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I have tried the Magic shaving powder. It works ok but man. does it smell bad. I'm more of a shaver, old school I guess, been doing it since I was 20 or so.

For me, NOTHING can hold a candle to a man who knows how to use his tongue.... oh my......

I totally agree with you! I wholeheartedly think the woman should choose the third party. Like I said, preferrably like vacation sex... someone who doesn't live near you or have any history with you. A one time thing. Which is all good in theory I know... Not so sure about the application.

I tried it many years ago with a boyfriend and a male friend of his. It didn't really have an effect on our relationship, which wasn't going anywhere anyway. We were both very young and just having fun. My husband and I never dabbled in it outside of the fantasy aspect. A FFM is one I would really like to try with a SO at least once. For me anyway, IMO it doesn't have to change things IF there are rules . What is allowed what you feel comfortable with... etc I think if it's more like a vacation sex, giving each other the gift of a fantasy kind of attitude and all the stars line up for it to happen, it could be fun.

Sometimes it takes awhile to figure it all out especially if you're both inexperienced. You're married and love each other... you need to be able to talk aobut these things. Communication is key to a great sex life, you just need to make that leap. I'd say start small here. A talk outside the bedroom. There has to be some beginner videos that you could watch together. Not porn per se but instructional. Once the door is open I think you'll both start feeling a bit more relaxed and free about the whole subject. I agree that initiating on your part would be a good thing as well. Even things like calling him at work to tell him how much you want him or what you want to do to him etc... is a starting point. Good luck.

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Thanks for the review... I like that it's jelly so it's soft and not too big. I think I need me one of these before my next visit. mmmmmmm

LOL Kat... You have to try things to see if you like them. Did n't you mom ever tell you that?? Try this....... lay with your ass at the edge of the bed, your feet resting on his chest as he penetrates you, while you're rubbing yourself. Have him suck your toes before and during orgasm and then come and tell us.....

Great memory Howard... I've had them sucked during penetration but not actual orgasm...I already know I'd like it, have to give it a try.

LOVE having my toes sucked during sex.... I can't describe it, it's almost like electricity going from my feet straight to my pussy. I don't automatically orgasm..(lucky you Howard) but it is WONDERFUL!!

This has always been a favorite one of mine as well. I used to imagine my husband was a woman while he was licking me, especially on porn nights.... mmmmmmmmm Watching a woman being eaten by another woman while you get your pussy licked?! Oh my! It is one fantasy I'd like to try with my SO someday if all the planets line up correctly.......

Hmmm, sounds interesting. I've contemplated piercing my hood but several reasons keep holding me back. I should try the fake ones to see if it's something I'd really like to do. Thanks!

My favorite toy is my 8" real skin dildo with balls and a suction cup. No batteries just moving how I choose... I use it at least 3-4 times a week in conjunction with other forms of mastturbation. I usually get the toys out in the late afternoon or evenings after someone has teased me into a frenzy.

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I'm also an Astroglide fan... now if they would just make it taste better.

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If this is something you've been teasing each other about I'm sure he'll love it! I don't really care for metal handcuffs, they start to hurt and dig in after a while. Have always had good luck with neck ties..... Agree with Mikayla that a paddle is a good addition to your toy box. Don't forget that men like to be tied up and teased too!!

My husband gave me my first dildo, said he wanted to watch me use it and we never looked back... We loved going to the adult store together, great fun!

*giggle* Excellent message, but I hope he doesn't listen to his office messages on speakerphone! Haha ------------------------------------------------------- LOL... so true! Can you imagine the company picnic after that? But, he knows me well enough to know that any message or link from me he'd better open in private.

Congrats!! Babies are such blessings......

I have a friend that writes me erotica. Personalized really gets the mindfuck going, very essential. DVD's once in a while, toys of course. Phone sex is high on my list now with honey out of state. I called him during the other day to let him listen at work and he didn't answer. I just kept going and left it on his machine... fun for me and him. And yes, mutual masturbation is very high on my list.... love it!!

My son will be 19 in a month so it's hard to remember but... I think I was told 6 weeks also. My episiotmy was very sore so I can't imagine we had IC again till that healed. Bj's and hj's not withstanding. I had a friend who was pregnant again when she went in for her 6 week check up. OMG............ Two babies in the same year.

Smiling, she slid to her knees between his spread knees, eyeing him like a hungry animal while gripping his cock in her small, soft hands. His ass muscles clenched on the soft bed quilt as he sat looking down at her, anxious for more. Keeping steady eye contact, she leaned down to lick his stiff, throbbing shaft slowly, applying a new coat of spit. His mind filled with pure lust as he watched her talented lips and tongue engulf his aching cock. She was practically drooling on his manhood, slathering fresh saliva on it repeatedly as no woman had before. He reached out slowly to place his hand on her head, lacing his fingers through her blonde hair. At first it was to help and then, maybe, to force just a bit. A groan reverberated in his mind watching his woman perform on him. Bracing himself with his other hand on the bed behind him, he rocked forward a bit harder into her, knowing she would handle it with no problems. Aside from a half choke, she accommodated him easily, his thick cockhead penetrating her throat. She dug her nails into the flesh of his muscled thighs before running them down to his knees, making him wince in pain. Her left hand slid back up his inner thigh to cup his hanging nut sack, tickling and teasing him softly while her other hand slid downward out of sight. His eyes widened when he saw the muscles on her arm bunching and rolling in that unmistakable rhythm of self-pleasure. She shut her eyes tightly and moaned into his raging stiffness, sending shivers rippling through his entire pelvic region. Wanting more, he reached down and cupped his hands under her arms, pausing her in mid-suck. With her lips still tightly sealed around his bloated shaft, she looked into his eyes questioningly. He pulled her upward and leaned backward as she regained her feet. She knew from experience what he had in mind. Her nimble body quickly rotated as she climbed onto him, one leg lifting over his torso before settling her body down on him. He sucked in a quick breath, feeling her slight weight descend on his shoulders as she straddled her wet sex over his face. She exhaled a soft, sensual moan as his warm, wet tongue first grazed her puffy, moist lips. She gripped him roughly at the base of his penis, pulling the soft skin downward, extending him to full length. The veins on his prick stood out proudly, bulging and raging. Her warm, drooling mouth returned to its task, lovingly ministering to him in an indescribable way. His large hands roughly gripped her soft ass cheeks, pulling and twisting them as he moved her around on his probing tongue. His manhandling elicited a womanly giggle from her as she settled fully on him. His nostrils filled with her sweet, hot, musky scent. He breathed deeply through his nose as her dripping pussy encompassed his mouth. His fingers joined his powerful tongue, parting her slit easily, dipping in to massage and tickle her favorite parts. Her hips began to grind downward uncontrollably, helping him, urging him to go deeper and harder. She opened her mouth to moan around his cock, not quite taking it all the way out. He felt the humid air graze across the fat head. Pulling back, she rubbed her face all over his extended staff, taking him up one side of her face and down the other, spreading her own salvia and his flowing precum across her cheeks, chin, and lips. His hips jerked spastically as her squeezing hand started pumping him slowly. Her other hand cupped and squeezed his tightening sack, spreading her wet spit across his smooth balls. He took a deep breath and held it, shutting his eyes tightly, reveling in unbelievable sensations shooting through his cock. Unable to hold his breath any longer, he blew it out in a huff against her hard, throbbing clitoris, and then sucked it into his mouth, flicking it softly with his tongue. He slowly dipped the finger of his other hand down inside her ass crack, gently teasing her puckered opening. Using her own juices, he lubed her anus before slowly parting it with his thick thumb. He heard her suck in a quick breath and hold it, pausing for a long count, before letting it go out with a whoosh as she thrust back into him, taking his thumb inside her ass. Her hips quivered uncontrollably as she felt him ass-fuck her with his thumb. Working his mouth and hands in unison he quickened his pace to match hers, knowing he would not last much longer. A deep-throated growl escaped from her with each thrust from his fingers as she skillfully worked his throbbing tool with her hand and mouth. Faster and harder they went, approaching the point of no return. Together they moved in an unplanned, unpracticed harmony. Instinct alone guided them as they pulsed and throbbed from the pleasure, not thinking or knowing what to do next, only knowing they did not want it to stop, ever. The room filled with the smell of sweat, sex, and the unmistakable wet smacking sounds of oral sex. Still struggling to hold back just a bit longer, he felt himself expand in her sucking mouth and the cum begin to flow from deep inside him. He felt the tight undeniable waves begin to ripple from deep within his pelvis, radiating powerfully outward as they spread across his body. He drew in one last desperate gulp of air before his orgasm totally engulfed him. Breath held tight and face beet red, he roared loudly against her drooling, engorged labia, and forcefully blasted his seed inside her mouth. She felt the first thick spurt of cum hit the back of her mouth before pulling back to swallow it down, not caring as more ropes of his hot cum hit her chin and neck. Just the feeling of his spurting cum racing through the stiff cock she held in her hands caused her orgasm to peak. Her wail of pleasure pierced the room as the waves of her intense orgasm crash through her body and mind. She barely noticed the spurts of semen hitting her lips and nose. He felt her spasming pussy walls grip his fingers tightly, milking them in a strange fashion, drawing them inward and holding them in a lust-induced grip. Her sweet, tasty cum coated his lips, tongue, and face. He licked and sucked it loving, the taste of her precious offerings. Their sweaty bodies lay together in a hot embrace as both gasped desperately for breath. Ignoring the throbbing of burning muscles, they took full pleasure in the orgasmic buzz as they gently floated down from ecstasy. Their lips and tongues kissed and licked salty skin softly as they held each other closely. Both were content not moving, only breathing together as one, enjoying the drunken feeling of afterglow.

I agree with the teasing...... tease me till I'm begging because that's what I'm going to do to him when it's my turn to do the tying up. Kiss and drag your tongue on every inch of my body, especially down my back and my inner thighs, lightly brush my lips and clit and move on... make me squirm, make me beg... take me to the edge several times before you push me over. I will sooooooooo reciprocate once I can breathe/walk again....