Sexy_Blonde69

i was 14, my 15th birthday was days away and i had a huge crush on this guy, so much so that i thought i was soooo deeply in love with him, mainly becasue i was being a rebel because my family forbid me to see him becasue he was a "trouble maker" of the religion (my parents are both hindu, though not indian... whole nother story! lol), so... one day we were swimming in my pool and i dove in and he dove in under me, all of a sudden he grabbed me and gave me this chilling passionate kiss UNDER THE WATER... it was enough to drive me off the wall... later that night... i was lying in the garden (in peru) with him looking up at the stars when i just turned on my side, my hand supporting my head, and i said.. "so.. what are you getting me for my birthday?" and he said " i dunno yet... still thinking about it" I said " i know what you can give me and it wont cost you anything.." he said " what?" (with a devilish smile) and i simply said " i want you to give me the most passionate night you could give any girl, for my birthday" he just looked at me stunned, not knowing what to say and then, i just kissed him. we didnt do it that night, but the day of my birthday... we were all at my house celebrating with my friends, and at exactly 36 mins after 12 (the time i was born) he came up to me, said he had a surprise and took me to one of the rooms at my friends house... {which was right next to mine (in peru there are a cluster of houses gated together)} which was completly lit by candles and roses and said... " is this what you had in mind?" right then and there i couldnt belive my eyes and had this huge nervous smile on my face... needless to say.. it was one of the most passionate and memorable days of my life(although iw as a little git at the time and had no idea what an orgasm was, i would change a thing about it!).. and i am so glad that i didnt listen to my parents! lol. :-D

yes i have and will again!!!

i absolutely love the smell of CURVE.... my hubby wore it when we first started dating na di got hooked from day one. now, if i smell it out of the blue, by senses heighten and i can feel my pussy start to drip. hmm...just thinking about the smell excites me!!!! i even have a tiny bottle of curve in my toy box that i spray in the air before i play... that way, when i come, i smell the cologne and automatically imagine my hubbies the one doing the work!!!!

use lube and lay on your back craddling his dick in you tits...

hi up and out, i have the same issues you have with power and noise and size! lol. a few weeks ago they there offerring the dual bullet for free and ofcourse i picked it up. i have then ordered many a toys from this site, but i must confess that the dual bullet is by far my favorite, only because it is small, offers clit and vaginal and/or anal stimulation; SUPER powerful and very quiet... so you might want to give that one a try. im sure its normal price isnt alot, so even if it isnt you cup of tea, it wont be that huge of a loss.... but trust me when i say... id would be a ok if all my toys were stolen.. except for that one. lol. let me know how it goes through a pm or something cuz i can never keep track of all these posts!!!

this toy seems interesting, however when i searched it, nothing came up.. is it called something else????

thank you guys! howard, i have been exprirementing with what you said in this post. it does work, youre right. and it feels oh so good! katprr, i know what you mean, i feel like my lips still twitch even after im done. like if the bullet was still on me and in me.... although it doesnt feel bad... just weird!!! thank you for all the advice....

"YOu are not a freak and there is nothing wrong with you, you just have to let your body adjust to the new sensations. It is not numbness that you are sensing, it is just the extra blood flow to the region - you can learn to adjust to it." PHEW!!! ami glad to hear that! lol. well thank you for the post and i will try both. :-)

hello everyone! hope all is good and that you guys enjoyed your holidays!!! well, recently i just learned how to have an orgasm. this site is amazing, i dont know how people that dont know about this site live with their selves! lol. well, i recently got into this toy frenzy and ive ordered like 6 toys and 3 dvds from this site. All my toys got here before christmas so i was very exited. ... well i have realized that i am a clit girl... BUT lately its like nothing works after the first time i cum. i feel like my labias and my clit go COMPLETLY NUMB and then i just cant feel anything, actually.... its quite unconfortable and very frustrating. i usually use a dual vibrator for the job because it not only offeres dual penetration but it is also powerful. i have come to learn that i need some twirk in my toys, none of that soft "love!", because when i have tired a "softer" vibe, it really doesnt do anything for me..... has this happened to any one? why is it happening and what do i do to fix it? -me :-D

well i used to swallow my hubbies cum but for the past year or so i havent only because for soemreason or another it smells like clorox and tastes really bitter. does anyone know why this would be and how to fix it???

ofcourse i know it is not true, but when i stumbled upon this article i was in such aw for the women of that culture. i cannot believe that some men are so pigheaded and egotistical that they mutilate their own women. its hard to believe that these women go on with their lived not knowing what real pleasure is because of their husbands..... this goes to show how lucky we are to be able to believe in what we want and be able to be sexually open with anything and everything.... all i can say is... WOW! thanks for the posts guys!!!

ok, so i was reading Anne Rice's Beauty's Release and i stumbled across a section where they talk about arabian women and their vaginas.... well i got a little intrigued and decided to do some research... this is what i found on MASTURBATION.... The "proven" medical effects of masturbation - which, of course, include damage to the eyesight - were once listed by Abd al-Aziz bin Baz, the late Grand Mufti of Saudi Arabia, and his list is reproduced on numerous Islamic websites. According to bin Baz, masturbation causes disruption of the digestive system, inflammation of the testicles, damage to the spine ("the place from which sperm originates"), and "trembling and instability in some parts of the body like the feet". In addition, there is a weakening of the "cerebral glands" leading to decreased intellect and even "mental disorders and insanity". Furthermore, "due to constant ejaculation, the sperm no more remains thick and dense as it normally occurs in males". This results in sperm which is not "mighty enough" to make a woman pregnant or produces children who are "more prone to disease and illness". CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT???? furthermore... is it true???

i got a pocket rocket! geez! that thing is powerful!!! lol. i love it. its pink and purdy!!!! lol. hope you guys had as much fun as i did!!! ~muah

I toatally agree, i like books that have a story line to them. books where there is alot of teasing and seducing!!!! i like happy endings too. definately check out " Every Breath You Take" by Judith McNaught.... that book is by far the best written book ive read..... four stars ****

thank you thank you! i am so relieved and happy. i have been showing my boyfriend the ropes lately too and hes pretty interested in knowing how the female orgasm works and what he can do to pleasure me. i am so excited! :-D. thanks alot guys!!!

THANK YOU!!! yay! i am soooo happy and relieved!!! for a while there i thought i was broken!!! lol. now i can really start to enjoy sex not only for him but for me too! yay!

Yes! I finally got my double bullet in the mail this weekend!!! When it arrived I wasn’t home and my hubby received it. He immediately called me and said "honey, your toy is home!" I have been anticipating this little friend since I read about it. Well, as soon as I received that phone call I rushed home ASAP!!! When I got there I was a bit disappointed that I got the silver one, I really wanted the purple one! But either way... it was here!!! I also ordered some lube that I couldn’t wait to try. I immediately ran upstairs into the bedroom, and told my hubby "I will be busy for the next hour, please no interruptions!" I’m not sure it you guys have read an earlier post I had concerns about reaching an orgasm. Indeed I never really felt what a full blown orgasm was until this little toy! Of course I did research on orgasms and how to give yourself one first before any one else can. Mikaela and Howard helped a lot with the posts and the sex ed. so I took their advice. When I got to the room, I shut the door and headed towards the bathroom. I turned the tub on, and sprinkled some lavender vanilla bath suds in the water & let it lather a bit. I lit some candles and put some relaxing music on. FYI I was taking this so seriously because I was looking forward to a mind blowing orgasm, something I knew I never felt before! So I jumped in the tub, and just relaxed a bit with a glass of wine, just breathing deep and relaxing. Slowly I brought my hand up to my breasts and started to tease myself. Just feel where I sensitive spots were and what made me shiver and what didn’t. Then I slowly inched my way to my pussy, something I knew I wasn’t going to get too much enjoyment out of since i've tried before and it’s been pointless, never the less I listened to what Howard and Mikaela said all the way. Surprisingly, it actually felt kinda good... well after I got myself a little worked up, I jumped out of the tub, dried off and headed out side to my bed. I laid down and took a deep breath, just relaxing and caressing myself. I got the new toy and lube out of the box and just examined it, like if it was a foreign thing, at least to me it was! So finally I said, "what the fuck, lets see if this shit really works!" so I turned it on and to my surprise it was a powerful little massager. I brought it down to my nipples, my stomach my inner thighs, slow and careful not to touch my clit with it as I was instructed by Howard in PM's. I was just teasing myself, touching my lips, my anus, and my legs. Then finally, I put some lube on my clit and brought my little friend to a spot that had been throbbing for some attention. As I moved it around, I felt tingly all over. I pinched my nipples and pulled my hair. I arched my back and moaned. It felt AMAHZING!!!! I was shocked! I took the second bullet (the one with the "pleasure bumps" and lubed it up a bit, put some lube on my pussy and stuck it in as deep as I could get it so my hand was free. OMG, it was soooooo good!!!! I couldn’t help but smile to myself! I squirmed and relaxed, then I remembered what mikaela said about breathing, and the proper circulation of oxygen allows you to hold your orgasm longer (although at this point I wasn’t sure if I was holding anything at all) but I just took deep controlled breaths, and before I knew it I had an attack of heat running through my body, a heat I never felt before, and I stopped. Cooled down and thought to myself "WHOAH! This shit really works!" “I have no idea what that heat flash was, but it felt good" "lets see it I can do it again!!" so I started again on my now throbbing dripping clit and there it was again after less that 2 mins.... that unexplained heat wave. But I didn’t stop this time; I kept going and breathing, when suddenly, my whole body tensed up and the next thing I know I was screaming in the pleasure. I let out my breath and I felt a wave of wetness exit my pussy.... OH MY FUCKING LORD!!!! I just had an orgasm! For the first time in my life, all my muscled ached, but it was an oh so good ache! And my pussy throbbed from not knowing what the fuck just happened while my leg twitched. That was mind-blowing. I slipped the toy out of my pussy and just laid there in amazement! So I guess this post goes to Mikaela and Howard... THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH!!! FINALLY I CAME!!!

ok. i LOVE to read erotica books. if youre into the whole erotica/love stories, you MUST read Every Breath You Take by Judith McNaught. that book is amazing. and if you are into the whole control thing, or would like to open your mind to sex a little more you have to read the Trilogy Of Sleeping Beauty by Anne Rice. those three books really opened my eyes to alot of things and made me realize that sex is AWESOME! lol... tell me how it goes... id like to know your opinion on the books... ;-)

hey guys! if you really like erotica books, you should read... 1) Every Breath You Take by Judith Mcnaught; i read that book and had fantasies for weeks straight about it. it was great. great story line, great sex scenes and a great closing! 2) Trilogy of Sleeping Beuty by Anne Rice; i read all three, and honestly it made me look at sex in a completly different point of view. i realized that sex between men and women; or women and women; or men and men; or more than one lover at a time; isnt unnatural, and isnt a sin like we are made to believe. honestly, those books are A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!!! def read those. very good

thank you! you and howard have both been phenominal! the reason why ive had so many is when i was a bit younger (16) i just got into this sex frenzy. i had all the attention i could ever want from any guy that i walked passed, and it felt good to be able to do what i want with whoever i want. now, 3 years later, i realize i can still keep that feeling, but have commited myself to one guy, to who ive been faithful and with for 2 1/2 yrs. and very happy! i think it was more or a rebelious stage of mine, i just wanted to be grown up and do everything my parents told me not to! lol. well i ordered the double bullet. its awesome that we can get one item (if not more) free a month. i believe that this is the first website ive seen do that, and thats probably one of the reasons why its so good. it not only sells toys, but helps people, and educates. :-D! best website ever. well ow, 3 yrs later(after my sex fenzy) i am really starting to appreciate sex. i look at it completly diferent, and some people might ask "how do you view sex diferently from before. Sex is sex." well, i have finally realized that sex isnt only physical, but emotional. i enjoy it now more than i ever did because im with a man that i truly love. i will deffinately take your advice and howards and see if i can help myself! LITERALLY! lol. i used to hate the thought of masturbating, and when ever i tried it before, i felt nothing. but i the past 4 months i have seen masturbating in a completly different form. it was embedded in my head that masturbating was something unclean and useless, until one day one of my friends, as a JOKE bought me a vibrator. it is blue and like 8"X1.5". just something simple from spencers. i looked at it and just laughed. then one day i came across an article about stress relief and it said that there is nothing better and pleasuring yourself to get some steam off. so with that said, i went in my drawer and pulled out this massive(at least it was to me) vibrator. i turned it on... and the vibrations werent all that great, in my hand. i thought they should be a little more intense. well, i grabed my lube and went down south with my new friend! at first i didnt feel anything, but then WHAM! i hit my happy spot; my clit. it felt soooooo good. but now after i got the advice from you and howard, i see what i am doing wrong. the moment i felt the tingly sensations i would tense up and then it would be gone, and it got frustrating, cuz i couldnt understand, it was just teasing me, little did i know i was doing that to myself! also, another reason i think it wasnt as effective, it was just too big and too heavy for clit stimulation only. so, i saw that free double bullet, and ordered it along with some lube. i cant wait to get it and try all the pointers you two have given me. i know i will get an amazing orgasm after this. i already bought some lavander vanilla massage oil(lavender is a relaxant, and vanilla soothes) so i think i will be just fine. i will be able to just pop the larger bullet in and pleasure myself to endless orgasms with the smaller one on my clit. i already have it all planned out, and since i get out of work a 1pm and my bf is just leaveing for work around that time and doesnt come home till 9pm, i will have plenty of time to experiemt and see what works and what doesnt. SOOOO.... as soon as i get it in i will try it out and let everyone know what happened and how amazing my FIRST KNOWN ORGASM WENT! wooo hooo!!!!

id like to see that!!

well, thank you!!! i realized that there was a sex talk section AFTER i posted the blog! lol. but i did read all of it, and digested alot and actually got a chance to kind of practice. i think the problem is i only have 1 toy and its really not all that great! i will buy some more! lol. but thank you for making me feel better nad not so insecure about the # and that i am not the only one that has these inquiries! i appreciate it. :-D

Hi there guys! i am new here. i was just looking for cool xmas gifts and some how or another ended up on this page!!! well i am glad because i have always wanted to ask a certain question but never had the balls to. in my life, i have had what i believe too many partners, maybe 20. im 19, i dont know EVERYTHING about sex, thats why i am here! out of all those men, i dont BELIEVE ive had not 1 orgasm. maybe i have gotten orgasms, but i dont know what its suppose to feel like. granted, the sex felt good, but ive never reached the point or ecstacy that so many of you talk about. maybe its just that i dont know what to feel. when ive had sex with men, the sex felt good, but again i never reached the "exploding peak". when i have played with myself and my vibrator it feels good too, and with my vibrator i reach a point of amazing pleasure, but no where near what you guys describe orgasm-ing to be. so here are my questions... 1) how do i know i had an orgasm? 2)men have the cum that comes out of their penis, do women have something similar? can we see it? is there suppose to be a wet mark or anything after the "peaking" sensations? 3)How is an orgasm suppose to feel, or what should i be feeling if i have gotten one before? 4)i ONLY get the amazing pleasure from clitoris stimulation, and mostly only with a vibrator(not my finger or his; a vibrator!) why cant i stimulate myself with out one?

Hi there guys! i am new here. i was just looking for cool xmas gifts and some how or another ended up on this page!!! well i am glad because i have always wanted to ask a certain question but never had the balls to. in my life, i have had what i believe too many partners, maybe 20. im 19, i dont know EVERYTHING about sex, thats why i am here! out of all those men, i dont BELIEVE ive had not 1 orgasm. maybe i have gotten orgasms, but i dont know what its suppose to feel like. granted, the sex felt good, but ive never reached the point or ecstacy that so many of you talk about. maybe its just that i dont know what to feel. when ive had sex with men, the sex felt good, but again i never reached the "exploding peak". when i have played with myself and my vibrator it feels good too, and with my vibrator i reach a point of amazing pleasure, but no where near what you guys describe orgasm-ing to be. so here are my questions... 1) how do i know i had an orgasm? 2)men have the cum that comes out of their penis, do women have something similar? can we see it? is there suppose to be a wet mark or anything after the "peaking" sensations? 3)How is an orgasm suppose to feel, or what should i be feeling if i have gotten one before? 4)i ONLY get the amazing pleasure from clitoris stimulation, and mostly only with a vibrator(not my finger or his; a vibrator!) why cant i stimulate myself with out one?