*In response to Desires04: He lives in Europe and has his own apartment. I'm hoping that the toy I just ordered from TT will help ease my 'pains'. I'll be 22 soon but until I'm 24, I'll just have to keep bouncing back and forth. He's everything and more (minus no sex), and I love him so much. I've had prior "relationships" that were nothing but sex. Althought it was fun, I wish I could trade all of that to be with him for longer than 3 months at a time. I think how we are with each other is so good and I miss him soooo much right now. I'd like to believe that sex doesn't make the relationship and it hasn't been the main thing in our life as a couple before, but it's not very nice to go from having sex a few times a month to nothing at all. *In response to Tyger: I think I might've pressured him into sex. For a while, anytime a kiss lingered too long and I got a tingle, I'd "push" (for lack of another word) for sex. I had asked him and the response was always, "I don't know." I did ask if it was me and he said no. It's just hard to believe, you know? He doesn't take drugs; he won't even take an asprin for a headache. He certainly wasn't having sex with someone else because we lived together and he didn't have a job for the 3 months I was there. I'm replying to this because maybe there's something you see that I don't. I just wish I could put my mind at ease, but my mind can't stop thinking about it. Any information ya'll can think of that might be missing? This is most certainly a case I'd like to have shut. Thank you guys!