Lube is good on me,as for my wife sometimes, sometimes not.I like to go down on her and that gets a lot of her natural lubes going.When we play with toys a little lube is good.We have found that to much lube will make it harder for her to have an orgasm .But on the inside when she wants that deep climax, a little lube is good.It can be different from time to time..So a little lube is good at the start .It does make things feel better then when its dry.Its not always the same evey time.