lovemylife

I met a man last year while married. This man was married as well. We both have kids with our ex spouses. None together. I left my husband and divorced him the first of this year and he left his wife 5 months ago. He is not finalized the divorce but the papers are filed and in the 90 day waiting period. My problem is is that I am still in the closet. the wife does not know I exsist. He still talks to her everyday and maybe 2 or 3 times a day. They still do family eatings at his family and his excuse is he did not know she was coming. they both live in different homes and he stays with me half of the week. I am so confused on where I stand and YES i understand the way we meet and they say these type of relationships usually dont work but why would he still have this kind of relationship with his ex if he wants this divorce. He says he has to be nice to her for the kids sake. I thought when you divorce you stop eating at each others family outings and only talk when it involves the kids. I know I should walk away but I really love so many things about him but this is the one thing that I just cant get over. Any advice???

Oh hunny if you only knew my story!! My BF and I have been having anal sex for atleast a month when this happened to us. He is big and very long so it was going to happen eventually. anyway, that same day I had felt constipated but did nothing about it and that night he wanted anal so I gave in and low and behold he pulled out and said DONT MOVE! A very flat terd had hit the bed. Oh my god it was embarrassing as hell but so funny. He just said "Damn Hunny'. From now on I use an enema when I think Im going to let him have anal. It happens and all men know when they put that dick in there it may happen. Dont feel bad dear.

I wonder this myself but I do know that I am peeing when I need to go before sex and I just dont. I can tell when my BF enters me and its a big gush within 2 minutes. Lucky 4 me it did not smell like pee but I knew I had to go b 4 we started. I know when I ejuaculate because its more creamier and the feeling is just amazing. I understand that fluid coming from down there can be confusing at times but luckily urine will have an ammonia odor and cum has its own odor. Hope this helps.

I was married for 15 years and recently divorced him. I have had several sexual partners to whom I gave blow jobs to and always had great reviews afterwards. I met this man that I love and I think he loves me but the first time I gave him head I was amazed how big he was and I sucked and licked like I did every other man. After about 5 minutes my head was shoved down on his dick and I choked on it. I came up and was shocked because I swear I almost passed out. we laughed about it for several weeks but now when I give him head he always complains after that I dont know what I am doing. I feel so horrible to know that I have been doing this to the man I love and the whole time he is thinking how bad I am at it. He has metioned to me that my dick sucking skills are awful. this hurts and have told myself I will never try to please him this way again. He is atleast 9 inches long and very thick and Im just not use to his size. is there a way to just get over this and accept I must not know what Im doing or he is just being a jerk.