Rea - I don't really have a lot to add to what Howard, Mikayla, Tyger have already said--they always give such great advice. But I wanted to reassure you that after watching and listening to my husband and his friends, it sounds like most men are attracted to women who take care of themselves--are clean, groomed, appear to have put at least a little effort into looking good, and most of all, are having a good time. Of course there are going to be guys who are really into boobs or legs, or whatever other body part appeals to them, and that's okay. Here's my example: I was in fantastic shape when we got married 7 years ago, but since then I've gained and lost 30 pounds, developed stretch marks, had a baby (and the resultant pouch), breastfed our daughter for a year, lost most of the baby weight, and am currently pregnant again. Despite the lumps, bumps, sags, and stretch marks my husband still thinks I'm beautiful and marvels at the fact that he has (almost) anytime access to a real, live, naked, willing woman. I think that's one of the miracles of love--that we're willing to both look beyond the imperfections in our partner and trust that our partner will see beyond our imperfections. Good luck.