Jessicaheim

lol, Howard...you're great, you always have such good advice. Whiskey, I agree that stress can be another cause. He has stress just like everybody else. It's hard because when I wasn't 'in the mood', he harassed me every damn night, made comments all the time about not getting it, and I just felt like crap....but I still made sure he was taken care of at least once a wk. So, I suppose I still have some resentment from that to be completely supportive and compassionate. As far as any medicine, he takes none. Nothing for heart or anything. During his last dr. appt., the only thing wrong was a fatty liver, which was mostly due to gaining weight...which was mostly due from quiting smoking. Howard, I think you hit the nail on the head about the pot. Everything you said was true. He's been smoking pot since he was a teenager....so roughly 30 yrs. He says it's not even worth having sex anymore, because it's so much different...the sensation is gone. I'm sure he's mentioned it to his docs, but I will be sure to tell him how important it is that he mention it again at his next appt. Viagra seems to be my only resort, and I'm skeptical about it after his last experience w/ enhancers. Well, thanks for all your advice. I'm off to bed, I will try my best....let's hope I'm not rejected--by him or his dick!

Hi everyone, My darling husband had a vascectomy in January of this yr. He is 44 and I am 24. He has always been 'in the mood'. Well, we think that the combination of him having the vascectomy, being 44, and quiting smoking pot and cigarettes has contributed to his lack of sex drive. He has no interest at all. This comes on the heels of me getting my sex drive back (after having kids). I'm going freakin crazy! I went and bought all these sex toys for us to use. I suggested role playing, dressing up as a french maid or something, but he's just not interested. I am so sexually fustrated. Not only does he not have the drive, but he can't get it up all the time and ejaculates prematurely. He claims that when I get aggressive, I turn him off. He tried some of those over-the-counter sex pills and it ended up sending him in extreme pain, being unable to breath right, severe headaches....no boner included. I made him an appt. w/ the doc that did his surgery to see if we can get some viagra or test his testosterone levels or something...anything. I feel so sad, rejected, and a little bit angry. Has any of you men or women dealt w/ any of this?? I'm almost tempted to start having 'cyber-sex'.

All I can add here is that I totally agree w/ everyone here and I hope for the sake of your daughter you make arrangements to leave him. It's not going to be an easy thing, but it IS the right thing for you and your darling daughter. Please don't let this go any further. He raped you, he's beat you...what more does he need to do to show you how he 'truly' feels about you? Words are just words, actions speak volumes. Good Luck to you, I truly hope you can find the strength you have inside and the courage to make the right decision and GET AWAY FROM THIS PATHETIC EXCUSE OF A MAN!!

I am currently lactating, and my dh has sucked on my tits during our sexual encounters-but not for the purpose of drinking my milk, nor did any milk come out-at least not enough for either of us to take notice.

I am somewhat new to anal love and I just have a few questions for the more experienced. 1) Is it sometimes common to get a belly ache during anal sex? 2) Can having your lover ejaculate in your asshole result in diarhea or other problems w/ taking a crap? 3) Are their any suggestions or advice you can give when it comes to bowel movements and anal sex? Usually I try to have a bm before and almost always I have one after anal sex. The other night I didn't do it afterwards and just went to sleep. Well, the next day I was running to the bathroom left and right and had very runny stool...is this due to my lover ejaculating inside me and me not 'cleaning' it out afterwards? Can it be harmful? Thanks in Advanced!

Hi, I'm a newby. I'm jumping right in. I have always swallowed in previous relationships. I am married now and my husband actually prefers me to spit. He finds it unnessesary. We've talked about it and he thinks swallowing is stupid. Only thing that matters to him is that I finish him off. What I do with his cum after he's done is irrelevant.