully) observed... Firstly, if you want a really great, quality dong, there's the Cyberskin Fantasy Cock (item #TLH5518-7). It has a cool lavender color, is not too large, has a realistic appearance other than the color, and has balls to hold on to... but it is not real cheap, and requires some maintenance to keep it like new. It's as close to the real thing as you can get. She likes the softness and texture too... it bends to her inner anatomy and hits all the "good" spots. It's the little brother to the Cyberskin Passion Cock, which is pink, pretty large, and also a great toy... Another, less expensive quality dong is the Doc Johnson, Classic Jelly Dong (item #DJ0286-02) in the 10' model... don't worry, you don't need to insert all 10 inches (unless you want to) but the extra makes holding on easier when things get a little slippery... It has a smooth, slick feel when lubed, and also seems to please. The head on it seems big, and not very life-like, but the round, smooth shape doesn't irritate, as long as our play sessions can be... Don't bother with the 8", as I have found it hard to grip... I would recommend getting both... FUN toys!!!