catapultlaunch

thanks for that, very informative. but i must let you know that i have always shaved my "area", and i've masturbated since i was a child, so i know neither of those are the issue, i know what i want. However, just because i know what i want does not mean he does, so i really should verbalize more. although i will have to wait a bit to let you know how it goes, since he is in asia for a few months. I do have another question about our lovemaking: it seems the only way he can come is when i am on top(and sometimes in the shower), which i don't mind, but it does get routine after awhile, since we always go back to the same position in the end. that doesn't really excite me...i like sex in wierd positions in wierd places but that is beside the point. I want to know if you have any insight on how i might go about acclimating him to some less routine sex. i would be very thankful

my boyfriend hasn't been with many other women (just 1), and i'm the first he's gone down on. ever since the first time we had sex and he went down on me, he pretty much refuses to do it. I really think that's unfair, because i go all out when giving it to him, and there's nothing wrong with my cooch. I just think he's frightened and a little intimidated by the area, but i would like this to change, since i plan on staying with him for awhile. any suggestions?

I personally have always swallowed. my first oral sex experience was very educational, as the guy knew it was my first time. he gave me a lot of tips and suggestions, but in the end, it was my decision to swallow. i find that whenever i am with a new fellow, he gets quite excited that i swallow. also, i don't see what the big deal is with the taste, its not that bad and it's in your mouth anyway....