Thanks for answering guys! It amazed me that many people didn't want to know of past history. But, this one caller did share with her husband before they married and she said that everytime they have an argument he brings this number into it somehow. Now that I don't is fair. This one guy wanted a woman who'd been around the block cause he wanted one with experience. But like my male friend told me, just because you had many lovers doesn't make you a good lover. Ok, I'll answer the questions also... Would you want to know how many lovers your partner had? In todays world I would want to know. Hell, I'm almost inclined to ask for medical verification to make sure the guy is std free! Would you volunteer this information or only provide if asked? I volunteer nothing! Compared to the numbers that were spat out on the show I was listening to, my number is low for my age. On the show some men thought 5 by 30 was too much for a women, but of course the number for men surpassed this. Is there such a number that you would consider too high for a certain age group? Some people have a crazy phase that they go through, but this should be done with by a certain age. I think having 20 or more lovers by the time your 30 is a lot to me. If your partner exceeded this number would your feelings for that person change? Meaning, would you look at them differently. I think it would. I would think that I was just another conquest and wouldn't want to involved with him. But, if it happened in his early twenties or so I may take that into consideration. Come on people, share your thoughts!