Hi
so this is my story, take from it what you can,
Never say Never, let me tell you why.....
I was in a 26 yr relationship n the last 7 was sexless. Plus I'm 14 yrs younger so my husband was addicted to opiates n I was going thru early menopause so all the factors came into play contributing to the no sex . Now he is gone, passed away ok,
I loved that man so much, he was my rock n my soft place, he was my everything, n if i could get him back i would take him exactly the way he was! But we all know once ure gone u don't get anymore chances,
I gave it a good 1.5 yrs tho, then I had my 1st sex with a new guy from work, OMG! Whew, sex was fucking bad ass lol but the dude didn't hv respect for the job or me, so once I knew I couldn't trust him again, I still wanted more sex n right away! So welcome to the sex club called dating sites lol I haven't stopped with the random late night fuck fests.
Moral of my story is, Never say Never again! Being in a sexless marriage did not mean there wasn't love, it meant he couldn't perform the way he treated me all thru our love making yrs, like a goddess, up on THE HIGHEST pedestal! I would give up sex for another lifetime with my husband...
GOOD LUCK with all u hv right now baby girl. U will NEVER know how much/how good/how rich u hv it till its gone!