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I am interested in taking a part in this free deal but my guy is pretty thick, we have looked into these a little bit before but they semmed too small. My guy is about 6 inches around-if u measure with a flexible measuring tape...at his thickest. What do you guys think? Thanks

okay so I was wondering... I was looking for bullets. mainly as something to get me off while my partner is inside me.... something to help get me off more- than my fingers can handle. I think that I like the idea of a cordless one, or small, unobtrusive.. I was looking at these two... I think i like the idea of the clit licker because it is small, cordless? and slips on a finger. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=5133 http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=4974 I have never tried anything rabit related... so yeah just wanting opinions... What do you think? any other suggestions? I Need fairly intese vibrations, and I am diffucult to cum (take a while, can have multiples though rarely, and when not multiples each following orgasm takes longer, and longer) - I have only cum vaginally once...im a clit girl.... Also - i am intrested in female enhancement creams...that are oral friendly... I have tried the viva sample before and it worked...fairly well.... but just wondering if there is anything better out there- it took a while to start working on me- it felt cold, btu good and did heighten my sensitivity but wore off rather quickly for me... Thanks

thanks for the imput

Well I think the topic description and title says it all.... If you use scilicone lube- which i prefer for its long lasting abilities-during vaginal sex as well- with my guy who is rather large, doesn;t it break down a condom? Or am i wrong? Lookign for any suggestions. I am not new to anal but relativley new to anal lube and condom... Thanks

Thanks- No pain though due to erection... only in certain positions where he is hitting my cervix or my pelvic bone is there discomfort. &usually only when i ride him due to him not being in control so much of the position, depth, roughness etc...

ha ha i am in the same boat- doctors say ihave a small jaw- child sized& normal teeth i dont look weird..and even up to 8inches and pretty thick i have been okay- practice practice practice i guess... but with my surrent guy 9.5 and about 6around i can bareley go past his head! plus now- i has tmj jaw issues so But yeah i feel you there for sure!

I get really hot thinking about the idea... but my guy although not squemish around the idea, has tasted his cum and has accidentally tasted himself off my body- really had no intrest or desire to do so..Once or twice he has gone down on me after coming in me but focouses only on the clit... I wish he was into it though I think it would make me really hot! something about tasting me&him together...i dunno seems really umm hot lol

Just curious to hear from other men who have- or women who've experienced a penis curving downward. My guy is about 9.5length 6inches around so the largeness is also a contributing factor to inability to do certain positions without being uncomforatable (for him mainly) Just wanting to hear some positive and negative experiences I guess, as he feel insecure about it at times and me being his 2nd partner -and having been turned down before due to size-too big, uncircumsized, and curve. Finding a girl to join us has been hard, due to size mainly... Anywho- just curious for feedbak or experiences fyi- has been checked out in the past- and it is within the normal range acording to his doctor and does not need medical attention.

Thanks... Yeah he has gotten it checked out..nothing wrong with it as far as the doctors concerned...he's just still pretty senitive after being partially circumsized at age 17 due to a too small opening... Reverse cowgirl feels good to me but not to him. I have streched... he "fits" in me mostly but in certain posistions like reverse cowgirl and my griding on him while riding him, legs over my head ankle behind me kind of stuff he says he thinks its my cervix or pelvic bone he's hitting and in other positions that is pressing hard against his cock. thanks- Yeah I am hoping to find a brave one to help me out Too many just want me or just him though... Still trying..have been at least passivley for the past 5 years though Typical inexperienced girl here when it comes to other women and flirting and not just standing & looking pretty & having men come to me! Doesn't seem to work that way with women lol - Wish it did!

My fiancé and I have been together 6years now... About two years into the relationship we had a ongoing mfm threesome - my guy is bi but the good friend that joined in was straight, so all attention on me. We continued it on and off for about 2years, it ended when our friend entered into a relationship. There were no negative repercussions I could say- other than sometimes one girl is too little for two men, unless they are both bi (I would imagine). My guy has no problem with penetration from other parties- we learned this obviously through the experience as he was unsure how far he would want it to go in the beginning- so I let him call the shots (as long as I was comfortable as well) and all went fine. We both like to watch- I would luv to watch him with another girl... he loves me to make up stories about being with other guys or past experiences etc, and recently let me go off and be with someone else. Our relationship is still great...and we defiantly are no longer afraid to share our deepest darkest fantasies with each other. We are currently trying to have our first MFF threesome but are having a hard time finding a girl in our area. I think what helped is that although we are both very different people we are kinky and into most of the same stuff sexually... also we also check out girls and guys and tell each other about them- always have before any topic of extra people joining in came up. And we both luv to watch each other so no matter the third parties preferences - We could both be relatively happy just watching... How it first came up actually- was like Howard said- if you can't tell each other things even the bad or scary that others have said - then don’t do a threesome- well I told him I thought his friend was flirting- and he told me he noticed it and thought it was hot..and it went from there, same with girl stuff, he always tells me when a girl hit on him or made a pass or I will tell him a girl is checking him out and to go for it... but then again..although we have been through many ups and downs and gone through a lot of outside crap together we r still together...so I do believe that it needs to be a strong relationship - and that you need to be comfortable with yourself and know your boundaries.

Just curious to hear from other men who have- or women who've experienced a penis curving downward. My guy is about 9.5length 6inches around so the largeness is also a contributing factor to inability to do certain positions without being uncomforatable (for him mainly) Just wanting to hear some positive and negative experiences I guess, as he feel insecure about it at times and me being his 2nd partner -and having been turned down before due to size-too big, uncircumsized, and curve. Finding a girl to join us has been hard, due to size mainly... Anywho- just curious for feedbak or experiences

<br /><br /><br />Thanks.. thats what i was feeling but he was against me spending so much money if he could do it at home & i was like "umm i'll ask online see what they think" becuase I was hesitant... anywho thanks

So... Has anyone out there prefprmed a brazilian wax on themselves, or had their partner do it for them? Everything Ive read says go to the salon, but it can be done safely at home just might be more difficult. My bf wants to wax me.. I've never had it done, been shaving but that doesn't work, im stubbly after less than 18hours which just isn't for me. I can understand his point why do it at the salon for so much money when he could do it for me.... He has waxed almost his entire face b4 so he knows how to do it but still... he's shaved me many times b4 &does a good job... I'm a little cautios, just wanted to know if any one has, and if so what brands/methods etc worked best, like hard wax, soft wax, sugaring etc.

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Umm - Okay I have tried to shave before but got a bad rash- I have sensitive skin & it took a long time b4 i could shave my legs with out getting a rash -couple years I don't have much hair it is light& fine & past partners remember me as being bare which is a nice complement or maybe them just being not very observant who knows Anywho- Now that I am older the hair is a bit longer& darker & has been botherin me- i trim but then my partner doesn't like it unless i get it "just" the right length I shaved again so far no rash But I wasn't able to get a close enough shave. Am I doing something wrong? When you rub downwards its smooth cant feel a thing, but up against growth of hair i can feel a little stubble. Would I get a closer shave pulling the skin tighter... cuase then i seem to nick myself more... Also how often would you say I need to shave to keep it smooth... keep in mind my hair grows really slowly still -i shave my legs about 2-3times a week to keep them smooth -&less if i dont mind a tiny amount of hair growing back b4 i shave... Sorry for all the questions... just curious I want to have a beter experience hopefully this time so I dont stop shaving again& just try to eccept my hair bleh!

My favorite toy .... mmm thats a hard one : p I guess it would have to be the Vibrating Pleasure Beads My honey doesn't like anal, and i miss it after 5 years.. So this is my way to get my anal orgasms & double penetration.... mmm orgasms When- about 2-3 times a week in the evening where -on my bed in the shower, at my computerdesk...

thanks very much... Yeah he's got issues. Hes very open about many things & then completley closed about others, some sex stuff hes very open/willing to try new things etc others he wont budge. why am I still with him? well I am a nurturer -a teacher to special neds kinds & one of those people who always wants to find the why? in things & try to solve the problem. We had a really good relationship for a while weve been together 5 years. we moved in together a year ago. but I think he is deppressed &/or manic deppresive but the doctors havent really done anything about it -hes on sleep meds for not being able to sleep & meds for headaches that were anti deppresants but they didnt seem to help. he has intense mood swings & sometimes he will snap for no reason or something really small & it didnt used to be that way but it has gradually gotten worse to the point where we are now fighting pretty often & we used to be able to talk through everything. i guess I feel bad being with someone who probably has a mental disorder or mood stabilision problem & leaving them because of it. prolly because I work with special needs children & its not their fualt just like most of our issues are due to his mood swings. but ive decided I can only take so much more & by december if things havent gotten resolved then ill leave. its just hard to think about& to see if I can actually follow through. part of its self esteem and part of its that i still love him very very much. but i want a husband&kids ive always known that-hes the same way -but i cant have kids with someone who cant be stable for me or them & who cant even handle normal streses of daily life then how could he handle kids or catastrophies? thats what i keep thinking about... plus its gotten worse since ive become more verbal about my un-happieness/things that bother me. anywho thanks for all the advice-you are both very right i know that. i will buy the toys & if he doesnt want to use them fine.. i wont let it bother me. thanks again

thanks yeah he needs a refresher umm he is not worried about short term use but long term, like that if I use it later when im older it will be harder to get off/etc and i will not enjoy sex as much. hes basing this on his exp of how sensitive he used to be having oreskin that had an opening just big enough to urinate through the docs wanted to do a partial cut at birth but his parents refused, so he had a couple really bad infections when he has 8,9,10 became more aware and more cleanly but still had issues & i guess sex was painful so he opted for a partial cut surgery when he was 16 and then his head was able to be exposed with some work at streaching his foreskin. but as a result of never having it exposed was very sensative. anyways this is what he is basing it on, that since gradually over time he has become less sensitive & even without freq sex/masterbation it never goes back to what it was, that he has generally been desensitised over the years he believes that this works the same way with sex & that it will gradually get to be less enjoyable/less feeling etc over the years and that freq use of a vibrator etc will speed up that inevitability. yeah.. he has a lot of issues around sex etc, i dont at all so its kinda hard. well at least ive gotten over my issues mostly except for the finding it hard to talk to him about these things -but thats because hes soo negative mostly. anywho im writing this because we had a long talk about why he was so negative about vibrating toys & this is what he told me... i showed him replies from this site and from others that said sont worry-its a myth but he still believes what he read & that the info i found doesn't talk about the long term effects so he's still strong in his opinion. what it boiled down to was he said if you want one-get it but dont expect me to be tuned on/excited about it. yeah.. so whats the point i didnt just want it for me, i wanted it to use 2gether as well. so yeah thats how that went down. thanks for all your patience & support! its also quite ironic since he is in schol right now -with a health care major! hes already an emt/phlebotomist and doing nursing right now!

umm yeah so I posted this earlier on another post about how i read somewhere that vibrators can desensitize you. well I talked to my bf & told him what you said hes still firm hes not buying be a vibrating toy and doesn't want me to buy one for mself. he says that what I read a while back was something he gave me that was a medical journal & that it was a relaiable source & it makes sense that if you use something that powerful/that vibrates that it would desensitize you and make it harder to orgasm during oral, or take a lot longer So I guess I want to convince him so he feels comforatable... but in your experience after using vibrating toys for a while does it take you longer? does it increase the amount of time it will take my bf to get me off as apposed to how long it took him before i started using the toys? I understand what you say about not expecting a man to be able to go as fast as a bullet, thats not the issues. its more of wether it will start to take longer for him to be able to get me off. part of it is that he likes that im so sensitive (overly sensitive) kinda like how most are when they try for their second in a row but rght from the beginning.. not always but for the most part i am super sensative & he doesn't want that to change. also he says he likes being the one to make me orgasm as apposed to a toy, & that if i want it more often hell work on doing that for me but.. i dunno its not a size thing for him hes the first guy to get me off, others tried, really tried but i had mind blocks/issues around forced sex/being hurt & i guess i just couldn't relax. & i learned to with him. i guess he feels like hes the first and wants to be the only thing/person to ever get me off... so yeah just ranting i guess.. wanting advice if you have any etc. thanks

thanks just never tried before & didn't want to be dissapointed.

ummm i guess I am wondering what I should buy. My question is this... Do all women get off by vibrations clitorally? I dont know if I would or not so I am cautious about getting vibrating toys if they dont get me. is there a majority of women who get off this way, or many who dont? I have multiple items i want to buy/try but am wondering if I should just buy a simple vibrator-cheap first to try so I know. any help or informatin on this matter would be great! oral & fingers work for me usually in under 5 minutes looking for something to use during sex since i cant orgasm during sex & its hard for me to manually get myself during sex. also just looking for something that would help with multiple orgasms as I can get them but my hands get too tired/sore to go on.

I swallow.. always have even the first time when i didn't really know anything about giving a bj was but tried anyways it was just my natural reflex. plus i think spiiting loks/sounds etc worse esp if your in the bedroom etc. I was outside so it didn't really matter what I did. I must say though if it takes to long to go from the penis to my mouth it gets cold & is gummy/chewy & that makes me feel icky when i swallow i gag a bit then. so no licking it off myself or my partner if it akes too long to get to that point. well ill do it but i wont enjoy it.

Happy shopping! yeah i was looking at that one.. but i read on another site a review that wasn't very good so I wasn't sure. umm plus I liked that the tickler didnt have a control pad, the controls were on it instead. but like i said im new to this.. just thought that the controler is just an extra thing to get in the way. have you found this to be true? plus my bf is larger than the tickler and we are having problems with sex hurting due to me having unexplained frequent yeast infections since last novemebr basically after I had a biopsy they started and its only now that im infection free... so needless to say he hurts me again & weve got to get back into the swing of things & having sex more often.. so a larger one prolly wouldnt be bad cause i need to work on streching me out basically : / so sex can be better with him. thanks

so what your saying is it wont make it hard for my bf to get me off, just take longer, i guess i was worried that it would not feel good with him or not happen.... ummm i dont know.... i guess stuff i can use with him and alone.... yeah i guess together and separate use for now would be best thanks and maybe a clit and vaginal in one? just wondering what would be best ur reccomendations are great but you also have a lot of toys you reccomend, and i can only afford a few right now...

okay so I want to buy some toys, ive never had a toy at all and feel its time i like dp anal clit and penetration my bf doesn't like anal so yeah.... have experience in that area just not for the past 4 years that ive been with him i was looking at these: Shane's World Anal 101 Intro Beads Our Price $7.95 Rascal Rabbit with Tickler Our Price $19.95 Ultra Smooth Vibrator Our Price $9.00 Vibrating Wiggle Wand Our Price $13.85 Jessica's strobing probe Our Price $29.95 just basics for now i guess would be good low on funds at the moment just wondering about the 3 vibrators and the wiggle wand i pretty much only get orgasms via clit stim ive had multiple orgasms i can get the gspot orgasm but its hard and not all that fufilling compared to clit orgasms i come pretty easily within 5min or less usually but do get over stimulated easily so i prolly dont need anything too powerful also i read somewhere a long time ago that using vibrators etc can be bad because it desesitises you, has anyone found this to be true, i guess im worried cause i dont want to make it harder to orgasm or become less sesitive. any suggestions would be great... thanks