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When giving I like for him to either stand up or sit on the bed so I can feel like I am completely submissive to him. I will often put on bright red lipstick so he can really see how much I take in at a time. I also like to look him in the eye to give him something to visuallize later.

Hubby and I have talked about it both in the heat of passion and outside the bedroom. I don't think it is anything we would probly do-just one of those things that is better kept as a fantasy in our relationship. We have talked about letting him watch me with someone else (side note, I offered to let him watch me with another woman, he said no-can you belive that?) If he wanted to persue it, I'm not sure how I would react. I think that having kids also changes things in how you deal with such topics and issues. I think that we may have persued it further if there were no kids involved. We did some awesome things when we could just go at it any time and any where we wanted...now, it is confined to a well scheduled date. Last time we went out, I offered him a BJ as we were driving around-he was concerned about having an accident and getting arrested because we had both had a couple of drinks! But I digress, I don't beleve a threesome is something that I would be prepared to do just because I know I would over analize looks and giggles between the two of them if it were FFM, and I really don't want another man so, FMM wouldn't do me any good!

OMG that would SUCK!! the timing of this post is funny- I was just thinking about this!!! Great topic!

Well, my fav right now is the only one I have--My little G spot stimulator that I got as a free bee from TT. LOVE IT!!! My hubby bought me a vibe a few years ago, but my cats got to it (Long story!) and this is the first one I've had since then. Hubby has always been able to get me to a G-spot O just using himself, but this little thing is AMAZING!! I use it just about every chance I get. We had it out last time we were together and it added a whole new level to the sex play and orgasm its self. Thank you TT!!!

The driving thing- I was told that after the vag deliveries that it was because your uturus hasn't returned to normal size and if you were in an accident where your stomach hit the wheel, you could bleed out if the EMS' didn't know you just had a baby.???

My children are 3 and (almost) 2. I was told no penitration for six weeks with my first, no stimulation with my second. Not that it mattered a whole lot with either one. I don't think I would have let hubby get close to me with that thing either way. Lucky for me, he was in the delivery room both times and it took him a while to realize I was a woman and not just a mommy. Of course, I would have given hubby oral had he wanted it or showed interest in sex at all. Hope that answers your question!!

I am comfortable discussing it with my business partner - I am with her 12 hrs a day!- and my sisiter-almost 300 miles away-- in both instansces, I will talk about querky things that happen, but not about tips or techniques. For that I come here!! I am also very confortable talking to hubby about what he likes, not so much about what I like--I am working on that part! However, not with my mom and never EVER with my dad! I think both my sister and business partner would b shocked if I shared with them everything that I did or how hubby and I got together in the first place- and mom would have a heart attack

I took him (now hubby) by the tie and led him down a hotel stairway and fucked him there I only spoke to him a few times and barely knew him-we were on a business trip--one of those what happens here stays here--now we have been together for four years and have two kids-guess it didn't stay on the trip. So, I guess that as a pretty bold move to let him know I was interested.

Funny, my hubby asked me to masterbate in front of him when we had been dating for about 2 months. It was the strangest thing I have ever done!! When I asked him why, he said that he wanted to know how to pleasure me (which by the way, he has never had a problem doing) and who knows how to pleasure me more than me??? But, I am up for anything so what the hell--- We rented a movie and I laid on the floor and let him watch. It was really a libertating experience- I didn't feel like I had to apologize for what was turing me on from the movie or what I was doing. It was also a very intimate experiece as he is the only one who has EVER seen me do it. It is such a turn on for me now. I don't ask him to watch, but I love it when he just takes the time to learn about me.

I have only done anal with one man- my ex husband- and now I want to try it with my new hubby. I have told him that I have done it before, and I know he has too, but we have never done it together. so my question is this: how do I ask him for it? We usually have sex missionary, but the only way I have done anal is doggy. I don't want to put too much on him at once- especially since the sex is just now starting to pick up after a year long drout. But since we are starting to do it again, I want EVERYTHING!! Any suggesstions?

As some of you know, things have been a little----slow----for hubby and I. We went out last night, just the two of us, no kids Well, he always goes down on me but after I cum, he is ready to fuck and doesn't always give me the opportuntiy to return the oral favor. I made sure I slowed him down last night and used some of these techniques on him...needless to say, he was very happy! (I'll be writing a 'story' about it shortly.) I wanted to say thank you to everybody here. I am so glad I found a site where we can all be adults and share tips and stories in an adult manner. I feel like I can go here and get some great ideas without it being 'dirty' or giggly in the high school sort of way.

Thank you!!!

i just wanted to stop by and give a quick update-- I got laid!!! (yes, by my husband) We had a wonderful night--and morning. He did admit that that was the first time he had been hard in a year..... recently we have paid off debt that that totaled about 800 a month so that burden was lifted. thank you all for your kind words

Ok, When I am taking care of myself, I have this image that still makes my stomach quiver..... Ready? Here it is....I think about my husband! One nightt when hubby went down on me, I watched the whole time. I will usually just sneak a peak now and then. That and the first time we had sex and he was behind me, he wispered in my ear "I am going to fill you" just before he came. Between those two, I get to where I'm going in no time! I will admit that This is the first mad I have been with that I don't have the need to think about other men/people/shopping when we are having sex. He is so skilled in what he does (when he does it) that with him is the only place I want to be. Another ode to him: he is the first mad who gave me an orgasem. Before him, I was wondering what the big deal was....now I know. With others, I never completely 'there' and my mind would wonder to my work day, or the stain on the ceiling!

Thank you so much for this post!!! It really helps to have a guys opionon on this subject. Since my post, I have started working- I am now working in a daycare (which allows me to stay with my children) and bringing home food money. He is in sales, and I know that is a high pressure job, (he was doing that when I got preg for both children). I try not to nag him too much. He is great as far as helping with the children and cleaning up the dishes when dinner is done. How long did it take for you guys to get 'back on track'? I just wanna know how much longer I have to wait