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Oh wow I recently tried the shared pleasure kind out with male lover and OMG! That warming sensation was amazing for both of us (from what I felt, heard, and how he acted there was no doubt). I highly recommend these, and yeah- I'd second the stay away from using this kind for anal play, for sure.

If you have any doubt that what he did was WRONG and it was in fact rape, please visit www.pandys.org or www.rainn.org or please consider calling the RAINN hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE. People are there that care and will give you honest supportive feedback, support, and information. Please keep yourself safe first and foremost and know that people do care and believe you.

One more totally harmless barely noticeable readily available "toy on the fly" would be my personal fave: the Sharpie. I can write pages and pages on this amazing invention. Not the end with the cap, the other end.. the regular size is thin, small, perfect size of a finger or so... great for teasing clit and pussy. Even perhaps for toying with the ass a bit. Then, let me tell you... that Super Sharpie. It's larger, still rounded on the end, and a bit more filling. More like a small dildo would be for vaginal filling, and one of my best guy friends has great fun with me, the Super Sharpie, and my ass, especially while he's giving me oral and/or using some of the other toys. Not to mention, there's no sound since it's silent, and they're easy to clean OR... after one session of a few uses, cheap enough you can throw them out and no one will ever think anything of it or even notice, if secrecy is key. Oh, and you could easily slide one from the nightstand (or wherever) and casually suggest or tease about using it and see how the hubby reacts. I wish you luck with that, though. I'd guess not being compatible sexually would be incredibly challenging. My two cents. So many great suggestions on this thread!

I have these too and I'd say -estimate they are around 3/4 inch in diameter? They are not large but seem to work ok for me, and definitely bring me much pleasure. My advice is keep working those PC muscles and try different positions and such with them in. Then, look out!