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WOW! Crazy I sit right there with Mikaylas comment on this subject. I have a wonderful sex life and I am completely satisfied in my sex life again. DO I masturbate? OH ya every chance I get Does my husband who is also very satisfied? YES and I love to watch him, in fact just the other night we had a masturbation night, it was very rewarding to the both of us. We weren't aloud to touch one another, or one anothers toys, we could kiss but that was about it. What a wonderful fun filled night. A man that hasn't masturbated in years, I can't believe it. Sry

I think a little birdie told me this TOY is going to be PERFECT for me. Since most of us know I LOVE anal play and the DP. It is a must try, I have looked at it a few times since I saw it on the site, but wasn't to sure if I would like it. The same thoughts I had about the John Holmes and I loved that one. Well going on my wish list to email to the hubby. Thanks Mikayla

Here is another thought, Mikayla did a great job on the article in fact she even listed where she got the name of some of the positions. If I may I might suggest finding the book maybe it might have illustrations for you, I am not sure since I haven't read the books. Also another suggestions is to, and well this will sound strange, you and your partner could always with your clothes on or off and the computer on and the moniter placed where you can see it try to get in the right position, or try it. Myself I could just see the fun my hubby and I would have trying to read the computer screen, or print it out, and try some of them while naked, I think we would have a hell of a good time laughing, and enjoying one another plus finding new positions of our own. Oh ya, I had one more thought. Have you tried to google them? Just another suggestion the web is full of information. Good luck!!

WOW! This is kinda a hard one since now I have to unlock the toy box and count. I am only gonna unlock one and see how I do on the others. Mikayla I feel for ya, I could only imagine trying to list all of those. Myself though Mike_D I don't think you can have too many, in my book. Here we go and I know I am gonna miss a few here and there but, here goes nothing. Wireless remote control egg Dual bullet 4 bullets The gypsy Erotic butterfly G-spot kit(3 pieces) John Holmes Thrusting deep Stroker Rabbit Passion Vibe Clit buddy Thigh cuffs Blind fold smart vibe 4 different types of anal beads 3 anal plugs different ones from vibrating ones to the standard plug Velcro cock ring Jessica's Strobing probe Head Twister Clit critterVirual reality sex kit (2 pieces) rock-it 6" studded veined vibrator Oral gels Pocket pussy (3) DP toys cant think of the name of then right now A couple of games Your basic strap-on Shotgun Pearl Rabbit An anal kit (4 pieces) My hubby bought it for me last year for Christmas(woot can't wait to see what I get this year =)) I think that list them I am sure I missed a few but there is a inside look into to my toy box. Time to add a few new ones since WOOHOO!! I just got my new shipment today. Turbo nipple claps Mini Rabbit Vibro wand Mode collection. I am excited to try these out. Review coming soon, hehe new toys to play with

Think I might just have to try this one. Never thought of dusting my hubby. But sure does sound like it can be alot of fun.

LOL Tyger!! I think most of us come to face that conclusion. Hey but it is soooooo WORTH it, hehe just think of all the fun we have with our little friends and our partners to. Sometimes you just crack me up, and make me smile in the morning, to say it better you keep me on my toes.

I am right there with ya Kay. I am sure you have read alot on this post. I have never been able to spit and I to think it is grouse. I mean heck most peoples partners go down on them so we should do the same. I know I sure don't see my hubby spitting, ewwww just the thought. You may have a point in saying that it brings you and your partner closer in away I personally never thought about it like that. I do know that it is a HUGE turn on for him and me both.

Hello and Welcome to Tootimid.! Well to start with your first question, you may use silicone lube on toys that ARE NOT Silicone, Using a silicone lube on a silicone toy can destroy that toy. I have used silicone lube on all rubber toys along with hard plastic. I find silicone lube to be great exspecially in water play. I must admit I am a little confused by your second question, but it is early. If your asking what the Coochy shave cream is, instead of using soap or lets say a shave gel from you local grocery store, you use this instead. I haven't tried this product but I do know alot of people have and they love it. This is a shaving cream like how a guy puts shaving cream on when they shave, same thing with this product you apply it to you then shave, so it isn't a aftershave it is a product to use while you are shaving. As far as the Tend Skin that is something you apply after shaving, from what I've read on that site, I don't know much about the Tend skin. We also carry the Coochy protective mist which is what you use after you shave. That product would be more like your Tend Skin. As far as the butt plugs are concearned I have a questions for you. Are you looking for a plain type plug or something that has ridges? Beaded type? Do you want a plug that vibrates to or? Here are a few links to a couple that I found on the site that aren't very big or overwhelming, although these I haven't tried or ordered here. Also I sent you the link on some of beginning kits to. Since I am not sure what exactley you are looking for in a butt plug, I know you said nothing as big as a penis, but there are different types. I am sure others here will have some more advice and tips for you. I hope these help you some. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=4630 this one isn't very big around and not very long. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=4733 Here is a beginning kit to I wasn't sure if you might be interested in these at all. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=3195 Good luck and Welcome again. I hope this information helped you out some.

I just had to share this with everyone and found out how many others have had a night like this. I ordered the free dual bullet, of course my husband made a stimulation on it. My husband stated that I could have it if I shared it. Well hell there are two so either way I knew I was going to win. Well when it arrived in the mail, I was excited!! Then he came with the other stimulation, hmmmm. He said we need to have a night of just kissing and masturbation, the rules were as followed: We could Kiss NO touching each other Watch each other masturbate They seemed far to me, and this was a new thing, I mean we have watched each other before but it always seemed to lead to a hot night togeather. So with this new rules in place, and the kids off to bed. I handed him the bullet and I took the other bullet with the numbies on it and is also longer. Hopped into bed and the fun was on. We kissed off course but trying not to touch was a little harder then I thought it would be. He used his bullet, around his sack on the area between his anus and sack. Oh my I thought he was going to lose it in a couple secs. He ran it up and down his ROCK hard shaft. I of course used mine to play with my clit, and inserted it. THe more I watch him and played with mine, the more excited I became. Well chalk this one up on the calander in my house, I normally can outlast my hubby but this night he outlasted me. I was having mutli-Os. I have to admit this was way to much fun, we joked with each other to and of course some very hot talk was coming out of both our mouths, trying to get the other to O before the other. I think this night is going to happen again very soon. Either way in my book we both win, So I am wondering if anyone else has tried this. Yes it was very hard (pun intended) but well welll worth it all.

My first thought when I read this is OUCH!!! No thank you, I would never think about it. I like the foreplay and the buildup to reach the O. This just goes to show you some people will do anything to have a quick release from the everyday stress of life. I love to have the slow romantic and wild play time with my hubby or even alone to relieve the stress of life and play in my own plyaground. The thought of someone giving me a shot there, I think my legs would never open again. My little cat would be on strike for months. I think people that go to that extreme just to have an O are nuts, I mean what fun is that? No real adult playtime. Just my opinion, plus I like to make him work at it.

Well I also have to agree with Mikayla and tyger on this one. Bullets are great and easy to use, less invasive, most are multi- speed with a low to high vebrations depending on what she likes. Have a talk with her and see what type of stimulation she prefers soft, firm etc. THere are lots of bullets on this site, along with lots of different colors for anyones taste. I will admit that for me to have a HUGE orgasm I need alot of clitoral stimulation or DP. Good Luck and Please keep us updated since we love to hear how things are going.

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=5182 The Ultimate G-spot Kit is Absolutely AMAZING! When I received this kit I was overwhelmed with excitement. The box says 7 vibrating modes, what more could I ask for? I had to open the package right away. Once opened I saw a very sleek and slender rosy red vibe, with two very interesting sleeves. One of the sleeves had veins and looks like a penis. The other has a slight bend shape to it with little buttons at the end. This product takes 2AA batteries, which are not included. I opened the base of the vibe and pulled out the battery holder, insertion of the batteries was very easy to do. I wasn't going to wait for my husband to get home to play with this. At the base of the vibe there are two small buttons, one is of course the on switch and the other controls the vibrations. I turned it on, the vibration on the 1st speed is a slow steady vibe, 2nd is a medium steady vibe, 3rd is a high steady vibe, 4th is a slow steady vibe and increases to a high vibe, 5th is a low on and off vibe, 6th is about the same just a little higher vibe, 7th is a quick 3 high pulsating vibes then a steady long vibe. My personal favorite is the 6th one. I like the teasing this setting delivered. I lube the vibe a little with my Tootimid lube and put the g-spot sleeve on it first. I then lube the sleeve. Insertion of this was easy and to my amazement hit my g-spot perfect. I was in heaven, I could feel every little button on this sleeve, and I was finding it very hard to control my orgasm. I then had to stop and try the other sleeve this sleeve is just as good, but my favorite is the g-spot sleeve. I was in ecstasy with the g-spot sleeve; this sleeve brought me to have multi-orgasms. The other sleeve is great to start with and I could feel every little vein on it. Also the vibe will not go all the way up to the tip of either sleeve, the tips of the sleeve or solid rubber. Let me tell you though it sure didn't have any effect on the vibrations, I could still feel the powerful vibrations threw the sleeves. I found this vibe very easy to use and is one that I think would not be to overwhelming for beginners looking to find that special little spot. This product is amazing and is now one of my favorites; I might just have to let the hubby play with me the next time.

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=5200 I received my latest box from Tootimid. I was like a little kid waiting for my package to arrive to see what was inside. I opened the box to find this wireless remote control egg. I have always wanted to try out a remote control to see how far it will actually go and see how well it holds up to my other eggs (bullets). When I opened the box, I was surprised to see that all the batteries were included. The remote itself takes a 23A12V which I was extremely glad was included. The egg takes 2AAA batteries. The egg itself is a little thicker then the standard bullet, at one end of the egg is a small wire coming out of it. I decided it was time to try this little guy out. I insert the batteries into the remote without any problems. The egg you twist it apart to insert the batteries and the compartment you can pull out a little to make the battery insertion easier. I turned it on and was surprised on how LOUD it was. I must say that was a huge down fall for me since I was planning on leaving the remote sitting on the top of the entertainment center and inserting the egg before we went out to eat. So with a little change of plans we decided since the package said it was WATERPROOF my husband and I were going to try it out in the spa. Once the kids were asleep, out to the spa we went. I handed the remote to my hubby. I began putting it on my clit, this egg sure does have some POWERFUL vibrations, but there is only one setting on it, which is on. My husband enjoyed having control of it, just when I was really getting into it, he would shut it off, talk about teasing me. I then decided to insert the egg. I could feel the vibrations threw out my whole body. The teasing of my husband turning it on and off was a lot of fun; we grabbed our silicone based lube, he lubed up and this was wonderful for some under water DP. I had a huge orgasm, my husband also felt the vibrations and it was a huge turn on for him also. I would not recommend this product to go out with, but if you are looking for a little fun in the water, or maybe a little fun around the house with your other half having a little control this product is great. I myself was impressed with the power of the vibrations, but to me the size of the egg was a little too big. I would recommend this product for beginners or advanced user, I think next time I am going to try to clean the house with my husband having the remote. Why not let your other half have a little bit of control? Happy Playing!

Hi, I must admit I love this toy. Which postions did you try with it? I found that for me to get the most of the rabbit ears I had to lay on my back and raise my legs up to my husband shoulders. Also if you turn the rabbit upside on you, and use it in a doggie style position it is great also. You do kinda have to lean forward a little so the ears will vibrate her clit when her legs are on your shoulders or spread wide if unable to have them on shoulders. Keep trying different positions. Some things that work for one couple may not work for the other. IF you would like you can feel free to pm me and I will try to help more. Hope this helps a little.

Hello and Welcome Tootimind!!!! The reason they are suppose to be replaced about every six months is because even though you wash them with antibacterial soap and water you really can't per say sterilize them, like you can with some of the others, glass ones for instance. Sometimes in that amount of time to they can get "gummy". I will admit that I have had a jelly toy now for about 9 months. I take very good care of it, before and after each use I wash it with antibacterial soap and water and store it back in the box it came in or a box I bought for it. As far as how much you use it I really don't think that matters on how long it last as long as you are caring for it properly. I may be wrong though. I am sure others here with have a little more information for you and advice but I wanted to at least respond and let you know my thoughts. Good luck and Welcome again.

Hello and Welcome to Tootimid! Well to be honest you need to first off be comfortable with you, also explore your body. Find out what feels good to you. If you are stressed out and not relax it will be harder to masturbate. I have a question for you to. To say that you masturbate and it isnt pleasurable, what is it that you are doing? What is unpleasurable about it? Have you ever totally relazed layed in the bathtub or in you bed and let your hands and fingers explore your whole body? Touching yourself lighting to see you it feels and rubbing, I am not talking about automatically going to your private areas. I mean explore your whole body. Rub your arms,play with your nipples, stomach etc... I am sure with more information on what your doing and being a little more specific about on what you are finding unpleasurable, we will be able to help you more. Also in this section if you read threw alot of post here they are full of information and help. Also here is an article on masturbation tips and the link. http://www.tootimid.com/sex_education/just...information.htm I hope this information helps you some. Good luck and please keep us all posted.

What a wonderful helpful article. Thank you for sharing that with us all. I believe all people should read this. I couldn't agree more with. Thanks Timid! Hopefully others will read this and think about it, this is a very true and something I have told people many times. You have to be happy with you.

The Costumer service department is GREAT here you couldn't find a bunch of better people. They will take care of the problem. I just recieved mine so I will let you know but I have only had one problem with any of my toys. Give them a call they are GREAT.

I have done it. In fact this is going to sound a little strange. Most of you know that I have a x-brother in law who I love dearly in prison. WEll his mother and I are great friends and have been for over 17years. She of course is old enough to be my mother, well she got a surprise in her mail one day. I happened to have sent her a box with a bullet in it, with a note that said, " I know we have talked about it and so I firgued this is a way for you to start." I recieved a phone call from her when she got her package, we laughed and talked, she loved it. To this day she still loves it. So it just goes to show you know matter how old you are you are never to old for toys.

Hello and Welcome to the forum. First off let me say this,Tyger is correct you have to know what feels good to you and what gets you off. My suggestion is to first explore your body, since you didn't mention which toys you have boughten it is also hard to say how to help you. I would highly recommend reading some of Mikayla's articles on, How to have an O, along with the articles on sex toys. I will give you a link to a few of those. I know that alot of women need clitoral stimulation to reach the big O, some need alot and some need a little. Everybody's body is different. Also you need to be relaxed, and not try so hard. I am not saying that you are but just a thought here. Tyger gave some great ideas, here are a few others that might help to. Take a warm bath explore your body a little in there don't think about anything but relaxing or having your partner or some extremely hot guy in there with you. Begin by exploring your skin, your breast, nipples, rub your way down to your thighs, inner thighs then slowly begin to rub your vaginal areas. Also try a movie to help. Hopefully some of these ideas will help you out. Here is some links to great information and help. Keep posting and let us all know how things are going. We all love updates. http://www.tootimid.com/sex_education/misc...iple_orgasm.htm http://www.tootimid.com/sex_education/sex_...-techniques.htm http://www.tootimid.com/sex_education/misc...spot_orgasm.htm http://www.tootimid.com/sex_education/misc...iple_orgasm.htm Please keep us informed

The amount to me doesn't matter at all. The fact that I have my husband's "MANHOOD" in my mouth and pleasing him is a turn on all by its self. Knowing that he trust me enough to allow me to have him in my mouth and knowing that I can completely satisfiy him with my mouth is an amazing turn on. Feeling his throbbing penis ready to cum down my throat is a wonderful feeling to. So does the amount have anything to do with it I have to say no.

Okay now I had to order it. I love bullets and my husband was looking at this site the other day and stated,"Honey we must have this dual bullet." I thought wow okay and it is free so here I am going to order it. Now wait he did put a stipulation on it. He said," I get the nubby one and he gets the other." hehe Sounds great to me. I will let you all know how much fun we had. I can't wait. Oh ya and I am hoping they have more purple by now. That is my favorite color!!! I will cry if i get silver but I am sure the buzz will make it all better.

Hello, I have to agree with Mike_d on this one. I know a few couples,and their husband have used certain sex enhancer drugs etc.. I would not recommend them without checking with your DR, you should really sit down with him and have a little heart to heart with him. On some drugs there are bad sides effects etc, which I am sure you are aware of. Another suggestion is maybe trying a cock ring, their are alot of them out their and I know my husband loves the ones that vibrate and I can tell you that he sure did last alot longer with it.

Tyger I am right there with you on this one. OMG there is nothing better then a man in cowboy boots, tight jeans and a nice looking cowboy shirt with a hat. Not the fake cowboy either. My husband isn't a cowboy but he does have some of the clothes and trys his best to be a cowboy but I must say he does a hell of a job on a great sex night when we are role playing. I must admit DAM HE LOOKS GOOD IN TIGHT JEANS!!!!!!!! Makes his ass look wonderful. I love my husband very much even though he isnt a cowboy and bless his heart for trying, he does a great job on role playing nights.

Way to go Tyger!!! I can't wait to hear the update on this one and what your hubby says. I am sure he will love it and be more surprised then ever. I love anal sex and of course the DP. Glad to hear you are trying and taking it slow. I have great Os from it, clitoral stimulation and lots and lots of lube is the key. You know most of us what all the details. I will try to patient and wait for them. Congratulations and keep us all posted.